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    • C Offline
      constancet
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      yap_susan:
      Hi,

      I am a mother of three children too.
      Now discussing with hubby whether to increase to four children. Any mother of four to share life experience?
      Hi
      I have 4 kids with age ranging from 1.5-8 years old.
      I think the change from 3 to 4 kids is minimal. Cos already chaotic at home. So what is one more baby? I do find my elder kids being more responsible and able to take care of the younger ones alot of the time.
      Was actually preggie with no 5 recently. It was unplanned and we had a shock. Took us 1 month to get mentally prepared. But the sad thing was when we were prepared, discovered this pregnancy to be blighted ovum type. No bb in sac.. Was super sad. Did a D&C just 2 wks ago.
      After this incident, I realised I want another one more kid..
      So hoping for bfp soon....

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        Funx3
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        coolit:
        Are all of you mummies of 3 kids? I recently had my third one. The other 2 are much older. So I am new at this mummy of 3 thing but nice to find a club with so many

        other mummies who also have 3. I thought it was quite rare nowadays.
        :welcome: coolit ....
        And :congrats: on your No 3 Bundle of Joy!
        :celebrate: :celebrate:

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          Castle House
          last edited by

          :hugs: is past le... don't think about it..

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            MintyMin
            last edited by

            constancet:
            Hi

            I have 4 kids with age ranging from 1.5-8 years old.
            I think the change from 3 to 4 kids is minimal. Cos already chaotic at home. So what is one more baby? I do find my elder kids being more responsible and able to take care of the younger ones alot of the time.
            Was actually preggie with no 5 recently. It was unplanned and we had a shock. Took us 1 month to get mentally prepared. But the sad thing was when we were prepared, discovered this pregnancy to be blighted ovum type. No bb in sac.. Was super sad. Did a D&C just 2 wks ago.
            After this incident, I realised I want another one more kid..
            So hoping for bfp soon....
            :hugs: to you.. thanks for sharing constancet. πŸ˜„

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              tigger88
              last edited by

              constancet:
              yap_susan:

              Hi,

              I am a mother of three children too.
              Now discussing with hubby whether to increase to four children. Any mother of four to share life experience?

              Hi
              I have 4 kids with age ranging from 1.5-8 years old.
              I think the change from 3 to 4 kids is minimal. Cos already chaotic at home. So what is one more baby? I do find my elder kids being more responsible and able to take care of the younger ones alot of the time.
              Was actually preggie with no 5 recently. It was unplanned and we had a shock. Took us 1 month to get mentally prepared. But the sad thing was when we were prepared, discovered this pregnancy to be blighted ovum type. No bb in sac.. Was super sad. Did a D&C just 2 wks ago.
              After this incident, I realised I want another one more kid..
              So hoping for bfp soon....

              Hugs to you. I was like you too...had a miscarriage last year and that incident makes me confirmed that I want to go for my 4th one...

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                MintyMin
                last edited by

                tigger jie.. u r a brave one.. though some individuals might not dare to try after a miscarriage.. kudos to u n constancet for wanting a 4th one after the incident.. :grphug: to you both!

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                  tigger88
                  last edited by

                  MintyMin:
                  tigger jie.. u r a brave one.. though some individuals might not dare to try after a miscarriage.. kudos to u n constancet for wanting a 4th one after the incident.. :grphug: to you both!

                  Because DH and I were unsure if we wanted to go ahead with #4. Then I got preggy last year and we took a while to accept it but lost it shortly after. So was more determined to have a 4th one after that.

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                    MintyMin
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                    ic ic.. it is good.. i dun mind also if i do haf a #4.. πŸ˜‰ but i feel.. our family not ready to haf #4 yet.. time will tell.. if GOD plan it for me.. i will graciously accept it.. πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜„

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                      yap_susan
                      last edited by

                      Actually it is hard to find families with more than three children these days.

                      Everywhere I see families of two children and they feel overwhelmed.
                      I feel encouraged by tigger 88, that the change from 3 to 4 children is minimal.
                      My children are boy, girl, boy. Hoping to have another girl to accompany my daughter. Cos she sticks to me like GLUE!

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                        tigger88
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                        yap_susan,


                        mine also boy, gal, boy and the 4th one is a gal. πŸ™‚

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