All About Autism

[jedamum]

nugget:

Lavina:

He likes to play computer games (which boy doesn't) but I feel he is not really creative. For eg, when the school taught them some simple Flash programming, he could only do what he was taught (ball bouncing around screen); his classmates could actually use the simple knowledge to design a game. Moreover, with all the intense competition and copyright piracy, game designing does not sound very attractive.

He is strong in his Maths but he doesn't want to be teacher.

Any suggestion?

Maybe a network engineer or some other engineering courses? Those poly engineering course uses a lot of mathematics calculation like A.Maths. If he does that very well, in poly will be a breeze.

Also usually engineer courses are maths and logical base. Programming courses will need more creativity.

Hi,
can i just drop a note?
if your kid is good in math and can follow instructions well, can consider civil engineering too. IMO, civil engineering deals with a lot of calculations and also need to adhere to sets of rules (ensure building load safety etc) etc. no need much creativity (may need sometimes like how to solve structural issues to accomodate architectural demands) and yet an important part of the team. but the thing with diploma holders are most started off/ended up as draftsmen (civil engineerr to proceed to be a professional engineer need degree or some certification), calculating and drawing (using computer software) drawings in the lab. good for those people who are not very social (like me too...but i dont like math :)).
poly have open houses too....can drop by to take a look if interested.

[Lavina]

Thank you nugget and jedamum!


\"calculating and drawing (using computer software) drawings in the lab\" sounds perfect for him. He did 2 school projects similar to that and he enjoyed it. I will certainly find out more about civil engineering. Thank you!

Boy, I really hate these nationwide life-changing exams

[munchkukie]

Lavina:

Thank you nugget and jedamum!

Boy, I really hate these nationwide life-changing exams

me too...mu elder dd is having difficulty in answering inferential questions already...dunno how she will fare during PSLE in 3 years time.

[DesertWind]

nugget:

helplessmum3:

Nugget,

i still quite can't figure out that part about \"not a mental illness\" but its say brain not develop .

ok one therapy say my son now is 2.5yo but his language is like 2yo.. so mud closed tat gap.. can say late development anot?

Autism is not a mental illness. Autism is a form of neurodevelopment disability, another words, brain or mental disability. Disability will never be cure.

If you want a simple example, lets say a physically disabled person, like a blind person, will he ever be cure? No, he will never be able to see. This is also considered as disability. However, doesn't it mean its end of the world for the blind? No, cos there are ways the blinds can do to overcome their disability. They read though using Braille, they are very sharp in their hearing to help them get things done, they used walking sticks to walk and can get on bus, MRTs etc.

Likewise, we have early intervention programs with OT, SLT etc to help our ASD kids to overcome such disability.

Mental illness is something on a totally different scope. They are not in born. Mental illness are usually cause by stress, depression or they been through something traumatizing that causes them to behave differently from the norm and all these are treatable after therapy and drugs and they will get well if they have not totally lose their minds.

Like some of the soldiers have been through many years of wars, been killing a lot of people and being expose to too much death and they lose their minds and become schizophrenic. (That is consider mental illness)

So summary, ASD not treatable, its an disability. Cannot be cure but can be managed.

Mental illness can be cure, treatable and they are not born with it. No one is born with mental illness.

Gee, good post, nugget, you helped me to understand the difference too!

[star89]

helplessmum3:

Mummies do u know where tO get those talk therapist tool? Like rubber stick .. I wan to stoP my son sudden out pour of droolings?

You can get it from therapy resources. I bought some speech tools from them to train my boy who is still mumbling one word.

I have been following this thread for a while since the kindergarten's teacher raise their concern to me.

I feel quite uneasy recently because I knew that the teacher told my friend who is working at church that my boy like to play alone, looking at his fingers himself and smile. Do you think this is right? The teacher should call me directly instead of telling my friend. My boy attends church kindergarten. There are about2 teacher plus asst to 30 children. Most of the time, they will leave my boy sitting play with his fingers alone while others doing the task assigned by teachers. My boy self help skill is not good, used to be served by helper.

I brought my boy to see doctor at CDU NUH. The doctor commented my boy responded quite well, if autism could be very mild, dont seem to have.

If the kid likes to play fingers, confirm autism? He is not angry if I distract him while he is playing his fingers. Other than fingers, he likes to watch his toes too.

Now, I am contemplating whether I should change his school. If change, He needs to adjust again. He is very slow to warm up in new environment.

[helplessmum3]

Thanks nugget…

Perfectly understood now!

Nugget!! My son come to me twice in a event n call out "mummy """"

In this 2.5yrs he never call me!! My tears hold …

I Dino about other ASD child at 2.5yo did they address their mummy . To me is really something I nevr get from him before today!!

[helplessmum3]

Star89…

Yr son teacher is very unethical !! She shdn’t share w others …

Did nuh refer yr son to physcologist yet ?

Btw how much the talk tool cost?

I just met at fren, she told me her son speak at 3.5 to 4 yo . During his k1 teachers say his son might be special needs too … She disbelieve and carry on per normal . When come to primary school , school also concern so school did a test n say his son just a late bloomer … Lucky her…

But as early intervention the better …
Hav or don’t hav get help is better then no help at all…

Anyway nuh pd is just a pd…

These pp just make worried patents more crazy zz.

Instead of guiding us…

Does yr son has good eye contact? Maybe yr son just speech delay due to his gum or jaw development issue ? Does yr son play w u? Share his joys w u by making u involve ?

[nugget]

Star89,


Autism is a spectrum. Looking at hands and toes alone doesnt qualify as under spectrum.

There are 3 main groups that your child must have shown problems in:
1. Lack of social interaction (eg: in school keep to himself, not interested in other peers, lack of eye contact when talking to you)
2. Communication - eg: lack of speech and can’t talk or express himself well
3. Behavioural problems or repetitive actions- unable to control his emotion or having repetitive actions like flapping, spinning and your constantly looking at fingers could fall under this category.

If your kid show no signs of concerns in 1 and 2 the that’s no need to worry to much.

[nugget]

helplessmum3:

Thanks nugget..

Perfectly understood now!

Nugget!! My son come to me twice in a event n call out \"mummy \"\"\"\"

In this 2.5yrs he never call me!! My tears hold ...

I Dino about other ASD child at 2.5yo did they address their mummy . To me is really something I nevr get from him before today!!

Congrats!! Celebrate all the milestons and continue your hardwork.

[helplessmum3]

ImMeeMee:

helplessmum3:

Mashy,


i know.. but still finding out .. hey I'm still learning what is autism ok....

u educated & powerful english mothers understand faster.. i have to check dictionary or google one de...

still trying to digest this web.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neurodevelopmental_disorder

slowly, helplesslessmum, good to see that you are beginning to try ...

jiayou! :hugs:

Thank you