How much u trust ur wife/husband? wholeheartedly? 200%?
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My hubby always read my SMS although there is nothing to hide however I do not do the same to him. I pin it down to kaypohness rather than distrust. What do you think?
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Imp75, you must be a really attractive woman… hahaha
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Attractive? Well I say beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. Anyway old already lah how to fight with young sweet thing? We are no spring chickens you know!
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cherrygal:
But but but.....when all is well, who would check?Yup, trust must be earned. If hubby hide here hide there, we are bound to suspect. My hubby lets me open his letters and bills, play with his handphone etc. Our bank books and passports are lying around so we can see anytime.
You want to check, check in full view when all is well. Dun dig around in a sneaky manner especially after a quarrel. Bad timing.
And once something is fishy.....the cheater would have already started hiding here and there. How to check in full view by then? Can only dig sneaky right?
Actually I also believe....when one has nothing to hide, he/she will not be afraid of anything. -
Well I think nO need to check. If something happens there will be other telltale signs so just get a PI to get the evidence
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BeContented:
But but but.....when all is well, who would check?cherrygal:
Yup, trust must be earned. If hubby hide here hide there, we are bound to suspect. My hubby lets me open his letters and bills, play with his handphone etc. Our bank books and passports are lying around so we can see anytime.
You want to check, check in full view when all is well. Dun dig around in a sneaky manner especially after a quarrel. Bad timing.
And once something is fishy.....the cheater would have already started hiding here and there. How to check in full view by then? Can only dig sneaky right?
Actually I also believe....when one has nothing to hide, he/she will not be afraid of anything.
always ask yourself \"what are you going to do if he has an affair\" first before confronting him.. -
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Check when all is well means eternal vigilance… -
Trust him to behave around outside? Always
With my son? Um... 50%
With housework? Never! You might have to undo his mistakes afterwards! -
missk:
Oooh... if my DH helps out ( and he does occasionally if i am overwhelmed with housework plus revision with my DD), i will still show my appreciation even if it is \"not up to my standard\". To me, certain stuff can be overlooked ... more important is the effort he puts in to make the place that we call home
With housework? Never! You might have to undo his mistakes afterwards!
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Trust him to behave around outside? Always
With my son? Um... 50%
With housework? Never! You might have to undo his mistakes afterwards!
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