Club Only Child Club

[lasery2k]

ya, coz the boys genes in the family is very very strong. so more or less can guage the next 1 99% will be a boy also…if kana girl really must be bless until cannot bless le. the family got his 2 elder sister, eldest sis is bless with 3 boys, second sis is 1 girl 1 boy. Mine also a boy.


i always throw the ball back to him n say if u can provide for the gynae fees n everything donit a single cent i fork out then i will give birth again…if not let’s stuck with 1 (shot gun).

totally tramatise with the first preg…i paid for every damn thing which the kid need and until 1 year ago things start to get better. long story short which includes $, DH, IL and maid. if really wanna rant out i think can write 3 pages essay in monster IL + monster DH.

[auntieM]

:rahrah: Hiya lasery2k..

Glad things are working out for you..
Can drop by our ILs thread to rant when you feel like telling your story..

[buds]

Now you're tempting her, auntieM.. tsk tsk.. :evil:

[auntieM]

buds:

Now you're tempting her, auntieM.. tsk tsk.. :evil:

no lah.. ..
Sarkali over there also kena :nunchuk: ..

[buds]

But that/our ILs thread really good for ranting.

[lasery2k]

ya, i only read until page 47…from page 1 okie. hahaha…ma chim like chase TV drama like tt.buds…i really pei fu u to the max…


mine is all thanks to DH…he n his childish acts plus a drama PILs…btw i do feel like living in a time bomb family waiting to explode only…+.+…

[buds]

Lasery2k dearest.. most crossfires with ILs are honestly because our DHs lack of stand.. wishy washy decision making.. and the need to accommodate. It's never ending as long as these don't stop. :roll: ILs won't dare touch DILs if the DHs make firm decisions.. say no/decline when the need arises.. don't go around accommodating n pleasing ILs to the point of neglecting the spouses. A still-childish DH stems from dependence or reliance on his family thru his growing up years. They will find it hard to let go. Likewise for the ILs... will still treat him like a child. All decision makings of the family must run through parents very siong u know. The manner you described your situation... read : ticking time bomb... just spells oncoming disaster. No choice oredi now. You better start writing your chapter one so you can hopefully get some advices from those who've been there and done that and if there isn't a way at all that the advices dished out can help, at least you managed to pour out some to lighten your burden just anticipating the fireworks. Take care.


I've been there... my heart's with you. :hugs:

[lasery2k]

hahaha…DH story is all by his own…no involvement in IL…as for IL is a own story all by themselves…drama hor…haha…no link de…

[buds]

New drama.. :rubhands:

[lasery2k]

hahahaha…yr drama nicer leh…mine small fry only…