Mummy buds' Heyloo all!

[buds]

Good afternoon, Pris.tang. :hugs: Thanks for your lovely morning wishes. It's been a relatively good and smooth sailing day so far. Boys all showered and fed by 10:30am and i got to do some stuffs with chubs too... unlike the other day, he was practically babysat by the tv. So sad.. i felt like a bad mommy. Because the baby was crying non-stop he couldn't butt in for his time. I tried to read to him all his favourite books that he kept bringing to me (while carrying baby). It was fine when the baby wasn't crying but when the baby wanted me to carry and jalan around the house chubs (sooner or later) sure got flustered and a little cranky. I kept hugging him (when i wasn't carrying him together with his baby brother) and telling him i love you.. i love you.. i love you okay? He usually is easily appeased. By the time he wanted to go to bed that night (and quite early too! ) ... he just hugged me to sleep dowan to let go. I tried to flinch and go out to wash dishes but he felt it.. so i waited for him to go into deeper sleep before i snuck out. As for the sore womb/lower abdomen, it was there throughout the night. Hard to sleep with the soreness. I practically hugged my hot water bag close to my lower abdomen and the warmth somehow relieved me of the soreness i managed to sleep before the next feed. Not having much sleep of late... paired up with all time anemia isn't a good combination really, so nowadays tend to accidentally fall asleep.

[buds]

SAHM_TAN:

Dear buds,


:hugs: and take care of your health.

Thanks sweetie... trying.. trying...

:hugs: back...

[buds]

LOLMum:

And yesterday papers reported a maid mixing her mens blood with the food....... :yikes:

I heard from hubs that he heard from his colleagues of a maid who was asked to serve tea for employers and their guests. Somehow the maid felt wronged about something prior to that task and decided to make the tea extra special. The employers (after sending their guests out the door) went to the kitchen and was horrified to find pad soaked with tea in the bin! :sick:

http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys.php

[SAHM_TAN]

Dear buds,


You are a great, fantastic, wonderful, stupendous mother.

You do and give more to your kids than what I could ever do with mine.

Take care and lots of :hugs:

[buds]

Dearest SAHM_TAN, i'm sure you give A LOT of yourself to your children too. :hugs:


I suppose, different people have different capacity.
Mine no choice got to be MPV 2000cc. :faint:

But i find that they are starting to take me for granted. :rant:
I'm going to slowly take a back seat and let them show me that they want it 100%
instead of me always with my 200%... it can get tiring. So, doing reverse psychology tactic now. :evil:

Hubs went for PTC and really tarok them.
He complained.. or rather.. vented out everything to their teachers this morning.
He sure had a field day.. :evil:

[Pris.011283tang]

haha guess ur dds are like why isnt mummy here instead of daddy. pri5 nw must sit sportcars and zoom forward for psle already.

[Pris.011283tang]

haha guess ur dds are like why isnt mummy here instead of daddy. pri5 nw must sit sportcars and zoom forward for psle already.

[Sun_2010]

buds:

Good afternoon, Pris.tang. :hugs: Thanks for your lovely morning wishes. It's been a relatively good and smooth sailing day so far. Boys all showered and fed by 10:30am and i got to do some stuffs with chubs too... unlike the other day, he was practically babysat by the tv. So sad.. i felt like a bad mommy. Because the baby was crying non-stop he couldn't butt in for his time. I tried to read to him all his favourite books that he kept bringing to me (while carrying baby). It was fine when the baby wasn't crying but when the baby wanted me to carry and jalan around the house chubs (sooner or later) sure got flustered and a little cranky. I kept hugging him (when i wasn't carrying him together with his baby brother) and telling him i love you.. i love you.. i love you okay? He usually is easily appeased. By the time he wanted to go to bed that night (and quite early too! ) ... he just hugged me to sleep dowan to let go. I tried to flinch and go out to wash dishes but he felt it.. so i waited for him to go into deeper sleep before i snuck out. As for the sore womb/lower abdomen, it was there throughout the night. Hard to sleep with the soreness. I practically hugged my hot water bag close to my lower abdomen and the warmth somehow relieved me of the soreness i managed to sleep before the next feed. Not having much sleep of late... paired up with all time anemia isn't a good combination really, so nowadays tend to accidentally fall asleep.

Seriously, When I was youuunger and single ( as opposed to being just young now ) , i firmly believed that
there is no such thing as \"not enough time\". Face it there are 24 hrs, its just that one wants to do something else and uses the excuse of \"No time\"

It was only when i had 2 kids I realised that there can be really times when really \"time no enough\"
When
- wished I could be at 2 places doing two different things at the same time
- wished I had 4 arms like an Indian goddess
- wished there were thought controlled remotes ( like to close windows when it starts to rain and the baby is on the verge of sleeping...)
- wished I could go to the loo in peace instead of rushing

And that was with just two.

You are taking care of 4 with one infant and one toddler - :salute:

A huge mean task , even with a supporting DH.

You have to take time for yourself to get rest. Yes, even super moms like you.

Show me one mommy who says she hasnt used tv as a baby sitter and i will show you a liar. :evil:
Once in a way, is ok. Now its the school hols, surely your DDs will give chubs more a lively time. :rahrah:
Some tv in between is ok. Make that some tv is essential. :evil:

For someone so full of energy, you are anemic? Do really take care.
:hugs:

[SAHM_TAN]

My capacity is only bicycle kind and the old lok lok type :rotflmao:


The trs are too kind to my dd1, so not much ammunition to fire at my dd1 :evil:

[Pris.011283tang]

morning morning wopps is noon le hope u ladies will all enjoy the start of the sch holidays no more rush for sch.