Principal of top school under investigation for hiring prost

[cfan]

Let those who want to move forward, move on.


Let those who want to continue to do bad, carry on.

\"Throughout life people will make you mad, disrespect you and treat you bad.
Let God deal with the things they do, cause hate in your heart will consume you too.”
― Will Smith\"

“God is love,\" she said. \"And he respects love, whether it's between a parents, and child, a man and woman, or friends.
I don't think he cares about religion one little bit.
Live your life right. Love with all your heart. Don't hurt others, and help those in need. That is all you need to know.
And don't worry about heaven. If it exists, you'll be welcome.”
― Ellen Hopkins

:lovesite:

[Way2GO]

3Boys:

Sun_2010:

The girls mentioned - did they have the maturity to think thru their act?
Do they know who is the one who is truly going to be hurt in the end?
They think they are smart - can fool mum, they are cool - can do adult stuff, they think they are brave beause they dare - but DO they do they really realise what they are upto ? I dont think so .

If some men decide to take advantage of them - how easy , just how easy it would be? especially if there were no onus on the men.

Well, it seems pretty one-sided to me. Loads of sympathy for pretty egregious behaviours, and the men....all predators yes?

Men taking advantage? I wonder....

I know where you and Chen stand on this, and I know where I stand, and so be it. But I know if my boys get entrapped (God forbid) in the future, despite everything I do, then they are culpable and face up to the music, but I'm not buying 'innocent naive girl' story for a single second.

I seriously doubt dat she is taken advantage of when she willingly n openly advertise her services in public,
n she was reportedly in direct contact with some men on some transactions.

Rehabitation, second chance n given space to rebuild her life – I will second dat anytime.

I find it hard to swallow dat there is no accountability for her role – where is d justice in d law?
Wat is d msg being conveyed to all those underage ‘aspirants’ dat I saw in today’s New Paper headline wanting to be social escorts? ‘It’s OK if other ppl’s lives r messed up but we will make our money n get away scot-free?'

[limlim]

Juz for laughs..

3Boys:

toddles:

and if they have no religious compass, what is there really to stop them? values are very subjective these days.

Subjective and relative.....

Dangerous times for kids

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[buds]

Funz:

peapot:

After awhile when this blows over, don't think people will remember her. This reminds me of previously a gal from temasek poly called Tammy. She had sex with her boyfriend in her bedroom and everything was recorded in the Hp. The Hp was lost and the video went viral. Wasn't that a big news too? We were also wondering how is she gonna cope. But I can tell you right now I don't even remember her face.

So I believe the same thing will apply to this case.

We may have forgotten, but do you think the girl can so easily forget the things that were said about her?

We, can move on as it has no impact on us, we are unaffected as we are not involve. But did we stop think about how our words would affect these people and their families? All most of us wanted to do was to dig out the identity of the girl and find out all the juicy bits and gossip.

Not me. :imanangel:

[hokkiengirl]

3Boys:

I know where you and Chen stand on this, and I know where I stand, and so be it. But I know if my boys get entrapped (God forbid) in the future, despite everything I do, then they are culpable and face up to the music, but I'm not buying 'innocent naive girl' story for a single second.

I have three boys. It's not that I buy into the 'innocent, naive girl' story either. It's that I know the pitfalls of breaking this particular law about sleeping with underaged girls. I Because of my knowledge, I will do everything in my power to educate ,warn and threaten my sons so that they will never be fooled by any girl, falsely innocent or otherwise. There are cases of guys sleeping with their young girlfriends in a moment of passion and getting into trouble with the law, too. So whether or not the girls are really innocent or predators is, to me, beside the point.

The bottomline is that the boys would have done what they were not supposed to and would have to face the music. Then they have only themselves to blame. I would be grieved, but proving whether or not the girl was really innocent or not would be of no purpose because my boys would still be at fault for doing something they knew they shouldn't have.

[buds]

Way2GO:

3Boys:

[quote=\"Sun_2010\"]


The girls mentioned - did they have the maturity to think thru their act?
Do they know who is the one who is truly going to be hurt in the end?
They think they are smart - can fool mum, they are cool - can do adult stuff, they think they are brave beause they dare - but DO they do they really realise what they are upto ? I dont think so .

If some men decide to take advantage of them - how easy , just how easy it would be? especially if there were no onus on the men.

Well, it seems pretty one-sided to me. Loads of sympathy for pretty egregious behaviours, and the men....all predators yes?

Men taking advantage? I wonder....

I know where you and Chen stand on this, and I know where I stand, and so be it. But I know if my boys get entrapped (God forbid) in the future, despite everything I do, then they are culpable and face up to the music, but I'm not buying 'innocent naive girl' story for a single second.

I seriously doubt dat she is taken advantage of when she willingly n openly advertise her services in public,
n she was reportedly in direct contact with some men on some transactions.

Rehabitation, second chance n given space to rebuild her life – I will second dat anytime.

I find it hard to swallow dat there is no accountability for her role – where is d justice in d law?
Wat is d msg being conveyed to all those underage ‘aspirants’ dat I saw in today’s New Paper headline wanting to be social escorts? ‘It’s OK if other ppl’s lives r messed up but we will make our money n get away scot-free?'[/quote]Yup. She's also NOT the only one advertising her services (being a teenager).
Aplenty in varying online classifieds and online forums.

[Chenonceau]

What do we do to 15 year old male drug addicts?

[Way2GO]

limlim:

the only thing impt to me is I don't regard un-substantiated rumours as facts, that's all.

why so many pple seems to believe fully when pple just put up a picture and says \"she's the one\" etc..

Fine. let's leave it at dat.
:celebrate:

[limlim]

Chenonceau:

Some kindness would become us, no?

I believe, part of the function of the law, is not to punish, but to provide deterrence.

Deterrence is a very powerful tool to keep law and order in a society.

Say, You dish out kindness to this woman.. and undermined the effectiveness of deterrence.. as she got away scot free. And \"some\" other young girls, seeing no \"risk\", jumps into the trade, for the $$$$ or watever. A decision they may regret later.

Are you being kind to the other naive young girls?

I say, be kind to the society. Send the right message. give the woman her due punishment. Not for the men (they don't deserve it), but for the good of the young and innocent in the society.

[hokkiengirl]

Ok, not about the case directly anymore, but I was told that men get aroused by sight and girls by touch. Our ancestors had great wisdom in separating the sexes in the past. The youths today are too caught up with the whole idea of being ‘modern’ and ‘liberated’, so playful touching goes on pretty frequently. I had a JC schoolmate who used to put his arm around me quite a bit. Being 17 and dumb, I wasn’s sure how to react. Before long, I started having romantic notions. Thankfully, he found a new target and moved on. The moment the touching stopped, I could step back and say, ‘yewww, yuck!’


And some of the clothes I see being worn in public… hwah, let’s just say there’s more skin than cloth. Let’s teach our kids to safeguard themselves and not even get into situations which are vaguely compromising. As my pastor put it, don’t trust your own flesh. Don’t think you are strong enough to withstand temptation cos there’s when you’ll probably end up being tempted. Be like Joseph in the bible and RUN from your boss’s gorgeous wife who is trying to start an affair with you!