All About Full-Time Maids

[hquek]

Thanks Tamarind for the link.


I like that there are plenty of details. Only worrying thing is if they enter under another name as there aren’t any pictures in some cases.

I just wish that there is a place where we can find out more about potential maids - rather than from interested sources. So many instances of mismatched parties, or maids who come here with little intent to do the work they were hired for.

[tamarind]

hquek,

You are right that they may enter by another name. I am glad that some employers sent in the photos of their maids so we can still recognize them.

MOM does check the thumbprint of the maids, and if they found a new maid matching an old record, but with a different name, that maid will be sent back to her own country.

[Fettuccine]

After visiting this site, I got a bit scared. I'm new and just got the cert to hire one. I thought generally Fillipinos are ok, as I heard from friends. Thought they are more compassionate and less violent then the rest...


Has anyone got any maids from Signature Employment? As far as I know, the agency is accredited with Casetrust, and their service seems friendly. As for the maids, I have absolutely no idea.

Anyone has any good recommendations for Fillipino maids or any other recommendations for good employment agency around East Coast/Katong area?

I just need help mainly with household chores, cooking and taking care of my other 2 kids (age 4 and 6)

[en107rn.01056yahoo.01056com.01056sg]

Hi Tamarind


Thanks for the blog. It’s scary! I’m actually at the cross road as to whether to hire a new maid or go maidless. My maid contract ending 21st Sep this year. Either options looking daunting. Siggghhhh…

[ChiefKiasu]

Have you all seen this http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/content/maid-abusing-2-month-old-baby? I think the abuse is just about the worst I've seen. (Update - sorry... the videos were removed from youtube already.)


Here're my experience with maids:
Indonesian - Most compliant, hardworking, but lacks initiative and poor hygiene.

Myanmar - Very hardworking and willing to learn, but poor communications and lacks experience

Philippines - Reasonably hardworking, good comms skills, high initiative but with a mind of their own.

[MMM]

Does maids get jail for mild abuse? Just like how employers will get highlighted for abuse as well. I think it’s wrong for 'ers to abuse maids. But on the other hand, I feel that there should be clearer msg sent out to the maids that if they are caught abusing the kids, then they will be publicise too.

[tamarind]

If this maid is reported to the police for slapping a baby very hard on the face, the mommy will have to go through a lot of trouble. The Filipino embassy will definitely send a lawyer to defend her. The mommy will have to get a lawyer to fight the case. Before the case is settled, which may take a long time, the mommy will be barred from employing another maid.


The mommy has another toddler to look after. So in most cases like this, the maid will simply be sent back to her own country.

The same maid can easily get another employer in Singapore again

[tamarind]

EN:

Hi Tamarind


Thanks for the blog. It's scary! I'm actually at the cross road as to whether to hire a new maid or go maidless. My maid contract ending 21st Sep this year. Either options looking daunting. Siggghhhh...

Whether you get a good maid or not, depends on your luck.

I changed a total of 8 maids, before I get my current maid, who is a very good maid.

If your maid is not too bad, you may want to consider extending her contract. A good maid is very hard to find !

[matrix0405]

This is a very good post. 3 mth baby also can slap; obviously something wrong in her mind. Glad to see you caught and got rid of her before more trouble. Can you let us know what is the model of the camera you used to catch that footage?

[winth]

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Hi,

I'm seriously confused here.

My situation:
My boys are 5 years are 17 months when we first had a maid. She's filipino and is recommended by a fellow maid of my colleague. We used to have our house cleaned by part-time maid once weekly, while I do ad-hoc cleaning on our house. My boys are looked after by my mother all these while and we are doing PERFECTLY FINE, until her health deteriorated and she needs some help in looking after the boys who are obviously active and takes a toll on her. Daily she comes from Jurong to my house at Queenstown, so you can imagine it's kinda difficult for her.

We hired a maid to help my mum out, so that it would not be that stressful on her. This is the first time I have a maid and I'm totally depressed after she came.
The Pros
1) She's supposed to help my mum look after the kids so that my mum is able to rest more; my mum reported that she is able to sleep more in my house while she knows the maid is looking after the kids
2) She did the housechores daily, so my house is looked after more regularly
3) She helped us look after the baby and my Husband and I could have more time to ourselves

The Cons
1) I am totally inexperienced in handling maid issues. I need to spend evenings to talk to her, to tell her that we are family and she can tell me things too. She will be very good to me for the next couple days. The next few days, she'll be back to her old self again and she'll look at me like I'm bad at her (bec I didn't talk to her during evening time?). But I've got more important things to do!!! She seems to need more prep talk than my children!!!
2) My mother feels that she is not really helping too just that there is one extra paid of eyes to look after the kids (the maid is like a robot - we tell her she do, we forget to tell her, she won't do)
3) The house is like 10% cleaner than it was when we had a part-time maid, but we pay full-time maid rates for that additional 10%; and not to mention the utility bills came like 40% increase from our old bills
4) We might not be able to steal 'luxury' time away like that anymore without the domestic helper
5) Err... bec we are highly independent parents who don't need maid even when we go on family trips (to the beach), we haven't really seen any 'usefulness' of her to us...

We are planning on this solution
Send maid away; put my now 18 month old to childcare (maybe halfday or fullday?); mother takes care of 5 year old

What do you think of this plan?
Or maybe someone who has a maid can enlighten me how you make use of the maid? What were your concerns?