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    Are people with the same surname related to each other?

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    • genmaiG Offline
      genmai
      last edited by

      Agree with AC_Power.


      Guess it also depends on how common/unique the surname is and where the forefathers came from. China? Taiwan? Which province? Same dialect group?

      There are many married couples with same surnames especially if they are common ones like Tan and Lim. With numerous generations before us, there’s no guarantee there’s no distant relations between chinese spouses even if the surnames are different.

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      • genmaiG Offline
        genmai
        last edited by

        Otah:
        But would you all want to take the chance. 不怕一万,只怕万一 .

        What about a spouse who shares the same surname as your mum?

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        • FunzF Offline
          Funz
          last edited by

          Otah:
          But would you all want to take the chance. 不怕一万,只怕万一 .

          In that case, all cannot marry cos we are all related. Cos we either descended from Adam and Eve or from a single cell organism.

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            Flowermonaster
            last edited by

            genmai:
            Otah:

            But would you all want to take the chance. 不怕一万,只怕万一 .


            What about a spouse who shares the same surname as your mum?

            Drama always have 表哥 & 表妹 fall in love, so far no violent objection between both families. So I guess it's alright. 😂

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            • I Offline
              Ichigokun
              last edited by

              AC_Power no I’m not using my parents account xD


              My mother doesn’t even know how to use the computer!

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              • I Offline
                Ichigokun
                last edited by

                @genmai

                For example, what if both the people have the same dialect group, same surname and ancestors in the same province.

                Actually for Taiwan people they can trace their ancestral roots back to China so they are technically "Chinese".

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                  Ichigokun
                  last edited by

                  @AC_Power


                  I heard Li Bai’s hometown was in modern-day Kazakhstan. Kazakhstan used to belong to China Tang I think.

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                    Ichigokun
                    last edited by

                    @flowermonaster


                    They are acting for other people’s entertainment and pleasure ma… Surely that wouldn’t happen in real life. Or else everybody will be like OMG!!!

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                      Way2GO
                      last edited by

                      Ichigokun:
                      Just curious, do people with the same surname have (at least a bit) blood relations?


                      I heard that two people with the same surname cannot marry one another because it's a taboo since they are somehow distantly, but still related to each other.

                      Just curious :x
                      ..............................................

                      Asking y'all for opinions because I'm only a kid 🙂 Not much life experience and knowledge anyway.
                      Just curious Ichigokun, why d interest in dis subject? hmmm
                      Saw a girl u fancy n she has d same surname as u? :evil: 😆

                      Seriously, inbreeding weakens d gene pool.
                      Strongly discourage to marry within immediate family.
                      However, it's OK if blood relations r a few times removed.
                      Also, having same surname does not necessarily mean they r related.

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                        verykiasu2010
                        last edited by

                        if same surname, same dialect group, came from same province / county in China … better be careful and check the genealogy 族谱first…in case of in-breeding risk… that is why parents disapprove of cousins falling in love because in terms of genes, they are so closely related that any mutation may result in kids with disabilities…


                        i know of some surnames that have been traced to the around the first century, complete list of genealogy, a few million descendants …

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