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    Do you think there is still a future for our kids...

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      1amber
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      It is like giving away your birthright and inheritance and then compete on that level. Like my father gives away all his assets and then I try to buy back from open market. Yes of course there is a future. In a future without inheritance you have to start from square one.

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        lim72
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        ebebel:
        Just to share my personal mission and belief, 'cos I really want to stay positive and encourage my kids knowing how hard it would be for them in their generation:

        I want to raise my kids up with the right values and character, that they will grow up to be resilient and to be problem-solvers. So that they will stand tall amongst the foreign talents amongst our midst. So that they will work hard for their future and not be afraid, to believe in themselves, to be thankful for whatever circumstances and what they have - not comparing, not complaining, and to trust God our Provider. To be happy! If they run away from this country their parents and grand parents have built up, they are giving away their inheritance. If they run, they will always be running away because in life, there will always be obstacles, no matter where we are.
        :goodpost: agreed totally with your post, except for the \"to trust God our Provider\". No offence. I will tell my son, his destiny is in his hands...

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          WeiHan
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          HVR:
          Why no future? Why so pessimistic? Are we having problem creating jobs for our future generations? The impression is that many foreigners are here and have taken away our jobs but reality is that these jobs are not wanted by singaporeans. For examples, cleaners, sale assistants, restaurant helpers, constuction workers, bus drivers, etc. At the same time, I know of some singaporeans who shun these jobs because they think the pay is not high. So, it's about expectation but can we expect every job pays the same?


          Look at the causeway every morning. There are at least 20,000 m'sians making daily trip to work here, can't singaporeans fill up these vacancies? No, we all want higher pay job and there again, where to find a country that the pays are the same for all the jobs? We have to keep our expectation in check because there is no way the employers are willing to give high pay for certain jobs.

          The real concern is how to get singaporeans to fill up these jobs. Not possible that everyone is tau kay. We have to accept that there will be wage gap and another concern is that the wage gap shouldn't be too wide. Our Geni co-efficient rate tells us that we are not doing too well in this aspect and I hope the govt is working hard on this.
          Personally, I know a foreign capital market law firm that locate in Singapore but with zero singaporean employees. All their 200 employees are from USA, Canada and India with a law or finance degrees and are paid minimally (fresh grads) US$150k a year. How does this benefit Singaporean except that the government can get abit more tax and to create a false image of high economic growth? and then, there are people complaining about indian boss that only take in indian nationals with MBAs that are paid $6000-$10K. All positions can easily be filled by local grads with MBAs from NUS, NTU and SMU.

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            1amber
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            There is a time to pray and there is a place to post. šŸ˜‚

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              WeiHan
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              lim72:

              I have not been working about 7-8years but I can feel the changes and pressures that my family & friends are encountering in their everyday working life.

              Eg.1 My friend was really upset that her foreign boss was complaining about paying so much for local employees and how much he can save by employing \"better\" foreigners\" etc.

              Eg.2 My sil, a senior executive, was telling me that the future will be very tough for the future generation as most of our kids are study-smart but not street-smart like those \"hungry\" foreigners. She is also worried for her only teenage son.
              Some foreigners are really good but many are really not as good as they claim.

              Why is our productivity dropping ever since our government open the floodgate for foreign talents and workers? In the past, our productivity boast one of the highest in the world. Who can say that Singaporeans are less productive?

              According to feedback, many of these foreigners are really street smart. they are more vocal and dare to state more than what they know to potential employers and that is why they get the job. Locals are too honest and shy to boast about themselves and it create the superficial appearance that they are less competent.

              It has almost created a virulent perception that locals are definitely less hardworking and less capable. But in actual fact, it is completely untrue judging from productivity numbers. By creating diversity for the sake of diversity, the working culture which comprise of workers from a great variety of nationalities, it becomes a headache for management and people didn't realise that productivity actually decrease instead of increasing.

              Anyway, do you believe that a degree in NUS is anything less substantial than an obscure university from China, India and Phillipine?

