GEP 2011 - Screening & Selection

[jtoh]

Hi thmejlfm,


Sorry to hear that your dd isn't having the best of time in GEP. Take heart. P4 can be tough because there are so many adjustments to make - new school, new friends, new environment, harder academic work. Sometimes the social and emotional adjustments are tougher than the academic demands in P4. I'm sure she'll be better adjusted by P5.

Info on IVP here: http://www.gebsp.moe.gov.sg/IvP/index.htm

I find IVP more interesting than IRS. You get to work in a team to design and build an innovative product.

thmejlfm:

The school wanted them to stay for art/computer, ellap & research project skill. My dd took the netball as cca, so she can do some execise.

Why you said Tao Nan School?

Well, for my case, I felt very sad for my dd. She was very happy in the previous school, so many friends and they played games during recess time, went to library.

But, not this year. Few months ago, I drove passed her previous school, she cried in the car. I asked her why? Not happy in the new school? She said no, just that the new school not so many friends. Most of her classmates don't play games. She considered once of the most sporty girl in her class. And thE library staff n dentist not friendly, not like the previous school..very sad to hear that.

So, I have to try to keep on telling her, try her best to do her work and adapt to new environment.

By the way, after yesterday the presentation, my dd told me she would like to take the IVP, not the IRS . What is IVP?

Thanks

gleemom:

[quote=\"thmejlfm\"]Congrats to all Pr 3 parents & kids who made it into GEP round 2. Yes, time really flies. Last year, i was also in this situation cannot decide whether to take the GEP or not and my dd cried & cried, refused to leave the school and friends.

At the end, after the orientation, I let her decide. She chose to go.

After this year, I regretted, not my dd. Beginning of the year, she struggled. A lot of things she was not sure. But, a lot of her classmates knew. And shedon'tt dare to ask the teachers because non of her friends asked. After the SA1 and parent meeting, then, I knew she didn't check with the teacher when she was not sure. (later part, I noticed that a lot of her classmates have various tuition for every subjects.) :scared:

Before this, she didn't have any tuition. She only has Kumon, piano and
ballet. After the SA1, she has asked for Maths, Chinese and Science tuition.

She don't really have much time to do other activities. Because she had
to stayed in school every 3 times a week till 3:30pm, 5:30pm & 3pm.

After the SA2, she still quite weak in her science because for GEP, their
mark baseline is 70. Although, my dd is gifted, I think her talent is only at
the base, not really that gifted. That's why had to struggle so much.

I asked my dd few days ago whether she has regretted to go to GEP . She
said 'no'. Hope she can stay on all the way to PSLE.

This was my experience of GEP. :thankyou: Btw, my dd's school is at the
east side. Don't really like the school. not kid friendly at all.

quote=\"25hr mama\"]Congrats to all parents & kids who made it into GEP. Time really flies....
Last year... this time.... we too experienced the same thing. Hence, I cud really feel ur joy, ur excitement, ur pride & of course also a little uncertainty & many \"?????\"
Nevertheless, it is no doubt an important decision that both parents & kids got to make. To go or not to go? Which school to choose? etc, etc.....
In this decision making process, itz good to allow thie kids to make the final decision, since they r the ones who will be attending the program. As parents, we want the best for our kids, & most importantly, when they r happy, we r happy too.
All the best parents & kids, enjoy ur journey ahead, whether GEP or not, choose what u think is best for u!

Is the school taonan? Why must your dd stay back so often? I thought at most once a week? Are the other 2 times for CCA?[/quote][/quote]

[thmejlfm]

Your son were very lucky to have all these teachers.











Rosyth.... The P and teachers are very friendly and approachable.[/quote]

Are all the GEP teachers in Rosyth equally good? Do they all teach in class? If the teacher does not teach and expect the kids to know their work, then it would be very tough for the kids especially when the content is already difficult.[/quote]
So far the teachers who teach my Ds are pretty good and experienced gep teachers. He especially like his English teachers through out these 3 yrs and they happen to be his form teachers too ..... I think is Becos other then they are very Gd in their teaching, they are very caring form teachers too ..
... Generally rosyth gep teAchers are good! :love: :salute:[/quote]

[MandyMummy]

For some GEP schools, IvP is individual work, not group work.

[jtoh]

MandyMummy:

For some GEP schools, IvP is individual work, not group work.

Oh yes. That's correct. Forgot. So good lor. Can work in team or individual, depending on what you prefer.

[thmejlfm]

Thanks, jtoh.


I hope so. Yes, it is very tough.

My dd has became very mutual,and she kept things to herself sometime. I am quite worried about this. Have tried to talk her. But, always show her frustration.

[thmejlfm]

MandyMummy:

For some GEP schools, IvP is individual work, not group work.

Sometime, I found that individual is better because gifted kids sometime were so difficult to work as a group, too many opinion. All of them are so smart, had their own ideal, don't want to accept others. :slapshead:

[jtoh]

thmejlfm:

Thanks, jtoh.


I hope so. Yes, it is very tough.

My dd has became very mutual,and she kept things to herself sometime. I am quite worried about this. Have tried to talk her. But, always show her frustration.

Spend more time with her doing fun things so that she'll be more comfortable confiding in you. It's not just school that's getting her moody. Could also be the onset of puberty. Girls this age tend to get moody and shorter tempered.

[vlim]

jtoh:

thmejlfm:

Thanks, jtoh.


I hope so. Yes, it is very tough.

My dd has became very mutual,and she kept things to herself sometime. I am quite worried about this. Have tried to talk her. But, always show her frustration.

Spend more time with her doing fun things so that she'll be more comfortable confiding in you. It's not just school that's getting her moody. Could also be the onset of puberty. Girls this age tend to get moody and shorter tempered.

Yup .... I totally agree with u jtoh ..... Or maybe u can ask your dh to talk to her to find out what happen ....
For my case, I am the 'nagger' and my dh is the entertainer plus discipline master to my kids..

[thmejlfm]

But, she only 10. Too early.

jtoh:

thmejlfm:

Thanks, jtoh.

I hope so. Yes, it is very tough.

My dd has became very mutual,and she kept things to herself sometime. I am quite worried about this. Have tried to talk her. But, always show her frustration.

Spend more time with her doing fun things so that she'll be more comfortable confiding in you. It's not just school that's getting her moody. Could also be the onset of puberty. Girls this age tend to get moody and shorter tempered.

[thmejlfm]

Same here. My dd 2 said I am the naggy mummy.

vlim:

jtoh:

[quote=\"thmejlfm\"]Thanks, jtoh.

I hope so. Yes, it is very tough.

My dd has became very mutual,and she kept things to herself sometime. I am quite worried about this. Have tried to talk her. But, always show her frustration.

Spend more time with her doing fun things so that she'll be more comfortable confiding in you. It's not just school that's getting her moody. Could also be the onset of puberty. Girls this age tend to get moody and shorter tempered.

Yup .... I totally agree with u jtoh ..... Or maybe u can ask your dh to talk to her to find out what happen ....
For my case, I am the 'nagger' and my dh is the entertainer plus discipline master to my kids.. [/quote]