All About Full-Time Maids
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Dawnie:
Since she's been with you for many years, I'm sure there must have been some rapport built. Then have to be more careful becos she may feel that with experience, she should be allowed more freedom/more leeway. I won't tell her off immediately but will gently highlight to her the dangers of FB and internet - that some of those men may not be what they seem. Show her articles on pp misuing pictures (esp the sexy types) sent to them. And in my case, firmly tell her not to put up more pix of my kids on fb (that one personal, I dun like pp taking pix of my kids without my knowing).
My maid have been with me for 4 years and I just renewed her for another 2 years recently. She took care of my boy since he was born, my boy is already 4 years old. She doesn't look like someone who will do such things, that's why I'm trying to get over the shock. She always uses her HP, I thought she was only exchanging SMS with her friends. But last week, suddenly my FB suggested me to add her as my friend, that's when I know she have FB and I started looking into her FB account. She seemed to be 'hooked' on facebook chatting. Besides uploading her own pictures, she also uploaded pics taken together with my boy. The number of \"likes\" are even more than mine!!! -
LKVM:
Never never allow pictures of your kids to be taken with the maids....some of them believe in black magic .... and you can imagine the consequences when she returns to her home country unhappy ......
Oh this is something new development that she has been there with you for 4 yrs.. I thought she is new and thats why doing all this....Dawnie:
The picture taken on my bed is fully clothed (*Thank god*).
My maid have been with me for 4 years and I just renewed her for another 2 years recently. She took care of my boy since he was born, my boy is already 4 years old. She doesn't look like someone who will do such things, that's why I'm trying to get over the shock. She always uses her HP, I thought she was only exchanging SMS with her friends. But last week, suddenly my FB suggested me to add her as my friend, that's when I know she have FB and I started looking into her FB account. She seemed to be 'hooked' on facebook chatting. Besides uploading her own pictures, she also uploaded pics taken together with my boy. The number of \"likes\" are even more than mine!!!
In this case I would suggest you speak to her.. (specially using your son's picture online is absolutely no no for me).....and give her strict warning.. if she is unable to change then you are left with no choice but to replace her...mho! -
Actually that is what happen also to my first Philip maid. She was in swim wear taking photo of herself and some guys. Philip maid are like that. After 4 years you will find it alittle hard to bring it up to her. I have been through it. But if fully clothed should be alright. Maybe she finds your bed is a nice background for photo? Like I always said, with Philip maid expect the unexpected.
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same story wor… my fren philipino maid also take photo on her master bed then bring her friends back all lye on my fren’s bed some more… then one fine day, my fren found out one pile of photos… many of them r taken in her master bedroom bed… philippino maid has this likings huh
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U mean like a fetish??
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peapot:
U mean like a fetish??
possible ? or maybe tt'll show they have access to the employer's room means they rule !
I will lock my bedroom when i go out and maid is not with us. cos of all these stories.. some even said maid will wear their clothes when they r not at home.. one of my fren's fren's maid wearing her clothes walking at home, she happen to go home earlier and saw her maid in her clothes.. shock, ask her maid why? the maid like nothing happen, change back and as per normal.. -
Hah? Just change back and act normal? Then this maid is not that normal.
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peapot:
Hah? Just change back and act normal? Then this maid is not that normal.
weird people.. maybe she wants to act like the lady boss.. i din follow up what happen with the maid.. either she keeps her or change. -
99% of the cupboards are without locks and it is impossible to drill holes and locks into them cos' of the damage. :slapshead:
my ex neighbour's grandma locked hers with a chain looping thru the door handles and padlocked it even when she was at home. cos' her maid was always taking her own sweet time in the rooms to put clothes away or wipe things. -
it is also possible for maids to download pictures into your computer and delete them. but the file is still in the hardware.
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