Cedar Girls Secondary School

[STan]

pepper spice:

STan:

Btw I am a mother whose son is being chased by a shameless cedar girl till I have to stop his enrichment class and change ds hand phone number.

I feel so compelled to reply to this post, to use the word \"shameless\" here is so strong. It somehow reflects badly on the writer. Remember, the girl is also someone else's daughter.

What other words can u use to describe such a girl? Decent and kind? Sweet young thing? Or perhaps u prefer angels?

If she is your daughter would u allow her to behave like this?

[pepper spice]

Have you met this girl before? Spoken to her? Or did you jump to conclusion that she is "shameless" because she chases after your son?


I have a teenage son. If some girls were to chase after my son, I will not label those girls as shameless. No, I will not. 哪个少女不怀春？Yes, I will feel worried, I will not encourage the chasing either, but definitely not label them as shameless.

[STan]

Tried talking to the girl but she insist they are just normal friend. But to SMS him 1000+ messages a month is not normal. She even ask my son to change classes on sat to go to her school event to keep her company. Talk to her and even tell her my son got ADHD and is easily distracted with phone SMS in class also no use. If she listen to reason I don’t have to air my frustration here.

[pepper spice]

Possible for you to make friends with the girl instead? Encourage their 纯纯的友情 and let her influence your son to excel himself in his studies, sports, etc? (I have no experience in this area yet, but that is what my friend is doing).


This is the CGS thread for parents’ networking, don’t think want to discuss children’s BGR here. All the best, bye.

[Freesias]

STan:

Tried talking to the girl but she insist they are just normal friend. But to SMS him 1000+ messages a month is not normal. She even ask my son to change classes on sat to go to her school event to keep her company. Talk to her and even tell her my son got ADHD and is easily distracted with phone SMS in class also no use. If she listen to reason I don't have to air my frustration here.

I suggest that you talk to the girl's parents or approach the school to see if they can help to resolve your problem.

While I can understand your frustrations and you are of course entitled to have your own opinion, I agree with Pepper Spice that this is not the appropriate forum to air it.

[kiaaik]

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[daranic]

STan:

I have very bad impression of cedar. Too many breaks n the girls can SMS their friends in other school but they forget that other people are not having break. Selfish n inconsiderate. Also seen a few cedar girls holding hands with their bf. very unsightly cos still in uniform. Don't see this with other band 1 girl school.


Btw I am a mother whose son is being chased by a shameless cedar girl till I have to stop his enrichment class and change ds hand phone number.

I am a mother of a Cedarian. It is SO OFFENDING :mad: to put down all the Cedarians cos of one girl who is chasing after your son.

If she is so getting on your nerve, why don't you teach/tell your son to get her off his back and stop disturbing him? Sometimes, it works better that the involved party act on this issue himself. This may discourage the girl and back off.

Please do not come into this thread, air your frustration and start condemning all Cedarians.

[kiaaik]

The 2010 cohort of Victorians has done exceedingly well for the 2011 A-Level Examinations.


1 in 2 Victorians scored at least 3 distinctions in H2 content-based subjects and record-breaking 28% Victorians scored 4 distinctions in H2 content-based subjects.

55 Victorians achieved perfect *University Admission Points of 90. 167 Victorians scored at least 88.75 points. 273 Victorians attained at least 87.5 points.

All Victorians who offered H2 China Studies in English and Chinese achieved 100% Distinctions, the highest in the nation. Victorians who offered H2 Geography all posted excellent results with 81% of them obtaining distinctions and those who read Knowledge and Inquiry also achieved 81%.

An unprecedented 25 subjects achieved 100% passes. All H1 content subjects and 13 H2 content subjects achieved %A above National Averages.

The H2 subjects with 100% passes are Art, Biology, Chemistry, Chinese Literature and Language, China Studies in English, China Studies in Chinese, Geography, History, Literature, Knowledge and Inquiry, Mathematics, Physics, Theatre Studies and Drama, German, French and Japanese.

The H1 subjects with 100% passes are China Studies in English, Economics, Literature, Geography, Hindi, History, Mathematics, Physics and Tamil.

The H2 content subjects with %A above National Average are Art, Biology, Chemistry, China Studies in Chinese, China Studies in English, Chinese Language and Literature, Economics, Geography, History, Knowledge and Inquiry, Mathematics, Physics, as well as Theatre Studies and Drama.

The H1 content subjects with %A above National Average are Biology, Chemistry, China Studies in English, Economics, General Paper, Geography, History, Literature, Mathematics and Physics.

11 H3 subjects achieved 100% passes and the H3 subjects that achieved 100% Distinctions and Merit are Art, Literature, History, Geography, Molecular Biology, Proteomics and Science Research.

The 6 out of 10 H3 subjects offered by VJC that achieved % Distinction above National Average are Modern Physics, Geography, History, Literature, Pharmaceutical Chemistry, and Proteomics.

VJC celebrates with its teachers and the 2010 cohort of Victorians for this set of excellent results.


*The University Admission Score is computed based on a maximum score of 90 points, and takes into account General Paper or Knowledge and Inquiry, Project Work, 3 H2 and 1 H1 content-based subjects.

[qaaz]

STan:

Tried talking to the girl but she insist they are just normal friend. But to SMS him 1000+ messages a month is not normal. She even ask my son to change classes on sat to go to her school event to keep her company. Talk to her and even tell her my son got ADHD and is easily distracted with phone SMS in class also no use. If she listen to reason I don't have to air my frustration here.

honestly i think 1000+ smses a month may be quite normal for teenagers and is your son supposed to use his phone during class in the first place. besides he can always put his phone on silent mode/switch off during lessons so he would not be distracted by it at all.

[livewith_vanilla]

Honestly, I think we Cedarians are already well-behaved for our age. You don’t find the entire school at NEX Mall the moment school is dismissed. Also, we only have two breaks for about 8 hours of school, not even including CCA. That isn’t alot. If your son is so easily distracted, turn off his phone so he wouldn’t even see the messages coming in. I also feel the girl shouldn’t be called shameless, no one but herself have the rights to call her names.

You have a bad impression of Cedar now because of one isolated case makes me me feel that you are very narrow-minded. Cedar is a good school that nurtures her young girls into confident grown up women. Cedar wasn’t my choice school, but the fact I put it as my first choice (and i’m well eligible for the cut-off point) shows that I believe Cedar would nurture me to be someone who can contribute back greatly to society and someone of good values and bringing up besides helping me to excel academically.
I hope you won’t condemn Cedarians, and take your rude comments elsewhere.