Logo
    • Education
      • Pre-School
      • Primary Schools Directory
      • Primary Schools Articles
      • P1 Registration
      • DSA
      • PSLE
      • Secondary
      • Tertiary
      • Special Needs
    • Lifestyle
      • Well-being
    • Activities
      • Events
    • Enrichment & Services
      • Find A Service Provider
      • Enrichment Articles
      • Enrichment Services
      • Tuition Centre/Private Tutor
      • Infant Care/ Childcare / Student Care Centre
      • Kindergarten/Preschool
      • Private Institutions and International Schools
      • Special Needs
      • Indoor & Outdoor Playgrounds
      • Paediatrics
      • Neonatal Care
    • Forum
    • ASKQ
    • Register
    • Login

    6 months' paid leave for mum?

    Scheduled Pinned Locked Moved Recess Time
    111 Posts 31 Posters 18.6k Views 1 Watching
    Loading More Posts
    • Oldest to Newest
    • Newest to Oldest
    • Most Votes
    Reply
    • Reply as topic
    Log in to reply
    This topic has been deleted. Only users with topic management privileges can see it.
    • O Offline
      Oppsgal
      last edited by

      Wish got more "work from home" jobs with reasonable pay…

      1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
      • N Offline
        Namie
        last edited by

        When I saw this proposal, my heart sank. My partner at work is due to deliver at year end and already my boss told me I am not allowed to take leave or MC during the time she is on maternity leave and until she is back. She is taking the whole 4 months + her annual leave + a few more days no pay leave. I have to cover all her work. Both of us work till 8-9pm every day so I might as well sleep in office during the time she is away. My boxes told me I can get a sleeping bag to catch up sleep during lunch. Now 6 mths!


        Work-life for pregnant women. What about other co-workers?

        We are working in a major government agency.

        1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
        • L Offline
          Lynn2010
          last edited by

          limlim:
          buds:

          How about incentives for stay home mothers as well?

          There are many SAHMs who used to be professionals.
          Though they cannot contribute to the economy after
          staying home now, they can help contribute to the
          boost in baby numbers. :please:

          The govt wants working mothers.. That's why got so much incentive for WM..

          And professionals who give up the work is a loss to the economy.... why would the govt wanna encourage that? :evil:

          Yah..... \"PSG\" = Produce (give birth), Store (send to Childcare), Grow (become adult and contribute to economy).

          Wow.... we need more child care centres

          1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
          • L Offline
            Lynn2010
            last edited by

            Oppsgal:
            Might have some employers who will ask on the \"giving birth\" question during interviews. 🤷 Will this leads to more difficulty in find jobs?

            Worse - employers may try to avoid hiring married women who have no children \"yet\" or one child. Interview may ask about family planning. Hahahaha \"What is your five year family plan\" [instead of \"what is your five year career plan?\"]

            Just for fun: Future World -
            New HR incentive - \"Extra year end bonus for women who can proof that they are using contraceptive\" (instead of \"Extra year end bonus (cash incentives) for staff who did not take any sick leave) :rotflmao:

            1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
            • L Offline
              Lynn2010
              last edited by

              Funz:
              16 weeks maternity leave for mothers

              6 weeks paternity leave for fathers
              10 days childcare leave for each father & mother up to 7yrs
              5 days childcare leave for each father & mother for child from Pr 1- 6
              Employers adopting more flexi working hours arrangements
              More school based BASC
              Higher subsidy for infant and childcare (can only foresee fees going up with their push to get better qualified teachers)
              All assistance or benefits extended to married parents should similarly be extended to single parents. No discrimination.
              Teenage kids also need \"teen care leave\". Growing up years are important too, otherwise turn Ah beng or Ah lian (the society doesnt want too, right?)
              (Teen care leave for children from 13 to 18 yr old), uni should be fine already

              1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
              • B Offline
                buds
                last edited by

                So those with ligation very get fatter bonus? 😂


                Those on Mirena get half. Cos still got 0.5-1% chance..? :idea:

                1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
                • B Offline
                  buds
                  last edited by

                  limlim:
                  buds:

                  How about incentives for stay home mothers as well?

                  There are many SAHMs who used to be professionals.
                  Though they cannot contribute to the economy after
                  staying home now, they can help contribute to the
                  boost in baby numbers. :please:

                  The govt wants working mothers.. That's why got so much incentive for WM..

