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    PM Asks "What kind of people do we want to be?"

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    • M Offline
      Melodies
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      Am I in the coconut land :yikes: :faint:

      Daddy 😧
      verykiasu2010:

      [quote=\"Daddy D\"]I just saw the picture on straits times, page A7... On people watching NDP this year @ Esplanade waterfront...

      Majority not locals... :yikes: :yikes:

      How to have a big heart? 🤷

      http://i46.tinypic.com/2e1suic.jpg\">

      Thanks for posting...
      Dunno want to cry or laugh... :faint:
      Imagine being the odd one out when singing anthem/reciting pledge in that crowd :yikes:[/quote]

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        mum_sugoku
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        verykiasu2010:


        we hate nanny state and yet we expect them to do everything ?
        What is considered \"nannying\", and what is not \"nannying\" but rather, something which they are expected to do as the elected govt?

        Not so sure about you but to me, looking after the welfare of the citizens, be it deemed as \"nannying\" or not, is part of their job.. and it is what the voters elect and (taxpayers) pay them for.

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          WeiHan
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          Can somebody clarify?


          How does taking in mostly adult immigrants today help to solve the lack of working adults in the future (due to low birth rate today)? Wouldn't it just worsen the greying population problem in the future?

          As for sidelining of SCs in certain industries, many stories have been told in this website.

          http://www.transitioning.org/

          I am not saying that I believe all the stories in there. Some seem like there are issues behind the stories, some even sound like whining but many look like real, sincere accounts of their experience.

          Singaporeans aren't xenophobic. I think the accusation is off the mark. I think is more like the government is making the first move to accuse for the bad planning that they have caused.

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            verykiasu2010
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            WeiHan:
            Can somebody clarify?


            How does taking in mostly adult immigrants today help to solve the lack of working adults in the future (due to low birth rate today)? Wouldn't it just worsen the greying population problem in the future?

            As for sidelining of SCs in certain industries, many stories have been told in this website.

            http://www.transitioning.org/

            Singaporeans aren't xenophobic. I think the accusation is off the mark. I think is more like the government is making the first move to accuse for the bad planning that they have caused.
            that is to solve the immediaate lack of working adults today for a start (and they don't need to be citizens), the economy has grown over the last 30 years but number of citizens working adults have not grown proportionately

            stop taking in adult immigrants now plus yet to increase birth rate will accelerate the greying population and the economic burden on the then working adults will multiply. even national defence will suffer

            the children of today will be burden with more than their fair share of social / economic burden

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              Imami
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              Dora1:
              3 boys


              We are not asking for special treatment. We are asking for EQUAL treatment on our own soils, I don't think we are asking for too much. Big Heart in the face of adversity, graciousness, blah blah blah.... I am sorry, but I think Singaporeans already have a very big heart in the sense that we still treat the foreigners with respect face to face after all unequal treatment that we get from them. At least we don't hurl abuse in their face like what a lot of other countries do to their immigrants. And their citizens actually don't even face the unequal workplace treatment that we are facing. So I think its very unfair to say that we don't have a big heart and Singaporeans are xenophobic. I think we are already very tolerant. And the fact is, Foreigners are given equal opportunities in Singapore by the Singaporeans, but Singaporeans are not given equal opportunities by the Foreigners here.
              The government can choose to continue denying that there is a problem, and all the anti-foreigners sentiments are because Singaporeans are not big-hearted enough.
              I am sorry, but I think Singaporeans are already very big hearted for not displaying our dissatisfaction publicly like many other countries. The anoymous display of dissatisfaction in the cyber world is here to stay no matter how much propanganda there is to tell us we need foreigners because of our low birth rate, we should be big hearted, blah blah....
              Subconsciously we all understand that. But if day in and out we suffer the injustice, where else do you expect the people to vent their frustrations? Are you saying we are supposed to have a big heart to a robber who we invited in as a guest, but ended up robbing us and chased us out of our own house? We still can be friends with the robber??
              Can you seriously do that?
              And like I said, the public sentiments is already boiling, and if no concrete actions are taken, it will just take some incident to catalyse the spread of the sentiments from the cyberworld to the real world. This is something that I don't wish to see.
              Denying the real feelings of people is not the solution. Preaching and telling the people to have a big heart without recognizing and addressing the real problem is like pouring fuel on fire on people's feelings.

              How did we end up being like that? For the record, I don't believe in posting nasty anti-foreigners remarks online which are unsubstantiated. However, I can fully understand why some people do it, having been through it (and going through it everyday now).
              Hi dora1, I just thought you need a hug :snuggles: not that it helps la...

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                Imami
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                pirate:
                Dora1:

                Winchester


                I am not in IT/banking. There are other industries around that also suffer the same fate.

                Stop dancing around the bushes. At least have the courage to stand up for you believe to be right. What kind of society will we become if people are not prepared to stand up for what they think is right? We become a society of whiners, that's what we become. Content to just gripe anonymously at the coffeeshops, internet etc, but not much else. Just watch the children at the playground. Nobody wants to play with whiners.

                You can start by at least stating clearly which industry(ies) you are referring to. What are you afraid of?

