Principal of top school under investigation for hiring prost

[Zhuge]

ok…u talkng about the permanent secretary - tan tin how

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Way2GO:

Zhuge:

[quote=\"Way2GO\"]Top 2 men in Home Affairs both ex SJI boys.

New brooms cleaning hse?
d probe beginning with d 2 HODs r widening n netting more.
Can only be good for d Civil Service to clean it up.

wrong info...not sji..

r we talking of same ppl in MHA?
TCH n TTH?
I m very certain both ex SJI.[/quote]i think miscommunication sini :oops:

W2G tokking about the current HA guys ( blue )
Zhuge tokking about the kena liak HOD guys ( red )

ksi:

For the principal's case, it is sensational as it aims to shame the principal mainly. If my child studies in this school with such a principal, I would think it is just unfortunate that the principal has such a hobby but if he has never taught my child to be wayward or lack in values, I will not fault him and cut him some slack. At most he is considered \"hypocritical\" in his behaviour, but even that I do not wish to accord because I really do not know what brought him there as a fact.

I agree here with ksi. We should cut the slack on this LLH guy. Why is he being lynched in public before any crime has been verified and sentenced. Come on, there are at least 80 other clients, and maybe some of the others will also turned heads. Am quite sure many are from the affluent community as this is no ordinary Geylang menu. :imanangel:

I like the way you used the word ' hobby' though, :evil: :evil:

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I find it regretful that many people who seem outwardly ‘good’ has this side to them. I ask if this is because our society is too oppressed or that pornography and sexual openness has become so rampant that people resort to such ‘hobbies’ - whether they start indulging in it only they themselves will know and can control over.


Also, how often do we see people who at first think it isn’t right, to find themselves going back for more and eventually tell themselves it isn’t such a sin? Or that it is only human, only what all mistakes men would make etc. I am questioning human nature.

[kiddo]

concern2:

I find it regretful that many people who seem outwardly 'good' has this side to them. I ask if this is because our society is too oppressed or that pornography and sexual openness has become so rampant that people resort to such 'hobbies' - whether they start indulging in it only they themselves will know and can control over.


Also, how often do we see people who at first think it isn't right, to find themselves going back for more and eventually tell themselves it isn't such a sin? Or that it is only human, only what all mistakes men would make etc. I am questioning human nature.

prostitution is the one Oldest profession
does'nt mean he look a good guy ...he will not do it
Ask the men here ....the less you look like one on issue
like \"sex\" ... the more likely the higher your needs is in this area,
it's one 'suppress\" needs not express......

Once the little \"brother\" (you know wat i mean) control
the man ...his 'brein\" become park with his \"little brother\" :oops:

Remember ...during my younger days , Dad never allows his DD
out on the street in shorts and all of us must be back by 10pm
or the door is locked ..period.
He know his gender too well!

I personally think this urge can be managed
if the focus is diverted elsewhere more sensible?

Keep chatting with DH on this 'man urge\" issue
probably end up \" dreaming on EMA\" like a few of you here :rotflmao:

[phtthp]

go back to the marriage vows

[concern2]

kiddo:

it's one 'suppress\" needs not express......

Yes, yes, that's what I'm trying to say.

kiddo:

Remember ...during my younger days , Dad never allows his DD
out on the street in shorts and all of us must be back by 10pm
or the door is locked ..period.
He know his gender too well!

I know of one guy who looks at women in a certain way that makes them feel like they're being stripped. Guess what, he doesn't allow his girls to wear bikinis when they were only 2 years old, and insist that they cannot keep long hair, should cut their hair so they don't become vain, cannot wear spaghetti strap...How do you describe this mentality? He knows people like him so well that he fears for his own daughters. 活该! But I pity his daughters.

kiddo:

I personally think this urge can be managed
if the focus is diverted elsewhere more sensible?

Sure, but I think it is also on one's character and value system. Some have stronger will than others, and as long as it is in the value system that says it should not be done at all cost, then there is less urge. It is those who give themselves the reason that it is only natural or 'a man thing' that there are grey areas.

kiddo:

Keep chatting with DH on this 'man urge\" issue
probably end up \" dreaming on EMA\" like a few of you here :rotflmao:

For me, it was some time ago, not due to discussion of the topic. Talk some more then must go to notti corner liao! :rotflmao:

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vicki:

lovejoypeacce:

According to new report, the men might be charged for having sex with minors if it can be proved that the girls are below 18 when the act took place.


So prostitution is legal but having sex with minor is not in Singapore.

I tot only below 16 is considered minor?? Oops...

For prostitute, must be above 18.

[vicki]

insider:

I have female married friends who sleep around too as you know and so theoretically and practically speaking, women CAN!

Hmm.... I also know married woman who sleep around... but only because their dh are also sleeping around... so i think they have what you call 'an open marriage' - and i always wonder - why did they even bother getting married in the first place!

[buds]

insider:

SEX can be a big thing, esp for goody two shoes men, whom may only know how to do 'top-down' position throughout their lives. Usually, a goody two shoes man will marry a goody two shoes woman, and then they likely to have only goody two shoes 'styles'. So, when such men meet opportunities to try 'alternatives', their 'instinct' maybe awaken and if cannot control, may go astray (going prostitution for 'experiments' is of lesser evils as compared to be a peeping tom or molester).


Curiosity kills a cat. I am quite sure intelligent men do learn from such mistakes and not to repeat again after being caught and burnt...(and that's why they deserve a second chance from the spouse).

Sometimes they don't get to meet opportunities right away but instead are introduced to pornography... Pornography itself has different levels. Perhaps Level 1 is chaste and can be easily achieved with spouse.. then he will yearn for more.. as the level goes higher the curiosity deepens. When they come upon discreet online or hush-hush insider services that can live that fantasy or that level of pornography that he was last into, into reality... it later on becomes a fascination. They realize that what they have been watching can come true so they keep going at it before they realize the addiction. The thrill of variety... the pleasure of being serviced (for some men they get a few prostitutes in one session too!) and the sex addiction then becomes a need.. an urge.. for release or else can get into bad mood and for some cannot even perform at work.

So, when men can get excitement like that with money... the excitement at the homefront dwindles... the act of making love with the spouse is no longer exciting or interesting.

Men can switch off and not have attachments when hiring prostitutes for pleasure. They call it just sex.

Women, when comes to intimacy prefer to associate the act to making love and by making love it comes with feelings involved.

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buds:

Sometimes they don't get to meet opportunities right away but instead are introduced to pornography... Pornography itself has different levels...

Yes, buds. I think Porno is the number one culprit as a 'bad influence'. It gives people ideas and make the more adventurous want to try out different stunts. I believe if one watches too much of it, the mind will be corrupted and it becomes a pure physical thrill like drugs. I pity the wives - if they are not as adventurous.