A good read - DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?
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good post for me to learn.
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After married, sometimes it's normal to look at your spouse and ask yourself this question..I do that quite often myself :oops: & I wonder if he ask himself also...can't tell heh.. Thanks for sharing!
:goodpost:
WCW:
yes... u will realise alot of things after... errr hmmmm.... marriage... and then another stage is when have children...limlim:
The title is a valid question indeed.. as pple say..
Love is blind.. Marriage is THE eye opener..
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After married, sometimes it's normal to look at your spouse and ask yourself this question..I do that quite often myself :oops: & I wonder if he ask himself also...can't tell heh.. Thanks for sharing!
:goodpost:
WCW:
yes... u will realise alot of things after... errr hmmmm.... marriage... and then another stage is when have children...limlim:
The title is a valid question indeed.. as pple say..
Love is blind.. Marriage is THE eye opener.. -
Good post! It is a timely reminder for me too, love is a decision.
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A very meaningful and thought-provoking read.
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:thankyou: for the inspiring :goodpost: :love:
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you make a lot of sense. thanks for sharing. learning to love the person you found, indeed. still am trying.
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Let me see …
1) silent treatment when angry - check.
2) complaint of noisy snoring - check.
3) nagging when I forgot to do things - check.
4) grumble that I do not listen to her - check.
5) black face when I am late - check.
Mmmmm… what else?
6) pours me tea when I need one (a few times annually) - check.
7) hugs and kisses that still taste like honey - check.
how beautiful she looks when asleep - check.
9) how cute she looks when just awake - check.
10) still beams the most beautiful smile when presented with a single rose - Double check.
Definately right - chop, stamp, sign, and confirm.
The one and only I can never do without. -
WCW:
Hi WCW, this is really a good post I simply love the line that I’ve quoted above.
THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.
It makes so much sense, and yet written in a very sweet way.
I love it so much that I just have to share it on my FB wall. Hope you don’t mind
ImMeeMee:
Oh yes, this is so sick.We live with my in-laws and its their house. There are a lot of differences in styles between the in-laws and myself. DH refuses to move out when I broach the subject, citing filial piety. I enjoy privacy but the house is full of relatives during weekends, leaving the house in a mess every time. ILs can change furniture arrangements and renovate the house without consulting us and I have to follow instructions. I dont like this lack of control over my own family.
And it is such a pity when it’s the ILs are the ones who cause the friction in your marriage.
It is no issue for your DH to be filial, but where do you stand as a wife?
Being filial to parents does not mean you can’t have your own independence.
I do not know how, but you have to talk it out with your DH.
Listen, if you can’t find happiness in the house, no matter how hard you try, you are bound to lose faith in your marriage someday, God forbids!
And should that were to happen because of ILs, it’s definitely not worth it.
I kinda read this post a lil late. It’s been a few years since you put up this post.
Wherever you are, I hope that things have gotten better now for you and your family.
Cheers!
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