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    Mom call police and MOE : Teacher force son for a haircut

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    • C Offline
      Chenonceau
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      If it’s a power show down over long hair in school, I would plumb for the teacher any day. Further, it doesn’t look like a Loner Attack. The team of educators concurred on the approach… so it seems like a reasoned decision, and applied in front of witnesses. Going overboard seems unlikely, unless the boy was himself struggling violently.

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        hmsg
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        This wasn’t the first time the boy has been warned about his hairstyle. To continually "test" the system is going to risk such incidents. Doesn’t help that the boy’s mum is perceived to "bo-chup".

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          Chenonceau
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          I think that as long as rules are clear, and have been communicated several times, the school has a duty towards OTHER parents and OTHER children to apply the rule.

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          • tankeeT Offline
            tankee
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            The school should have just sent that boy back … Till he return with a decent hair cut.

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            • J Offline
              JonC
              last edited by

              I agree with Tan Kee.


              But some parents can be just as "i d i o t"

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                tankee
                last edited by

                Chenonceau:
                These are parents that make good Teachers/Educators leave the service.

                :goodpost:

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                  Kodomosuki
                  last edited by

                  Too long get a hair cut.

                  I don’t like my boy to do those high slop cut…
                  So grandfather …
                  Anyway, school don’t be too harsh …
                  Relax… U cross the human right!
                  Sent the boy home or speak with the parents or detention la…
                  Why cut his hair ? What right have you got?
                  Just because you are the teacher ? So what ?
                  If stress? Take it to somewhere else?

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                    corneyAmber
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                    As in all issues, we cannot read it at face value. There must be a series of event leading to this. Flouting school rules is a no-no and if a reasonable timeframe has been given to respond, this would probably be the final warning. If there has been no warning then it might be a little harsh reflecting the teachers acting in anger just like how we parents sometimes pick up the cane out of anger instead of reason.


                    However I feel that the teachers might have also considered that the harm in hair cutting is not as bad as caning or other physical punishment. As a parent my first reaction might be anger especially if my child is a girl but I would still want the full story n if my child is really defiant, I would support the punishment.

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                      coast
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                      While I certainly do not agree with the parent’s action, I do not think the punishment is appropriate. Even in the army where discipline is strictly enforced and there is a fair amount of recruits breaking the hairstyle rule, instructors do not take out scissors and start snipping away. Certainly there are other forms of punishments that are more appropriate and effective to deter students from breaking the rules.

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                        JonC
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                        You people don’t understand. Principal/Teacher also got family to feed, don’t think they like to risk the rice bowl.


                        I believe this boy must have given many warnings that the teachers acted and the boy must have struggle. Next time the teacher must video the whole process to protect themselves.

                        Maybe like what the article say, they should have Pro-Hair Cut professionals engage to cut weekly or monthly on fixed date to cut all that didn’t pass and give / video public warning, email / sms / handout memo to all parents as reminder to cover teacher’s back. So that they do not have excuse to call police, "comblame" (opps complaint) MOE, MP, PM, President, etc.

                        I believe students nowadays will be much worst that 10 years or 20 years or 30 years ago. I did part time teaching while I was looking job after Grad some almost 20 years ago, the student that time is already terrible, I give up after 1 month in the school, the principal somemore beg me to stay.

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