Club 3 or more Kids

[MintyMin]

nicolelook.. i m a middle child myself.. n as much as i wan to prevent the same frm happening to my DD1.. it is hard.. a middle child seeks lots of attn.. n many a times.. they disobey wat u ask them to do.. juz to get ur attn.. n if he keep asking if he is a gd boy or not.. he juz wants more reassurance tat he is still mummy's boy.. if u get wat i mean..


Sooner or later, he will grow v independent tat u haf no worries for him.. but yet.. he may feel tat u dun care abt him.. as u pay less attn in details to him becoz of his independance.. it is hard to stop it from happening or prevent.. therefore it is impt to remind ourselves they nid as much attn as the rest despite them being very independent..

[SAHM_TAN]

My older kids also complain about each other. I just tell them I love them the same no matter what heehee

[MintyMin]

SAHM_TAN:

My older kids also complain about each other. I just tell them I love them the same no matter what heehee

:goodpost: :hi5:

[nicolellp]

Yes…hv to keep emphasizing to them we love them all…but luckily the 2 bro really dotes on bb…which I’m glad…


But I will only tell him he is a gd boy when he does something gd eg helping me (he demand I say thank u…but always complain ask him to help this n that…haha)

I think 3 of them want as much attention they can get from us…trying to hv some pte time with each of them alone…

[nicolellp]

Gd morning everyone


Just finished nursing bb....going back to sleep now!! Yawnzzzzzzzz
:snooze:

[MintyMin]

Good Morning Everyone!!


Morning nicolelook! Happy sleeping..

[nicolellp]

Wow finally finished reading almost 122pgs since yday...


Here's my summary (if I can remember what u all mentioned previously

FTWM
DS1 6yo
DS2 4yo
DS3 3.5mths

DH drives a 5 seated car, only hv 1 booster....either 1 of them will sit in front...wkend usually go out w maid too...

DS1&2 in full day CC, bb n maid will go to mil's plc every morning, fil will fetch them at 5pm..dinner there then head bk to hm...

DS1 naps less these days but sometimes I do insist when we stay hm..abt1-2hrs
DS2 naps everyday...if nt he get tired n cranky by6-7pm
Both sleep late...Nowadays abt 11pm? Trying to push earlier but sometimes delay due to #1 learning spelling etc

Enrichments
DS1 - piano n icanread
at yamaha jmc end of 2nd yr...will be converting to 1to1 formal piano
lesson soon....
DS2 - starting jmc in oct...hmm might chg to 1 to 1..still thinking...

Do u hv any recommendations on piano teachers in tampines??

Yes my boys are v active too...sometimes I will warn them b4 going out...if they agree...might turn out well....

I think they still behave a lot better some others bah (eg they dun throw tantrums like lying on the for crying leopard crawling...I will nvr ever allow them) like to run n do funny things....

I guess coz my DS1 got lost in tampines mall before at age 3+.....for abt 20mins... ....so always remind them abt this....when they start to run again....

If misbehave....they kena punishment when bk hm...usually will make them stand in a punish corner pulling their ears...cannot move...for at least half hr or so...too naughty...will ken a :spank:

Both DH n me quite fierce...had to be...hahah...they afraid of daddy more....

Ok that's about it.... :lol: :lol:

[Funx3]

Have U ever Lost your kid in a Shopping Mall, Expo, Exhibition Hall, …?

[MintyMin]

I did.. in fact.. twice.. once in SG and once in KL.. :sad: n both times it is DS..

[SAHM_TAN]

nope, touch wood.