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    In-law problems?

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    • A Offline
      ansh0000
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      in-laws are forever problematics…all becuz they r nt our own parents, we r only their daughter recognized by SG law.


      my ILs used to the kampong lifestyle…while my side of family r the more modern type.

      U can imagine the "clashes" we hv with regards to taking care of kid, etc…what made it worst…I LIVE with them…haiz…

      Lucky, my hubby is supportive & my son "play" a good buffer…if nt i go crazy…

      Hubby and kid play very important role in minimizing the problems btwn DIL and PILs

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        peapot
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        chocolatebar, maybe this post comes abit late but just to let you know anytime anyone wants to help me do the dishes I said go for it!!

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          janet88
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          auntieM:
          janet_lee88:

          [quote=\"auntieM\"]My MIL expects to eat out in fancy restaurants and plays mahjong big time, yet when it comes to stuffs like this she is so 'niao'/'mean'.. ..I really :salute: her..


          Mine here kicks up a big fuss every CNY first day...alamak, only cooking vegetarian and ONCE A YEAR. But she expects to eat out in fancy restaurants too...but when eating at restaurants, she doesn't even dress nicely...like this year CNY reunion lunch...wore what one would wear to kopitiam :faint:

          If I were you, I would dump away those expired food. If hubby gets food poisoning, you will suffer too.

          Thanks janet & coolit.. ..I know for sure DH will never eat them (even by looking...
          want him to see it and believe it! Once I threw away and DH say not expired lah, maybe just dropped on the floor couple of times.. :faint:[/quote]If you want to throw away those stuff, do so without him knowing. That's what I do. After a while, he won't remember those expired or soon to be expired stuff ever existed. :imcool:

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            auntieM
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            Will do just that janet.. ..Trying not to let those stuff upset me.. .. 😉

            ILs organising themselves a bday party this Sunday to 'throw more face' in front of the relatives.. ...so not looking forward deh.. ... :roll:

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              janet88
              last edited by

              auntieM:
              Will do just that janet.. ..Trying not to let those stuff upset me.. .. 😉

              ILs organising themselves a bday party this Sunday to 'throw more face' in front of the relatives.. ...so not looking forward deh.. ... :roll:
              Dump them and you will definitely feel happier. After all, they are expired right ? 😉 I dread to attend those 'face' occasions. I anticipate one when his rude sister returns but don't think there is a need to show up.

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                auntieM
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                Hi janet_lee88,

                You power wor, can 'siam' .. ...envy...
                The funny bit is they do not realize the friends and relatives are there to eat, watch and gossip about how pathetic they are.. ... :stupid:
                I no choice but go relac one corner and watch 'drama'.. ....sianz... . :rant:

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                  janet88
                  last edited by

                  auntieM:
                  Hi janet_lee88,

                  You power wor, can 'siam' .. ...envy...
                  The funny bit is they do not realize the friends and relatives are there to eat, watch and gossip about how pathetic they are.. ... :stupid:
                  I no choice but go relac one corner and watch 'drama'.. ....sianz... . :rant:
                  All thanks to his 'extremely polite' sister who called me names. So there is absolutely no reason why I should give her face. I didn't do anything wrong to be called an idiot. Now I am curious to know which month does CNY fall next year.

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                    auntieM
                    last edited by

                    CNY 2012 should fall on 23rd Jan 2012.. 😉

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                    • janet88J Offline
                      janet88
                      last edited by

                      auntieM:
                      CNY 2012 should fall on 23rd Jan 2012.. 😉

                      What :yikes: CNY next year falls in Jan? So that mother of hers will want to celebrate reunion with that spoilt brat daughter before she returns to US. Oh sh*^ !!!

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                        Angelight
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                        Wah, next yr's CNY so early?? Am planning to get away for holiday. Every year CNY gotta stay in Spore and go thru the same old boring routine... 🤷


                        auntieM:
                        CNY 2012 should fall on 23rd Jan 2012.. 😉

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