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                Chenonceau
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                ebebel:
                Just to share my personal mission and belief, 'cos I really want to stay positive and encourage my kids knowing how hard it would be for them in their generation:

                I want to raise my kids up with the right values and character, that they will grow up to be resilient and to be problem-solvers. So that they will stand tall amongst the foreign talents amongst our midst. So that they will work hard for their future and not be afraid, to believe in themselves, to be thankful for whatever circumstances and what they have - not comparing, not complaining, and to trust God our Provider. To be happy! If they run away from this country their parents and grand parents have built up, they are giving away their inheritance. If they run, they will always be running away because in life, there will always be obstacles, no matter where we are.
                This assumes your kid CAN run. If your kid CAN run, then your kid is a winner in the Big Singapore Competition. Singapore WANTS these winners to stay. Here we are talking about kids that our country does not really want... THESE have nowhere to run.

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                  1amber
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                  Chenonceau:
                  ebebel:

                  Just to share my personal mission and belief, 'cos I really want to stay positive and encourage my kids knowing how hard it would be for them in their generation:

                  I want to raise my kids up with the right values and character, that they will grow up to be resilient and to be problem-solvers. So that they will stand tall amongst the foreign talents amongst our midst. So that they will work hard for their future and not be afraid, to believe in themselves, to be thankful for whatever circumstances and what they have - not comparing, not complaining, and to trust God our Provider. To be happy! If they run away from this country their parents and grand parents have built up, they are giving away their inheritance. If they run, they will always be running away because in life, there will always be obstacles, no matter where we are.

                  This assumes your kid CAN run. If your kid CAN run, then your kid is a winner in the Big Singapore Competition. Singapore WANTS these winners to stay. Here we are talking about kids that our country does not really want... THESE have nowhere to run.

                  Agree with Chenonceau.

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                    kiddo
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                    1amber:
                    Chenonceau:

                    [quote=\"ebebel\"]Just to share my personal mission and belief, 'cos I really want to stay positive and encourage my kids knowing how hard it would be for them in their generation:

                    I want to raise my kids up with the right values and character, that they will grow up to be resilient and to be problem-solvers. So that they will stand tall amongst the foreign talents amongst our midst. So that they will work hard for their future and not be afraid, to believe in themselves, to be thankful for whatever circumstances and what they have - not comparing, not complaining, and to trust God our Provider. To be happy! If they run away from this country their parents and grand parents have built up, they are giving away their inheritance. If they run, they will always be running away because in life, there will always be obstacles, no matter where we are.

                    This assumes your kid CAN run. If your kid CAN run, then your kid is a winner in the Big Singapore Competition. Singapore WANTS these winners to stay. Here we are talking about kids that our country does not really want... THESE have nowhere to run.

                    Agree with Chenonceau.[/quote]Believe me, there is no place like home after living 8 years of
                    my younger part of life in a foreign country.....
                    my DS better RUN and fast .. šŸ˜‰
                    because Mommy is not going anywhere except stay home base. :evil:
                    Even major developed country too have many foreigners living
                    amongst them something we need to get used to..

                    But then it is getting tougher in SG because of survival for
                    the small red dot....but aren't we doing ok ...
                    It's how we define being \"happy and successful\"?

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                      violin_lover
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                      Chenonceau:
                      ebebel:

                      Just to share my personal mission and belief, 'cos I really want to stay positive and encourage my kids knowing how hard it would be for them in their generation:

                      I want to raise my kids up with the right values and character, that they will grow up to be resilient and to be problem-solvers. So that they will stand tall amongst the foreign talents amongst our midst. So that they will work hard for their future and not be afraid, to believe in themselves, to be thankful for whatever circumstances and what they have - not comparing, not complaining, and to trust God our Provider. To be happy! If they run away from this country their parents and grand parents have built up, they are giving away their inheritance. If they run, they will always be running away because in life, there will always be obstacles, no matter where we are.

                      This assumes your kid CAN run. If your kid CAN run, then your kid is a winner in the Big Singapore Competition. Singapore WANTS these winners to stay. Here we are talking about kids that our country does not really want... THESE have nowhere to run.

                      :goodpost: I always love your arguement. :siam: Hope I can run back to Ann Arbor šŸ˜„

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                        Edureach
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                        The location has got nothing to do with the success of your kids. If your kids are blessed, they will succeed wherever is their country of residence. Of couurse i would prefer my kids to spend some years overseas and eventually come back to contribute to as citizens of this nation.


                        Just hve to learn to embrace international competition starting from schools. If unable to excel academically, then must be able to compete at professional level in the areas of sports, arts or a trade vocation.

                        If still unable to do any of the above, too bad hve to be a slave to bankers for a life time!

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