Club 3 or more Kids

[constancet]

Mummies who quit their job to stay at home, was it very difficult to adjust?

I am exploring this option now....
But gotta cut down alot on their enrichment lessons....

[Castle House]

SAHM_TAN:

Castle House:

Morning everyone..


Me overslept.. :oops:

Were you late?

Just in time.. no b/fast.. :gloomy:

[Castle House]

constancet:

Tigger88

But after this miscarriage, realised I am not ready to stop giving birth yet...

Understand this feeling.. :hugs:

[tigger88]

good morning everyone! TGIF!


constancet, I used to hope that I can be a SAHM…but now I dunno if I can last a few months of not working and staying at home full time with the kids. Think I will get very stressed or go crazy. Really peifu those SAHMs.

Financially also tough to rely on one sole breadwinner…unless my DH is a super high flier that earns big bucks. With the high cost of living, I have to slog for many many years down the road…keke.

[SAHM_TAN]

constancet:

Mummies who quit their job to stay at home, was it very difficult to adjust?

I am exploring this option now....
But gotta cut down alot on their enrichment lessons....

I think different pple will adjust differently. It's rather different, I mean for me, my companions are my kids most of the time. There are times I crave for adult conversation and company. Finances wise, I've worked out with DH, so there's no cause of argument in that area. At the same time DH knows it's tiring to take care of 3 kids, so he will let me take a breather when he is back.

The most important thing, your DH must support your decision. There's also a need to look into long term finances, it's not just about cutting down on enrichment lessons.

[SAHM_TAN]

Castle House:

Just in time.. no b/fast.. :gloomy:

later grab a quick tea-break?

[Castle House]

No time to take a quick brekkie too…


Not then taking my lunch,… super hungry…

[Kabby]

SAHM_TAN:

I think different pple will adjust differently. It's rather different, I mean for me, my companions are my kids most of the time. There are times I crave for adult conversation and company. Finances wise, I've worked out with DH, so there's no cause of argument in that area. At the same time DH knows it's tiring to take care of 3 kids, so he will let me take a breather when he is back.

The most important thing, your DH must support your decision. There's also a need to look into long term finances, it's not just about cutting down on enrichment lessons.

sounds like what I would say too SAHM tan. :hi5:

ya, not just about enrichment. we shift the money around. If this enrichment is very impt, then save somewhere else for it.

my DH is not a high flier, so i know it is possible to be a SAHM. just whether you enjoy it and whether DH is supportive. if you love to be one, and Dh is supportive, then all other things can be worked out, i think.

for us, we make sacrifices here and there. and in future, if we wanna upgrade, for eg, then i'll return to work. but by then, my kids will be older already. so it is ok.

[Linlin]

I'm new in this club I've four precious.. They are my fantastic four :imcool: hee

[Champion]

Linlin:

I'm new in this club I've four precious.. They are my fantastic four :imcool: hee

:welcome: :welcome: