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    • tankeeT Offline
      tankee
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      Eagle-Ladybird:
      .... go for a 9-hole golf game with buddies. Then pick the kids up and have lunch at the club. Maid feed them lunch, and I continue with my buddies. Then go for a quick swim with the kids and showers taken care of. .... and I'll meet up with some brothers for coffee. Maybe go to car show rooms, or happy hours :celebrate:


      Pick them up from enrichment classes, and pick wifey up as well (since she's a highflyer, she leaves work maybe 5pm). Go for a stroll at the parks, have dinner, ... :siam:

      that's not \"stay at home\" :rotflmao:

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        tankee
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        schellen:
        Eagle-Ladybird:

        Then, go for a 9-hole golf game with buddies.


        Then, you have to make sure that your buddies also become SAHDs too. :lol:

        maybe his buddies are ladies ... SAHM???

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          schellen
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          tankee:
          schellen:

          [quote=\"Eagle-Ladybird\"]Then, go for a 9-hole golf game with buddies.


          Then, you have to make sure that your buddies also become SAHDs too. :lol:

          maybe his buddies are ladies ... SAHM???[/quote]I always get this impression that male golfers do not like to play with female golfers leh. Can't remember why but it's always been stuck in my head. So, is it true?

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            en107rn.01056yahoo.01056com.01056sg
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            I have discussed this with dh before. If I ever received an expatriate pay including lodging, kids education, health benefits etc and need to station overseas, I take the job and everyone will be coming along. He will be SAHD. As a token of appreciation for his willingness to sacrifice his job, he will take the monthly rental for our current flat.


            Only if that situation arise, will I allow him to become SAHD. Otherwise, he is better off at work cause, he is very bad in housekeeping and managing kids welfare.

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              TTLauPeh
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              I'm a WAHD (Work At Home Dad). Run my little Lone Ranger business from home. We don't have a maid and my wife travels a fair bit so I'm the sole caregiver sometimes. Drops him and wife off at work, school, skating lessons, etc and tries to do my share of housework -- and my own work -- before wifey gets back from work so we can spend more time together as a family in the evening.


              School is a short bus ride away so when I have meeting with clients, my kid makes his own way home (and them SMSs me). Just asked him how he feels about me taking a regular salaried job next year since he'll be starting secondary school next year and he said he'd rather I continue to work from home. Will miss having him as my lunch kaki and makan place explorer 😞

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                3Boys
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                My long term plan is to be a SAHD…play chess and tennis with the boys, tend to the garden, paint walls, lacquer furniture, yeah, sound like fun (really!).

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                  smurf
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                  TTLauPeh:
                  I'm a WAHD (Work At Home Dad). Run my little Lone Ranger business from home. We don't have a maid and my wife travels a fair bit so I'm the sole caregiver sometimes. Drops him and wife off at work, school, skating lessons, etc and tries to do my share of housework -- and my own work -- before wifey gets back from work so we can spend more time together as a family in the evening.


                  School is a short bus ride away so when I have meeting with clients, my kid makes his own way home (and them SMSs me). Just asked him how he feels about me taking a regular salaried job next year since he'll be starting secondary school next year and he said he'd rather I continue to work from home. Will miss having him as my lunch kaki and makan place explorer 😞
                  you are a wonderful husband and dad. :udaman:

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                    kiasimom
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                    I am not in favour of DH being a SAHD.

                    He is much fussier than I am.
                    He is much stricter than me, more organised ( he does all the groceries shopping ) etc etc
                    He is a better housekeeper than me. He knows every corners of the house...
                    But he being a perfectionist will also mean my maid and children will suffer as he will always be telling them, \" Why are you doing this and not that?\" blah blah blah...
                    So I will still prefer him to work and I will gladly miss the presence of him while he is at work 😉

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                      peapot
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                      Smurf, I like your emoticon. So appropriate!


                      My DH don’t mind being a SAHD but unfortunately he earns more than me so whoever earns more should get his butt out there and bring in the dough. However, I don’t mind staying at home myself. Beats getting into office politics and meeting boot-licking people.

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                        tankee
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                        TTLauPeh:
                        I'm a WAHD (Work At Home Dad). Run my little Lone Ranger business from home. We don't have a maid and my wife travels a fair bit so I'm the sole caregiver sometimes. Drops him and wife off at work, school, skating lessons, etc and tries to do my share of housework -- and my own work -- before wifey gets back from work so we can spend more time together as a family in the evening.


                        School is a short bus ride away so when I have meeting with clients, my kid makes his own way home (and them SMSs me). Just asked him how he feels about me taking a regular salaried job next year since he'll be starting secondary school next year and he said he'd rather I continue to work from home. Will miss having him as my lunch kaki and makan place explorer 😞
                        :celebrate: :udaman:

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