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      BeContented
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      Canvas:
      pinky:



      agree with you. As SAHM, I often hear remarks like:

      c. you so free, can run errands for anybody (esp family and in laws) :stompfeet:


      WALAU, this one really takes the cake. :spank:

      What's new?
      Mother-In-law siblings will tell MIL....she's (aka ME the SAHM) not working, ask her come fetch you (whenever they not free to send her back).
      Other DILs will say things like.....oh, she's (ME of course) the MOST FREE with nothing to do, ask her to run that errand.
      :nunchuk:

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        buds
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        So, better for DILs without driving license la. :evil:

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          BeContented
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          pinky:
          Www:

          As I am SAHM, husband expect me to do tasks he don't want to do sometime, if not he says I am useless.


          I think I am unappreciated at times.

          agree with you. As SAHM, I often hear remarks like:
          a. wah, you so good life, no boss to boss you around :roll:
          b. you're a tai tai mah, everyday shop and go high tea :skeptical:
          c. you so free, can run errands for anybody (esp family and in laws) :stompfeet:
          d. seriously, do you know what is happening around the world now? :frustrated: do you keep yourself updated? :roll:
          e. we are not contributing to the economy :nunchuk: :spank:

          care to add more 'remarks' ?

          f. Wah, you eat until fat fat, must be enjoying yourself everyday. Good life hor (SAHM cannot be fat is it?!?! :stompfeet: )

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            BeContented
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            buds:
            So, better for DILs without driving license la. :evil:

            Now I think so lor. :slapshead:
            Even own sister use that excuse on me when she is a SAHM and has maid while I no maid then still got a MIL staying with me.

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              buds
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              pinky:
              Www:

              As I am SAHM, husband expect me to do tasks he don't want to do sometime, if not he says I am useless.


              I think I am unappreciated at times.

              agree with you. As SAHM, I often hear remarks like:
              a. wah, you so good life, no boss to boss you around :roll:
              b. you're a tai tai mah, everyday shop and go high tea :skeptical:
              c. you so free, can run errands for anybody (esp family and in laws) :stompfeet:
              d. seriously, do you know what is happening around the world now? :frustrated: do you keep yourself updated? :roll:
              e. we are not contributing to the economy :nunchuk: :spank:

              care to add more 'remarks' ?

              a. YAAHH! (very animatedly) Really very good life! But you won't know that laa. Pity. Tsk tsk.. Too busy with work, not enough bonding with kids hor. Can understand. Eh, who say I got no boss? Got what? I get to sleep with the boss some more you know! Medical, facial, shopping, holidays all covered leh. Good life orh? :evil:

              b. Not only that. Everyday get to wake up late. Can hang out with girlfriends when children in school.

              c. No. That's a myth of SAHMs. SAHMs' office is 24-7 unlike working mothers. Seriously, I only offer when I can make time to. If not, sorry hor. I very busy wan. Don't kachiau me. Some more now busy prepare all my children for exams leh.

              d. Hullo, we more than updated. You dunno cause you got no time to even do KSP-ing right? That's why lar. Not everybody got time to do that. It's understandable.

              e. We contribute more than just to the economy. We raise n nurture future leaders with sound values n upbringing.. not just cookie cutter academic leaders but leaders with happy childhoods to help reform the nation to greater heights.. because they are raised as a whole child, not just academic-excellent but character-excellent as well.

              Anymore curious questions?

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                buds
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                To the husband who even dare use the word \"useless\"...

                He's fortunate to still be alive to tell it. :mad:

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                  Canvas
                  last edited by

                  BeContented:

                  f. Wah, you eat until fat fat, must be enjoying yourself everyday. Good life hor (SAHM cannot be fat is it?!?! :stompfeet: )

                  Wa, what an insult. Some people aka me, drink water also will grow fat one. 😒 I actually lost a little weight since staying at home. I was a lot fatter when I was working. πŸ˜“

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                    Www
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                    buds:
                    To the husband who even dare use the word \"useless\"...

                    He's fortunate to still be alive to tell it. :mad:
                    Starting to feel \"useless\". So what will you do if says this word?

                    The only time got appreciated by husband is when boy falls sick and need me to be available to pick from cc and keep at home (MC) for a few days on and off. :sad:

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                      Www
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                      Canvas:
                      BeContented:


                      f. Wah, you eat until fat fat, must be enjoying yourself everyday. Good life hor (SAHM cannot be fat is it?!?! :stompfeet: )


                      Wa, what an insult. Some people aka me, drink water also will grow fat one. 😒 I actually lost a little weight since staying at home. I was a lot fatter when I was working. πŸ˜“

                      :shock: What an insensitive person.

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                        sleepy
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                        Any SAHMs who exercise regularly?

                        Where do you go for your exercise? ladies gym? dance classes?

                        I've put on many kilos over the last one year due to slower metabolism rate. Now even heavier than when I was several months pregnant. Guess my good luck ran out after all, used to be couch potato & still slim slim. Now drink water also grow fat!

                        Seriously need to kickstart my exercise routine :nailbite:

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