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    Is two-week vacation leave after only one year reasonable?

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    • K Offline
      ksks3mum
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      jtoh:
      ksks3mum:

      When maid set their mind to go back am sure they will try ways & means to find excuses to go back.

      Is hard to said NO or else they will black face thru out and if a mother, the more we have to let them go back to see her own children.

      My maid worked for my mum & sis two years and transferred to work for me another 2 years. In all, by end Dec 12 is 4 years. She requested to go back for home leave, I asked if she going to continue to work for me after Dec contract ends, can she wait till Dec go back. She said yes to continue and will not go back in Dec. Also that her father is in hospital, I knew she is lying bout father being sick but I kind enough to let her take leave to see Hb & her kids.

      I arranged her to go back last months, till to-date she has not return. Due to change of rules (am not sure) she giving me all excuses for not able to board plane twice despite documents couriered over to her. Genuine or not is hard to contact her now. Anyway is common that after maid back home, usually do not want to return.

      I strongly advice do not give advancement- give her only her salary and promised that only if she return, she can have advancement of salary to be Wire to her family if really in need.

      Am lucky in the sense that she has 4K with me – I allowed her to wire back 3k 3 days b4 she leaves. I holding 1k + ½ month salary.
      My father & hubby each gave her $30 for pocket money , airticket x 2 + others misc $630 total 60+630 =$690 + Loan her 2 branded big bags so almost = 1K.

      Also, before she leaves for airport – check her luggage.

      Does anyone claimed levy with MOM before while maid on leave? What’s the procedures and requirement?

      Why are you holding on to $4K of your maid's money?

      Am keeping her salary.

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        ksks3mum
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        verykiasu2010:
        ksks3mum:



        Does anyone claimed levy with MOM before while maid on leave? What’s the procedures and requirement?

        you can go to mom.gov.sg website to lodge a waiver, but only after the maid has returned to singapore because you need to submit document like air ticket and copy of the immigration chop on the passport as proof

        the refund will be offset against the level in the month when the refund is approved

        Maid said will return but did not. How to proof?

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        • H Offline
          hquek
          last edited by

          Only way is to cancel her wp and see if it can be done retroactively based on when she leaves the country. Else wait for her return like what vks2010 suggested.


          But how to keep waiting for her to return? For me, the risk is if she return using the wp, but not to the employer home. that will be the real headache.

          I think it’s good she has money with the employer. I’m impressed she hasn’t flown back back yet for that amount. Usually I will keep - but in the bank, and under her name (joint account), and usually the quantum is not so much becos she would want to bring home to buy land/house etc.

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            POA Teacher
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            ksks3mum:
            verykiasu2010:

            [quote=\"ksks3mum\"]

            Does anyone claimed levy with MOM before while maid on leave? What’s the procedures and requirement?

            you can go to mom.gov.sg website to lodge a waiver, but only after the maid has returned to singapore because you need to submit document like air ticket and copy of the immigration chop on the passport as proof

            the refund will be offset against the level in the month when the refund is approved

            Maid said will return but did not. How to proof?[/quote]How to prove she hasn't come back?
            You don't have to prove that at all.
            Immigration Dept will have record of everyone leaving/ entering. Left, but didn't enter subsequently - they will prove that she's gone and didn't come back. (unless ahe came back but you don't know :yikes: )

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              verykiasu2010
              last edited by

              if the maid has not returned, you simply cancel the work permit. no way for her to return using the wp and go to someone else


              the wp is issued to work for you - your name is on her wp - no way she can work with anyone else

              and based on the cancel date, FWL payment will stop

              if you have proof like airticket showing departure date, there is way for MOM to verify with immigration, their computers are linked, to verify the departure date, and claim the refund, but takes time

              gahmen won’t eat our money this way

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                Prataking
                last edited by

                think it is time to train your kids to help with chores and do without a maid

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                • K Offline
                  ksks3mum
                  last edited by

                  Prataking:
                  think it is time to train your kids to help with chores and do without a maid

                  Thanks all for the advices. She's not coming back, avoiding call from our end. Yes mind switched \" No Maid Mood\"

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                    Metis
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                    Thanks for advice to check her luggage. My last maid sealed up most of her stuff and very quickly sent them home by sea-mail - the big box type. Her face was very black when I tried to check her luggage. Luckily I thought about this scenario, did an inventory check and transferred all the more valuable and important items to a small room at StorHub and a safe deposit box with Certis Cisco 4 months before she was due to leave. I put all the more valuable and important stuff there, including branded items.

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                      ksks3mum
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                      Luckily, my maid took small items and hide in her purse. My hair clip and sock!!! Angry part was she insisted belong to her which are not possible- clip & sock from Jpn. She also took my dried mushroom (half pack) 1 bottle of J&J milk bath - all she need just ask from me and i’ll jolly give it to her…

                      Piss off also when claim for waiver of maid level - MOM needs letter from airline office to proof that she "flew". Garuda want charge me $30 for admin fee and must go down office to pick up somemore… cannot understand why $30? only a pc of paper and few sentences. $10-$15 is still acceptable $*@#@#!!!

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                        hquek
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                        Huh? MOM cannot talk to ICA to ascertain the maid left? Send email and cc your mp - faster. This is ridiculous.

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