                  And professionals who give up the work is a loss to the economy.... why would the govt wanna encourage that? :evil:

                  Lynn2010:
                  Funz:

                  16 weeks maternity leave for mothers
                  6 weeks paternity leave for fathers
                  10 days childcare leave for each father & mother up to 7yrs
                  5 days childcare leave for each father & mother for child from Pr 1- 6
                  Employers adopting more flexi working hours arrangements
                  More school based BASC
                  Higher subsidy for infant and childcare (can only foresee fees going up with their push to get better qualified teachers)
                  All assistance or benefits extended to married parents should similarly be extended to single parents. No discrimination.

                  Teenage kids also need \"teen care leave\". Growing up years are important too, otherwise turn Ah beng or Ah lian (the society doesnt want too, right?)
                  (Teen care leave for children from 13 to 18 yr old), uni should be fine already

                  This is why I say SAHMs should have some cut in this baby production scheme. SAHMs don't trouble anyone. (at work) In fact, there are many SAHMs who are high flying professionals some of whom like myself still can do freelance work or work from home when time permits. Children are better cared for without the need for childcare centres for some of us too. Same for tuition. SAHMs also get to support, supervise and really be there for our growing teens with raging hormones, peer influence, internet crazy
                  and what nots towards moulding them to be useful & gracious citizens.
                  Whether we are working mothers or not who can directly boost economy, we ARE still citizens of this country AND answering that government's call (plea) :evil: for more SG babies. Now what makes SAHMs any less important from the others. (FTWMs & PTWMs) One for all, all for one mah? All inclusive?

                  Everyone contributes. One way or the other... be it directly or otherwise.

                  1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
                  • L Offline
                    Lynn2010
                    last edited by

                    Although i’m not a SAHM, I agree that SAHM also contributed to the society too.


                    My mum is a SAHM, after that SAHGM (Stay at Home Grandma), no CPF, no Medisave, no leave, etc.

                    1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
                    • L Offline
                      Lynn2010
                      last edited by

                      If (IF) everyone really start to produce one or two more children, not only the government has to increase the number of CC, pri & sec sch, etc. Entering uni is another competition. So, more tuition??


                      What about living space? Building the HDB to 100 levels? or reclaiming more land…

                      Not that it’s bad, i’m just imagining the future.

                      I agree that we need to increase population to boost the economy, but Singapore no land leh

                      1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
                      • A Offline
                        ammonite
                        last edited by

                        [quote] From infant,children care,tuition all need $! Tuition is not necessary but if wanted to give birth of course we must provide them with the best! Pls work on it rather than maternity leave.[/quote]
                        \"Best\" is very subjective. I don't aim to give my children the \"market's best\", but only the best within my ability and means. I can't afford a $1000/month kindergarten and I don't even entertain the thought. To me it's simply out of the question and not worth the bucks. I choose what I consider is the best within my budget, and that is good enough.

                        The cost involved in raising children is like that of buying a house - flat, or condo, penthouse or bungalow? It can be as little or as high as you can go. Children themselves are not very particular and it is up to us to shape their money value mindset.

                        1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0

                        Hello! It looks like you're interested in this conversation, but you don't have an account yet.

                        Getting fed up of having to scroll through the same posts each visit? When you register for an account, you'll always come back to exactly where you were before, and choose to be notified of new replies (either via email, or push notification). You'll also be able to save bookmarks and upvote posts to show your appreciation to other community members.

                        With your input, this post could be even better 💗

                        Register Login
                        • 1
                        • 2
                        • 5
                        • 6
                        • 7
                        • 8
                        • 9
                        • 10
                        • 11
                        • 12
                        • 7 / 12
                        • First post
                          Last post



                        Online Users

                        Statistics

                        6

                        Online

                        210.9k

                        Users

                        34.3k

                        Topics

                        1.8m

                        Posts
                        Popular Topics
                        New to the KiasuParents forum? Tips and Tricks!
                        Choosing and Evaluating Primary Schools
                        DSA 2026
                        PSLE Discussions and Strategies
                        How much do you spend on the kids' tuition/enrichments?
                        SkillsFuture + anything related to upskilling/learning something new!

                          About Us Contact Us forum Terms of Service Privacy Policy