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      toddles
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      janet_lee88:
      limlim:

      Why I don't say ban private tuition?


      bcoz, if the student is weak, I believe, these student would reasonably be assumed that they cannot follow class lesson as well.. and they NEED individual attention. These student wouldn't benefit from attending tuition centers classes bcoz they do not get individual attention at all..

      School teachers now do not have patience with weaker students. So these slower ones need 1-to-1 tuition in order to keep up with the rest of the class. At primary level, kids need that individual attention bcos they are not that mature yet. My son is one such example. He is weak, so he needs individual attention to keep up. It was only with this kind of attention that he can pass his Math (p6) CA1 this year. His classmate had math tuition since P3, which was why he didn't fail Math in P5. My hubby and I coached him all these years other than CL.

      I think it's also a sign of the increase in workload and demands on teachers over the years. say 20 years ago, teachers were meant to TEACH. period. they didn't have to do excelfest and all sorts of songs and dance.

      these days, they are required to do so many other things that they have no time to do the basic. in the past (and I suppose still today for the low income) most kids have no access to tuition. teacher will pick out those who are not coping, and offer after school remedial to help them catch up with the rest of the class. these days, teachers bring work home, and are working late into the night after dinner just to stay afloat.

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        Charnic
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        If I am absolutely sure that I can provide the necessary coaching for my child to do well for PSLE, I would match into the principal office and throw the stack of mistakes on his desk, thereafter, homeschool kid at home till exam periods. Come on, how can we tolerate further? She is an English teacher where the language is supposed to be her forte. Your son is lucky to have you to be able to spot her mistakes. Think about the rest of the classmates. They would most probably be misled by her, and the most unfortunate thing is learning the incorrect things at this last moment... The principal must to something to save the rest of the children. :yikes:

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          Nebbermind
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          Chenonceau:


          :spank: You are NOT being helpful.
          Suggest u give her the house SPECIAL!.....

          http://i43.tinypic.com/2mwgldf.gif\">

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            toddles
            last edited by

            Chenonceau:
            VKS2010... maybe you can help. Or someone can please help because it has been 12 months and I am so frustrated that I actually cried over the CA1 marking.


            I sent an email (polite) to DS' English Teacher pointing out that \"A number of reasons contribute to...\" instead of \"contributeS to\". She responded that she will feedback to the HOD to change the marking scheme.

            ..........
            Should I call? Should I email the Principal? Should I keep quiet and teach my son myself (I can more than cope), and complain next year bringing all her marking along with me as evidence? I feel very helpless and frustrated.

            What would other Mommies/Daddies do bearing in mind that my DS still has to stay in her class till the end of the year? I need some advice because I am on the verge of marching to school and requesting to see the Principal... and that will be so unpleasant for the Teacher and I.
            Maybe find some subtle diplomatic reason to switch classes? She doesn't teach the whole level right?

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              Chenonceau
              last edited by

              toddles:
              Chenonceau:

              VKS2010... maybe you can help. Or someone can please help because it has been 12 months and I am so frustrated that I actually cried over the CA1 marking.


              I sent an email (polite) to DS' English Teacher pointing out that \"A number of reasons contribute to...\" instead of \"contributeS to\". She responded that she will feedback to the HOD to change the marking scheme.

              ..........
              Should I call? Should I email the Principal? Should I keep quiet and teach my son myself (I can more than cope), and complain next year bringing all her marking along with me as evidence? I feel very helpless and frustrated.

              What would other Mommies/Daddies do bearing in mind that my DS still has to stay in her class till the end of the year? I need some advice because I am on the verge of marching to school and requesting to see the Principal... and that will be so unpleasant for the Teacher and I.

              Maybe find some subtle diplomatic reason to switch classes? She doesn't teach the whole level right?

              Hmmmm... this is an idea... I could request a transfer to C class because I don't think they will allow a transfer into A class. Something to consider. Thanks a bunch!

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                Chenonceau
                last edited by

                Nebbermind:
                Chenonceau:



                :spank: You are NOT being helpful.

                Suggest u give her the house SPECIAL!.....

                http://i43.tinypic.com/2mwgldf.gif\">

                :stompfeet: :stompfeet: I feel like giving YOU the house special - http://i43.tinypic.com/2mwgldf.gif\">.

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                  Chenonceau
                  last edited by

                  CNS:
                  If I am absolutely sure that I can provide the necessary coaching for my child to do well for PSLE, I would match into the principal office and throw the stack of mistakes on his desk, thereafter, homeschool kid at home till exam periods. Come on, how can we tolerate further? She is an English teacher where the language is supposed to be her forte. Your son is lucky to have you to be able to spot her mistakes. Think about the rest of the classmates. They would most probably be misled by her, and the most unfortunate thing is learning the incorrect things at this last moment... The principal must to something to save the rest of the children. :yikes:

                  Thank you... I am on the verge of doing this but I dun wanna unleash a storm without thinking it through first...

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                    MandyMummy
                    last edited by

                    toddles:
                    janet_lee88:

                    [quote=\"limlim\"]Why I don't say ban private tuition?


                    bcoz, if the student is weak, I believe, these student would reasonably be assumed that they cannot follow class lesson as well.. and they NEED individual attention. These student wouldn't benefit from attending tuition centers classes bcoz they do not get individual attention at all..

