No of Children

[Flowermonaster]

Yeah yeah yqyq, I also warned my DH before but he bochap so I also bopian! :sad:

He better don't come & tell me he regretted, I will definitely give him a good :nunchuk: plus a good :spank:

yqyq:

yes..me here same..i want to have my bb number 2 but DH object...i just warned him, he better dun change mind when i'm 40's++..then i would be an old cow to give birth

[MMM]

I’ve 3 kids. P4 Girl, P3 Boy and K2 Girl.


It’s stressful having 3 especially for school going kids… Need to have the time to coach them, in addition must have the resources too, etc… no joke.

Sometimes I envy friends who only have 1 and can dedicate all their resources to 1. I am the only child so I personally feel that it is alright to have as I never felt lonely.

On the other hand, I think 2 (1B 1G) is just nice.

Never planned for the 3rd but she came along. However she is very different from my 2 eldest child. So she is like a bundle of joy for us. So probably it was great to have her after all.

Sometimes, it’s nice to see the 2 girls share a close relationship. The boy would also play with them and he share common topic with my eldest as they are in the same CCA.

For me, I am now in my mid 30’s. Shop is definitely close. I have some friends whose 1st child are only coming to 1 yr old. It seems like having a baby is long long time ago for me and I suddenly felt so old.

[Funz]

I have 2 kids. DD (P2) and DS (K2).


We have always wanted 3 if possible even 4 kids. But I guess it is not meant to be. Having conceived 2 kids without any problems, it never did occured to us that we will not be able to have another kid. At one point DH and I were considering getting medical intervention so that we can have a 3rd kid but in the end, we decided to let nature be. If, be it nature or god or fate or whatever you may want to call it decreed that we can only have two kids, so be it. We shall learn to be content and count our blessings.

There will be times when I suffer pangs of doubt, like whether we should have tried harder for a 3rd kid. And there were times when I simply wish so much to hold a baby, my baby, again. Even till now whenever my menses are late, I still hope so much that it will be a surprise pregnancy.

[MummyThreeStreams]

I had always wanted three or four. After the first one, however, DH was not sure we should have more coz of the extra demands. But after some discussion, we went ahead with the second three years later, and realised that it wasn’t as hard as we thought it would be. So we had our third (another three years later).


But don’t think we’ll have no. 4. Getting a bit old and pregnancy will get risker.

[Flowermonaster]

MMM, Funz & mummythreestreams,

How I envy you all! I also wanna hold a soft cute BB in my arms! Really miss their sweet smell. Alas, my DH stand firm that he don't want anymore! :sad:

[ectanz]

Flowermonaster:

MMM, Funz & mummythreestreams,

How I envy you all! I also wanna hold a soft cute BB in my arms! Really miss their sweet smell. Alas, my DH stand firm that he don't want anymore! :sad:

I really :salute: you all (MMM, Funz & mummythreestreams) & mummies tat hv more than 2 kids...Do you all hv any helper such as maid?

After having my dd2, I can't imagine to hv no 3. Mentally n physically very stressful even I hv only 2 kids.

[MummyThreeStreams]

I don’t hire live-in help, but we get lots of support from the grandparents. And I have a part-time cleaner just coz I cannot stand to wash the toilets or iron.

[Flowermonaster]

I had a quarrel with my DS last night now mentally stress even though I have only one kid. :faint:


Anyone knows how old will a boy starts puberty nowadays? Last time used to be from 13/14yrs old. Now I really dont know. A friend told me that his DS also got mood swing when he was in P5 to P6. Her DS will get irritated in everything! Think his unstable emotion could be due to hormone changes. You cant tease or joke with him anymore.

[kiasubox]

hehehe, I got 2, one gal one boy, elder gal is 2 yr+ and younger boy is 9 mth, they're 20mths in gap but in terms of year, one in 2009 and one in 2010, so next time i can save some $ on buying text book

[LOLMum]

Flowermonaster:

I had a quarrel with my DS last night now mentally stress even though I have only one kid. :faint:


Anyone knows how old will a boy starts puberty nowadays? Last time used to be from 13/14yrs old. Now I really dont know. A friend told me that his DS also got mood swing when he was in P5 to P6. Her DS will get irritated in everything! Think his unstable emotion could be due to hormone changes. You cant tease or joke with him anymore.

mood swing in p5/6? probably psle stress.........i guess.