Club 2006 Kids
-
smartmummy:
My DS2 is quite the opposite from DS1. He's a very outgoing boy, sweet talker ( he compliments people easily ) and talks too much ( can be very direct at times and mean what he says). Too confident. I worry for him for P1 as I don't know teachers like this kind of personality. I'd repeatedly told him not to say things unneccessarily and I predict his FT will call to complain about him in future. School work wise, he's OK. disciplined but at times need cajoling. He's a crowd pleaser.jedamum:
my boy is still a gullible little lad...worry for him and yet finds him so cute and childlike.
My Dd very sensitive and soft. If I scold her she react like baby. Talking like baby. son was so matured in k2.her grandmother let her to do whatever she wanted. Sometimes I disciplined then she cried ended in vomiting. So I just left. Now she became a pamper child.another thing experienced with my son he has lack of confidence. So I scared to punish her more . Don't know how to bringing up the kids.
So, I'm working hard on him too. -
Hello everybody. I thought I should pour out my concerns too. My DD is a dec baby n I find her so different from her elder brothers. Shes sensitive but very caring and loving. I worry constantly as to how she will cope in P1. Feeling so blue thinking about it. sigh.
-
smartmummy:
jedamum:
my boy is still a gullible little lad...worry for him and yet finds him so cute and childlike.
My Dd very sensitive and soft. If I scold her she react like baby. Talking like baby. son was so matured in k2.her grandmother let her to do whatever she wanted. Sometimes I disciplined then she cried ended in vomiting. So I just left. Now she became a pamper child.another thing experienced with my son he has lack of confidence. So I scared to punish her more . Don't know how to bringing up the kids.
I also try not to punish my DS too hard such as using canes or shouting at him loudly cos I know that by doing so can cause him to lack of confidence. Usually I'll try to talk calmly with him but if he still misbehave, I'll just send him to naughty corner or take away his favourite thing. Usually this works better than time out. But the thing is my DH is quite harsh on him at times my DS misbehave. He said sometimes soft approach doesn't work. It's really tough bringing up kids nowadays. -
LadyInBlack:
Hello everybody. I thought I should pour out my concerns too. My DD is a dec baby n I find her so different from her elder brothers. Shes sensitive but very caring and loving. I worry constantly as to how she will cope in P1. Feeling so blue thinking about it. sigh.
:welcome: LadyInBlack! to our fantastic club 2006! :rahrah: :rahrah: :rahrah:
Yup, girls different than boys. Exactly! my girl also the same, sensitive , caring and loving. Girls are more emotional characters. -
Hi smartmummy...ooh, tell me about it...girls are such joys..boys too in their own ways..but since my girl is a dec baby and being my youngest, I feel shes easily bullied and is so ultra sensitive. I keep wondering how shes going to cope in p1..when being in k2 is ardy a challenge...i guess im being a mum!
-
I punished at the same time I explained to him why I punished.i told him I count 1-10 . U have to do within ten if I said 10 then I beat u. First time, he didn’t do so beated him. Then I told him , I told u already. So he listened afterthat. For a small child I beater softly. I wanted to implement. One day I throw his toy after give many warnings. Most of the time I count 1-10. My son quickly did.I talked to him a lot.I think I said " no , u cannot do this".from his two yes onwards. Whatever I said he listened. As a disciplined boy he got angry and frustrated at times. I told him how u hurt other people how they feel. In P1, teacher’s feedback was he knows what is right what is wrong. T said all the kids raise the hands first, for him after he found the answer he raised and always the answer correct. He got rolemodel cert in p1 and p2. Now in p4, his behaviors has changed ,talk back. Now his study interest got low level.when he was small I hd the cane and explained otherwise I cannot caught his attention. For my dd, when I told her I take the cane or hold the cane , she so scared and cried.
E
E -
smartmummy:
smartmummy,Now in p4, his behaviors has changed ,talk back. Now his study interest got low level.when he was small I hd the cane and explained otherwise I cannot caught his attention. .
E
E
maybe you can shift this part to 2002 discussion. my boy this year in P4 also started to 'talk back'. it is a new ballgame to try to handle his behaviour. i am guessing if it is because they are now 1 more step closer to being a teenager. -
Ooh smartmummy and jedamum, you have a 2002 boy too…just like me…and yes I too am facing real attitude issues! Ive got a 2003 boy as well…day in day out its a real challenge handling all of their issues…okay Im just not feeling too well emotionally and physically so feeling more negative today!
-
jedamum:
Ok will continue in club 2002!
smartmummy,smartmummy:
Now in p4, his behaviors has changed ,talk back. Now his study interest got low level.when he was small I hd the cane and explained otherwise I cannot caught his attention. .
E
E
maybe you can shift this part to 2002 discussion. my boy this year in P4 also started to 'talk back'. it is a new ballgame to try to handle his behaviour. i am guessing if it is because they are now 1 more step closer to being a teenager. -
Welcome back wcw!
Waiting for crystal!
Hello! It looks like you're interested in this conversation, but you don't have an account yet.
Getting fed up of having to scroll through the same posts each visit? When you register for an account, you'll always come back to exactly where you were before, and choose to be notified of new replies (either via email, or push notification). You'll also be able to save bookmarks and upvote posts to show your appreciation to other community members.
With your input, this post could be even better đź’—
Register Login