All About Autism

[helplessmum3]

Yesterday in the middle of night I wake up and feeling very sad . Thinking after I die who going to take care of my son how he will survive independently

[nugget]

helplessmum3,


I know how u feel. Tat’s why I am pregnant with my no 3 loh. At least when I am not around, he still have 2 siblings to count on. Not that I am expecting other kids to look after my son, but cant be both of them dun care abt his brother ba.

And of cos, we made some investment plans to leave them to my son when we are gone. Hopefully he is independent enough to get by.

[ImMeeMee]

nugget:

I think popular also sell Kumon books right? I recall seeing them before.


But I bought those normal K1 books. Are kumon books better?

ok will check it out. kiasu kiasu everything also buy ... :evil:

[ImMeeMee]

nugget:

And of cos, we made some investment plans to leave them to my son when we are gone. Hopefully he is independent enough to get by.

good point, must start to think about this.

[helplessmum3]

Nugget ,


Siblings will get married one day too. Their the other half may not think the same as them

I dare not to hav another one too. Scare another shocking news or worst one.

Recently in us they say mother who in poor health or old age mother cuz kids to have ASD or down sdrom

[nugget]

helplessmum3:

Nugget ,


Siblings will get married one day too. Their the other half may not think the same as them

I dare not to hav another one too. Scare another shocking news or worst one.

Recently in us they say mother who in poor health or old age mother cuz kids to have ASD or down sdrom

Yup of cos I am not counting on the siblings to look after my son. But at least my son still have siblings around when we are gone. Won't be totally alone.

Whether the siblings want to keep in contact with him or not, its a totally another matter. At least 3 of them have 2 other siblings in the world after we left.

Ya lor, not only old age, obesity, hypertension, diabetes, mothers who smokes all poses risks. So it boils down to how much risk you want to take.

I have another kid not because I want him/her to look after his elder brother. I have another kids cos I love kids!! But of cos if they want to be around the elder brother, then its even bonus to me. But we wouldnt impose on the siblings to look after him.

[helplessmum3]

I also love kids.


Hiaz I shd have stay without kid if I know I’m going to brought this to him.

They very poor thing lo come to the world for me to end up suffering …

Very sad la maybe bcos he is my first n only kid la…

Why I can’t hav normal kids as my friends have… So unfair one…

Now still young to behave inappropriate excuse to say he is a toddler once get bigger really cham… Outsiders will see clearly that our child has mental issues …

Now they still accOmdating tat he is just a child to behave this way.

Imagine a older child act up in public .

Heart pain… Now facing it n feel so hurting.

While normal kids are playing at the pool they are w therapist

$ goes to vacation w normal kids but our $ spend on to let them go therapist. Y they can’t derserve the same as normal kid to vacation enjoy the horses , donkeys ,sheep , nice scenic and ocean . And they have to face in a square room w therapist …

[nugget]

helplessmum3:

I also love kids.


Hiaz I shd have stay without kid if I know I'm going to brought this to him.

They very poor thing lo come to the world for me to end up suffering ..

Very sad la maybe bcos he is my first n only kid la..

Why I can't hav normal kids as my friends have.. So unfair one..

Now still young to behave inappropriate excuse to say he is a toddler once get better really cham... Outsiders will see clearly that our child has mental issues ..

Now they still accOmdating tat he is just a child to behave this way.

Imagine a older child act up in public .

Heart pain.. Now facing it n feel so hurting.

While normal kids are playing at the pool they are w therapist

$ goes to vacation w normal kids but our $ spend on to let them go therapist. Y they can't derserve the same as normal kid to vacation enjoy the horses , donkeys ,sheep , nice scenic and ocean . And they have to face in a square room w therapist ..

Wah lau. U need some shaking to wake up leh.

You say until like you have a severely handicap kid.

My son have been to Thailand, Indonesia, Clubmed, Hong Kong, Japan and no one notice anything wrong with him and we are friends of the zoo and been to zoo many many times and we even sat on elephants before.

They deserve all the things normal child have if you provide them. My son spends time with therapist and weekends we still go swimming, exploring as well. It really depends on how much you want to do for your kid and how you are willing to manage them.

In fact my son does more than normal kids and its all doing him good.

Please do not keep looking at your son through pitiful eyes. If you do that, others will also look down even more on your son!! Their behaviour is different from the normal kids but they are not having mental issues!

There was never once did I ever envy my friend's normal kid. I still very proud of my son being my son and to me, he is the best firstborn I never had!!

Please don't make it sound like you regret that you give birth to your son. If so, you shld really give yourself a tight slap! That's the worst thing a mother can say about her child.

Aiyo you need to pick yourself up before helping your son leh.

[helplessmum3]

Autistic Like Me: A Father's Perspective


http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=iMHyzsXml50

ONE father day his child has died soon after his child is diagnose w ASD.


oh dear... I'm still in toilet crying,,, how how to go back to work desk...

soooo sad......

[helplessmum3]

i have no $ left for vacation all goes to therapies treatments.

zoo seem expensive to me now…
now is work, send him to cc , send him to therapist & home… nothing else…
no time left already. still need to do house chores works… cook & wash & do laundry… no maid…