                    School teachers now do not have patience with weaker students. So these slower ones need 1-to-1 tuition in order to keep up with the rest of the class. At primary level, kids need that individual attention bcos they are not that mature yet. My son is one such example. He is weak, so he needs individual attention to keep up. It was only with this kind of attention that he can pass his Math (p6) CA1 this year. His classmate had math tuition since P3, which was why he didn't fail Math in P5. My hubby and I coached him all these years other than CL.

                    I think it's also a sign of the increase in workload and demands on teachers over the years. say 20 years ago, teachers were meant to TEACH. period. they didn't have to do excelfest and all sorts of songs and dance.

                    these days, they are required to do so many other things that they have no time to do the basic. in the past (and I suppose still today for the low income) most kids have no access to tuition. teacher will pick out those who are not coping, and offer after school remedial to help them catch up with the rest of the class. these days, teachers bring work home, and are working late into the night after dinner just to stay afloat.[/quote]Yup, this is because now all teachers are assumed by MOE to know how to \"teach well\" (which we all know is not true) and therefore they are being appraised on the extras. These extras take up time necessary to help the weak students.

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                      Mawar
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                      Chenonceau:
                      VKS2010... maybe you can help. Or someone can please help because it has been 12 months and I am so frustrated that I actually cried over the CA1 marking.


                      I sent an email (polite) to DS' English Teacher pointing out that \"A number of reasons contribute to...\" instead of \"contributeS to\". She responded that she will feedback to the HOD to change the marking scheme.

                      Then I found more mistakes in the compo she marked, so I emailed again pointing out that it should not be \"The whole family WERE eating...\" plus others ... and since DS did not make all these language mistakes perhaps his Language component of compo should get better marks. This time I copied the email to an HOD. It isn't the marks that are important but I needed an excuse to email her without sounding like I was correcting her English. I have not received any response to my email since Monday.

                      It has been 1 year. It has been one year of emails that go either unanswered or are answered after 3 weeks. I have never once succeeded in getting her on the phone... and if I leave a message for her to call, 2 weeks can pass before she calls. I need to leave another 2 messages. So far, I have talked to her twice on the phone... both times, I had to leave multiple messages and emails to get a call back.

                      We don't have a bad relationship. When I do get her on the phone, we have a good chat. I've never been rude to her and until this week's Monday, I have never given her negative feedback (both times I spoke to her last year were to ask questions)... but there were SO MANY mistakes in her CA1 marking this time that I finally took the step to email her, and I also dropped a word with the HOD.

                      Should I call? Should I email the Principal? Should I keep quiet and teach my son myself (I can more than cope), and complain next year bringing all her marking along with me as evidence? I feel very helpless and frustrated.

                      What would other Mommies/Daddies do bearing in mind that my DS still has to stay in her class till the end of the year? I need some advice because I am on the verge of marching to school and requesting to see the Principal... and that will be so unpleasant for the Teacher and I.
                      My approach is simple. If I have no control over who the teachers are, and if their actions do not cause my kids any physical or emotional damage, I will let it slide. I am a hands off mother, but should I come to know of such incompetent teachers, I will monitor and coach my kids.

                      There were 2 separate occasions where my kid lost out some marks in SA2. Every mark, down to decimals, made a difference but after highlighting to the teachers, nothing was done. One excuse was the marks were already submitted etc etc . . . I sat down with my kids, told them that I accept their answers, and if they would like me to pursue the matter I would. In the end, we decided to let it go.

                      In life we have to pick and choose our battles. We decided against fighting this one.

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                        smartmummy
                        last edited by

                        Chenonceau:
                        VKS2010... maybe you can help. Or someone can please help because it has been 12 months and I am so frustrated that I actually cried over the CA1 marking.


                        I sent an email (polite) to DS' English Teacher pointing out that \"A number of reasons contribute to...\" instead of \"contributeS to\". She responded that she will feedback to the HOD to change the marking scheme.

                        Then I found more mistakes in the compo she marked, so I emailed again pointing out that it should not be \"The whole family WERE eating...\" plus others ... and since DS did not make all these language mistakes perhaps his Language component of compo should get better marks. This time I copied the email to an HOD. It isn't the marks that are important but I needed an excuse to email her without sounding like I was correcting her English. I have not received any response to my email since Monday.

                        It has been 1 year. It has been one year of emails that go either unanswered or are answered after 3 weeks. I have never once succeeded in getting her on the phone... and if I leave a message for her to call, 2 weeks can pass before she calls. I need to leave another 2 messages. So far, I have talked to her twice on the phone... both times, I had to leave multiple messages and emails to get a call back.

                        We don't have a bad relationship. When I do get her on the phone, we have a good chat. I've never been rude to her and until this week's Monday, I have never given her negative feedback (both times I spoke to her last year were to ask questions)... but there were SO MANY mistakes in her CA1 marking this time that I finally took the step to email her, and I also dropped a word with the HOD.

                        Should I call? Should I email the Principal? Should I keep quiet and teach my son myself (I can more than cope), and complain next year bringing all her marking along with me as evidence? I feel very helpless and frustrated.

                        What would other Mommies/Daddies do bearing in mind that my DS still has to stay in her class till the end of the year? I need some advice because I am on the verge of marching to school and requesting to see the Principal... and that will be so unpleasant for the Teacher and I.
                        we can feedback to the principal.no body angry with us.If u email to principal,I hope she cannot mention ur name and checking her (T) work.If T knows also no problem.
                        I went to PTM,there was no MT teachers,I just scold the Ts to other Ts who took down my number.The next day the MT t called me.In singapore polite doesn't work.cos previous year also no MT ts for PTM.then the MT T gave her phone number,but whenever I called her she never answered and never call back.

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