In-law problems?

[racoon12]

Ning Ning,

Congratulation on your new business... it is good to hear that you are independent on your own rather than working for your IL...

[Kompressor]

My mother in law stays with us and also SLEEPS WITH US IN THE SAME ROOM!


Told my DW I was not too comfortable with her sleeping in the same room however she feels its nothing wrong.

I mean I just dont feel comfortable sleeping with someone else, kids ok, but not MIL rite?

Perhaps any gals out there can tell me how they feel? Its it ok? As in am I being unreasonable?

[auntieM]

Kompressor:

My mother in law stays with us and also SLEEPS WITH US IN THE SAME ROOM!


Told my DW I was not too comfortable with her sleeping in the same room however she feels its nothing wrong.

I mean I just dont feel comfortable sleeping with someone else, kids ok, but not MIL rite?

Perhaps any gals out there can tell me how they feel? Its it ok? As in am I being unreasonable?

:yikes: no kidding? Whatever reason DW or MIL has..
How can you tahan?

[funkymonkey]

Kompressor:

My mother in law stays with us and also SLEEPS WITH US IN THE SAME ROOM!


Told my DW I was not too comfortable with her sleeping in the same room however she feels its nothing wrong.

I mean I just dont feel comfortable sleeping with someone else, kids ok, but not MIL rite?

Perhaps any gals out there can tell me how they feel? Its it ok? As in am I being unreasonable?

:yikes: :yikes: :yikes:
OMG..and i thought we had it bad with sleeping with our 3 kids..poor u.....i think you are NOT being unreasonable...we all need couple time right???

[Kompressor]

auntieM:

Kompressor:

My mother in law stays with us and also SLEEPS WITH US IN THE SAME ROOM!


Told my DW I was not too comfortable with her sleeping in the same room however she feels its nothing wrong.

I mean I just dont feel comfortable sleeping with someone else, kids ok, but not MIL rite?

Perhaps any gals out there can tell me how they feel? Its it ok? As in am I being unreasonable?

:yikes: no kidding? Whatever reason DW or MIL has..
How can you tahan?

DW wants her mum to stay over, what can I say rite?

[Kompressor]

funkymonkey:

Kompressor:

My mother in law stays with us and also SLEEPS WITH US IN THE SAME ROOM!


Told my DW I was not too comfortable with her sleeping in the same room however she feels its nothing wrong.

I mean I just dont feel comfortable sleeping with someone else, kids ok, but not MIL rite?

Perhaps any gals out there can tell me how they feel? Its it ok? As in am I being unreasonable?

:yikes: :yikes: :yikes:
OMG..and i thought we had it bad with sleeping with our 3 kids..poor u.....i think you are NOT being unreasonable...we all need couple time right???

I am totally ok with sleeping with my kids, but NOT MIL!

Anyway me and DW don't ML, so I am ok with it. I am just not comfortable sleeping with MIL in the same room EVERYDAY... I just need some \"ME time\" without restrictions.

[BeContented]

[quote]

DW wants her mum to stay over, what can I say rite?[/quote] :yikes: Personally, I would not agree to such an arrangement, even if it's my own mother cos we all need some form of privacy, dun we ?!?! Discuss with your wife on a better arrangement.

[ningning]

racoon12:

Din log in to read the posting for few months due to FY closing and audit. How is everyone?

10 more days to CNY, a period where I am longed to disappear to unhabitat island to spend it rather than facing the troublemaker...

totally agrreed. trouble maker..... unreasonable PILs, SILs........its just an ordinary holiday to me, i only visit my mum and sisters.......rather spend the festive with them then go back and see those \"evil\" ppl faces. CNY suppose to be happy mood, but after see them liao, think i will be \"sway\" for that year......so i void them. I rather spend my CNY quiently but happy with those that love me , thats enough for me. Life is short, i dun want to waste my time spending with those that dun love me at all..........

[ningning]

Kompressor:

My mother in law stays with us and also SLEEPS WITH US IN THE SAME ROOM!


Told my DW I was not too comfortable with her sleeping in the same room however she feels its nothing wrong.

I mean I just dont feel comfortable sleeping with someone else, kids ok, but not MIL rite?

Perhaps any gals out there can tell me how they feel? Its it ok? As in am I being unreasonable?

I cant imagine to have my inlaw or my parent to sleep in the same room with me and DH. Unless if theres a special situation, maybe feel unwell or so.......even it is my own mum coz i can imagine the scenerio. its odd, isnt it? kids is ok when they are junior. Maybe your spouse is very close to her mum...........

i can fully understand why you feel uncomfortable to have someone else in the same bedroom.

[Kompressor]

ningning:

Kompressor:

My mother in law stays with us and also SLEEPS WITH US IN THE SAME ROOM!


Told my DW I was not too comfortable with her sleeping in the same room however she feels its nothing wrong.

I mean I just dont feel comfortable sleeping with someone else, kids ok, but not MIL rite?

Perhaps any gals out there can tell me how they feel? Its it ok? As in am I being unreasonable?

I cant imagine to have my inlaw or my parent to sleep in the same room with me and DH. Unless if theres a special situation, maybe feel unwell or so.......even it is my own mum coz i can imagine the scenerio. its odd, isnt it? kids is ok when they are junior. Maybe your spouse is very close to her mum...........

i can fully understand why you feel uncomfortable to have someone else in the same bedroom.

I share the same feeling as you. I am totally ok with my kids, but not parents or PIL.

Its like I wanna sleep in some unglam position or what also cannot...