How much u trust ur wife/husband? wholeheartedly? 200%?
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Trust is a CHOICE not base on feelings. Cause when you are feeling HAPPY you trust 100% but when you are feel down your trust level goes down too…
The fundation of any relationship is TRUST. So I choose to trust… -
BeContented:
GOSH.....UncleLim:
Everytime I tell my wife I am going out to have an affair, or a fling or whatever they call it.... she simply laughs.
Hee hee, I will laugh at my hubby too :evil:
If he is poor BUT handsome/dashing......maybe will have woman falling for him.
If he is rich and quite old......chances increase by 50%
If he is rich and not that bad looking.....probably many sweet young things will crowd round him.
But alas, he is neither of the above.....with no extra cash to spare, no flashy car, no fine-dining & no good looks......I'll be laughing at the woman who is having an affair with him..... :rotflmao:
I thot I could be very 潇洒, I thot I had absolute trust in him.....and I even teased DH to go try.....
But when DH came home late (or rather early) after a drinking session .... with some perfume smell .... I went totally :siao: My imagination ran wild, I was paranoid, I couldn't function normally. Whatever mentioned earlier about no money, no looks etc got thrown out of window. I just cannot think rationally liao :oops:
Tho I realised I had over-reacted, but I know my folly now. Will never ever tease nor encourage even in a joking manner and should never take our spouse for granted. The roller-coaster experience was an eye-opener and dreadful.....
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Yes, never tease or encourage such matter.
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trust has to be earned i guess. if all along what he presents to me is reliability and loving behaviour of course it will be natural to trust him wholeheartedly and vice versa.
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The infidelity rate everywhere sounds scary, when I took up my job as a paternity, I didnt expect ppl to contact me frequently for my dna paternity services, guess the truth can be no further. 1 in 5 having an affair but fortunately not many are dumb enough to have kids from the affair.
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Trust is important, but blind trust is folly. If my hubby does strange things like keep going out with the same girl, even if there’s nothing, he should stop if I ask him to. And I will. Definitely, it has to stop.
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no doubt… its 100%
together since 1997 and married since 2005
long enough to know each other very well -
ahkeong:
People do change & seriously, man has it better as they age/mature while woman tend to wither.....no doubt.. its 100%
together since 1997 and married since 2005
long enough to know each other very well
I have known DH for a quarter century but with all sorts of temptations out there, one will never know if it'll strike at our own house :scared: -
BeContented:
dunno abt future.. cant tell but at the moment, everything revolves around my 2 precious boys..
People do change & seriously, man has it better as they age/mature while woman tend to wither.....ahkeong:
no doubt.. its 100%
together since 1997 and married since 2005
long enough to know each other very well
I have known DH for a quarter century but with all sorts of temptations out there, one will never know if it'll strike at our own house :scared:
cant think of anything except wanna earn more and move away from here asap..
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