All About Life Without Maids
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Shoe:
agree in general...but sometimes it's no good for a young child to get infections consecutively because the body didn't have time to recover before it gets infected again. Babies are especially susceptible because their immune system has not built up yet, and infant care allows babies to mix around. So it just takes 1 irresponsible parent to put 1 baby with runny nose, and the rest will get it easily.Actually, germs may not be a bad thing, so infant care may not be a bad thing either.
Just sharing a link...
http://blogs.discovermagazine.com/80beats/2012/03/26/let-them-eat-dirt-how-clean-environments-may-set-kids-up-for-immune-problems/
so in general, the parent has to monitor whether the child falls sick frequently at infant care or child care. -
yah, i also agree that germs are good, but not for such a young age. And when it happened, we feel sad that they need to eat medicine at such a tender age. Thats the reason why we decide that i should stay home just for this 2 years. Once he is ready to go school, i can go back to work.
But i truly admire those FTWM - really have the energy to take care of the kids plus cooking and doing household chores. I dont think i am up to it because even now staying at home, i feel so tired everyday. haha...weak woman!
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Hi Claudine, I am a FTWM. It can be done but must be superorganised and it's also quite tiring. Hubby must also be willing to pitch in...that said, I moved in with ILs when 2nd one born
...Just so there are ppl to watch the baby. Will move out again soon. -
Thinking of not renewing my maid at end of yr. Dont know how it will be like
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Ed1975, it depends on really specific circumstances really⦠How old are your children? Do you have any other help at home?
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My younger one is 2 yrs old.
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Ed1975, Are you putting yr 2 yr old in childcare?
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Not yet.
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I do not have a maid but has to put child in childcare as my mum is not able to take care
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How is life without maid? Wkend?
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