                PS. Yah. I am not a \"local\" graduate. I don't take things like that lying down. Nobody is going to \"squeeze\" me out of my job, because I will not just go out quietly into the night. :nunchuk:

                :rotflmao: :rotflmao: I am sorry but I suddenly think of Bollywood movies!

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                  verykiasu2010
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                  Imami:
                  pirate:

                  [quote=\"Dora1\"]Winchester


                  I am not in IT/banking. There are other industries around that also suffer the same fate.

                  Stop dancing around the bushes. At least have the courage to stand up for you believe to be right. What kind of society will we become if people are not prepared to stand up for what they think is right? We become a society of whiners, that's what we become. Content to just gripe anonymously at the coffeeshops, internet etc, but not much else. Just watch the children at the playground. Nobody wants to play with whiners.

                  You can start by at least stating clearly which industry(ies) you are referring to. What are you afraid of?

                  PS. Yah. I am not a \"local\" graduate. I don't take things like that lying down. Nobody is going to \"squeeze\" me out of my job, because I will not just go out quietly into the night. :nunchuk:

                  :rotflmao: :rotflmao: I am sorry but I suddenly think of Bollywood movies![/quote]bullywood is dancing round the kokonut trees

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                    Imami
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                    pirate:
                    Dora1:

                    Winchester


                    I am not in IT/banking. There are other industries around that also suffer the same fate.

                    Stop dancing around the bushes. At least have the courage to stand up for you believe to be right. What kind of society will we become if people are not prepared to stand up for what they think is right? We become a society of whiners, that's what we become. Content to just gripe anonymously at the coffeeshops, internet etc, but not much else. Just watch the children at the playground. Nobody wants to play with whiners.

                    You can start by at least stating clearly which industry(ies) you are referring to. What are you afraid of?

                    PS. Yah. I am not a \"local\" graduate. I don't take things like that lying down. Nobody is going to \"squeeze\" me out of my job, because I will not just go out quietly into the night. :nunchuk:

                    Haiyo, pirate, why you so fierce? Maybe dora1 is not trying to be anonymous, perhaps she just doesn't think of saying it.

                    But I like your \"Yah. I am not a \"local\" graduate. I don't take things like that lying down. Nobody is going to \"squeeze\" me out of my job\"

                    nice. ęœ‰ę€§ę ¼

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                      Imami
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                      chill chill.... Don't fume, it is pirate you are talking to :rotflmao:


                      Hey pirate, joke joke ar. :siam:

                      Dora1:
                      Pirate

                      How do you know that I am not doing something at my end? I can't state my industry as I am now in a stat board, so it will be very obvious. And I AM trying to do something right now, so I don't want to jeopardize anything by revealing my place of work.

                      The reason I am sharing is that there are a lot of people suffering due to the unequal treatment. People don't dare to stand up for themselves for various reasons. Sole breadwinner, hefty financial commitments, etc therefore not wanting to jeopardize their own rice bowl. I understand why they choose to whine and not take actions. The only action they dare to take is to find another job and quit.
                      I don't agree that we are becoming a nation of whiners. I do write to ministers, REACH etc. I see that a lot of people do too. But whether something concrete happens, that's another thing.
                      And when all else fails, we get a chance to do something once every 5 years. I think 39.9% of Singaporeans last year showed that contary to popular belief, Singaporeans are not whiners that only knows how to NATO.

                      Edureach
                      without positive thinking, many people would have gone mental. Life goes on for me. I am actually doing quite well now, if we can just accept the fact that we are being put at an disadvantage for being a SC on Singapore soil.
                      Yes, a lot of my ex-colleague are in financial planning, property agent etc. they are doing ok now. But they were also doing very well in their previous jobs. I wonder how many of you have personally experienced it and still be so positive about it.
                      Again, I like to repeat, I do not support irrational on line slamming like the Ferrari case. However, the gov cannot and should not just brush aside the anti-foreigner sentiment as \"irrational\". Something needs to be done urgently for the sake of continued social stability in Singapore.
                      The 1st thing that can be done is to implement a quota on PRs from the same country in the same organisation, something like the PR quota for HDB flats. I am not suggesting a quota for PR, just a quota for each country (PR, EP, S pass, WP combined). Exceptions can be given for certain situations, e.g. a US MNC can have a higher quota of US citizens since they may need more staff fr HQ. Countries like AU have laws to protect their own citizens during hiring. When the govt opened the door for immigration, there should also be laws to protect SCs. It is still not too late to implement it now.

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                        Imami
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                        verykiasu2010:
                        Dora1:

                        Pirate


                        I am not ready to put my own rice bowl and future at risk to prove the point. I am just sharing my own personal experience. It's up to the KS parents here to believe or not. It is not my intention to spread anti-foreign sentiments. I just want to highlight that there are real tensions building in the society, and it is not wise for people to simply brush them off to say that these people are irrational. The propaganda to stop the irrational online postings will not work if the propanganda is contary to our own personal experience.
                        The last thing I wish to see is for the online hostility to become real life social unrest if this problem persist.

                        I have been talking to people who people who work at Raffles Place. I know what you mean

                        Wah... Vk and his belly up! šŸ˜‰

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