Do you have a best friend?

[ccgoh]

Interesting, I was just thinking about this a few days ago. I was thinking about my group of good friends and how we had stopped meeting up after everyone had their kids. We would only meet up once a year now. I guess after a while we have less capacity for so many friends.


But I am ok about not having a best friend because my dh is my best friend, we will talk deep and share and laugh and honestly compared to the best friends I had in secondary school, JC and so on, he was the one that I really can talk to and we have the same wavelength and understanding that I have not shared with anyone so while I realize I do not have any best friends outside of dh, I am very happy that he and I can be best friends. I think if we were not married (no chemistry), we would probably be best friends.

[sleepy]

ccgoh:

my dh is my best friend, we will talk deep and share and laugh and honestly compared to the best friends I had in secondary school, JC and so on, he was the one that I really can talk to and we have the same wavelength and understanding that I have not shared with anyone so while I realize I do not have any best friends outside of dh, I am very happy that he and I can be best friends. I think if we were not married (no chemistry), we would probably be best friends.

Same here, dh is my best friend too. We used to be classmates. Don't know good or bad, sometimes I feel that our track of thoughts are too alike, like a herd. Alternative views are good in certain situations. I usually turn to my brother for fresh perspective because he definitely belongs to another herd

But girlfriend is still the sweetest. We recommend each other drama to watch, talk about our favourite 'lovey dovey prince charming sweep you off your feet' scenes, drool after good looking actors, you know that sort of air head stuff. And somehow 90% of her wardrobe comprised clothes she bought when she shopped with me. I'm her designated image consultant :rahrah:

[Mychildren]

Same here, my best friend is my DH beside God. My eldest DS is also one of my friend as I also share my thoughts and views of things with him. :love:


Girlfriends still keep in touch through letters and sms. Busy, hard to attend gatherings though they had organized some. :snuggles:

But its nice that there are still primary and secondary school friends who still keep in touch with me. They warmed my heart when I rec'd their letters, sms and calls too. :grphug:

[BeContented]

One more here, DH also my best friend. :rahrah:

We started as classmates & we have been known each other for 25 years.......
:romance:

Looking back, I realised all through my years, tho I do have some good friends, I dun have best friend (not until DH came along).....
DD's friend celebrated her 11th birthday on Sat who invited 3 best friends. So I asked my P5 DD about hers.....apparently, she seems to be rather similar to me....good friends yes a few, but would not classify any as BEST friend. Was told by one of her classmate's mom, she seems to mix better with the boys.

[ccgoh]

It's nice to have a female best friend though. To gossip (its bad I know but it deliciously feeds some part of our female psyche), to shop, to do girly things. But between having a best friend in a girl and in dh, I rather it be dh. I am thankful I could find a soulmate, I remember thinking in my early twenties if I cannot find a guy who is soulmate material, I rather not get married. But then I also worried about being single all my life..so thank God, DH appeared before it was too late. :snuggles:

[Mychildren]

Hi, ccgoh,


I did also thought of not getting married if can't find the right man. Will be a career woman now if DH didn't appear. :evil:

[olivia leeper]

I have a good circle of friends.when I was in a critical situation in need for a job my best friend dropped it for me. And I am still thankful to her

She helped me to recover those situation and gave me mental support also.
Without her I am big zero.

[tanya]

yes but she is busy building her empire nao

[sundaymorning]

We may have a circle of large social circles but without my best friend supporting me when times are tough, i will have lost my sense of directions . She guided me and encouraged me ! Truly grateful for her existence in my life .

[hugomum]

My best friend passed aways 9 years ago, and since, i could not find a person who can be like her, whom i can share and trust.


Anyway, now my younger sis and DH are consider as my best friends. To be frank, when i go through my hp, i also cannot find anyone whom i can really talk to when i face with trouble or 烦恼, as there is no one whom i can really comfortably share my true thoughts and feelings.