KS Parents' Love Story

[dolphinsiah]

Mychildren:

dolphinsiah,


U've surprised me by so willing to share. Really thanks for sharing!

I'm not surrounded by admirers and suitors.
Those like me, I don't like them.
Those I like, don't take action or action too late .
So my DH, I take action by asking him why u don't ask me out. Kekeke :evil:

Yes, after much thought I think it is better I pen down my memories.... :xedfingers:
Before I forget about it....who knows when I reached retirement around 60s I might have dementia.... :scared:

[dolphinsiah]

Lilac66:

So, should we choose a husband that love us more than we love him, as they always say?

Yes, fully agree....choose a partner who always put your interest first....
:xedfingers:
I remembered , late spouse was very careful with $$$.... :moneyflies:
When he brought me to buy clothes....during dating.. was always the Sales section not the New arrival.....

Was impressed then ...because to me he was not spendthrift....

But after marrying him, I found that he always spend on himself....not on me... :razz:

So I married the wrong person..... :gloomy:

[Sun_2010]

dolphinsiah:

Lilac66:

So, should we choose a husband that love us more than we love him, as they always say?

Yes, fully agree....choose a partner who always put your interest first....
:xedfingers:
I remembered , late spouse was very careful with $$$.... :moneyflies:
When he brought me to buy clothes....during dating.. was always the Sales section not the New arrival.....

Was impressed then ...because to me he was not spendthrift....

But after marrying him, I found that he always spend on himself....not on me... :razz:

So I married the wrong person..... :gloomy:

dolphinsiah :hugs:
Sometimes we dont know why we do what we do...
But it is over , let go now.

PS- I like the quotes you keep posting

[fightingmom]

Sun_2010:

dolphinsiah:

[quote=\"Lilac66\"]So, should we choose a husband that love us more than we love him, as they always say?

Yes, fully agree....choose a partner who always put your interest first....
:xedfingers:
I remembered , late spouse was very careful with $$$.... :moneyflies:
When he brought me to buy clothes....during dating.. was always the Sales section not the New arrival.....

Was impressed then ...because to me he was not spendthrift....

But after marrying him, I found that he always spend on himself....not on me... :razz:

So I married the wrong person..... :gloomy:

dolphinsiah :hugs:
Sometimes we dont know why we do what we do...
But it is over , let go now.

PS- I like the quotes you keep posting[/quote]Agree with Sun.

I believe all these so called trials and all have made you a stronger person. May goodness and peace be with you. :xedfingers:

:love: your quotes too. They are inspiring.

[dolphinsiah]

Yes, what is done cannot be undone....

So the mistakes that I make in life....
I will make sure my children will not go through....
Anyway , spouse has passed away....
His a Christian , so his family members think he is enjoying life with the Lord...

Me a buddhist, I think he has reborn ..

Lets hope I do not cross path with him again..... :nailbite:

YEs, I shall continue sharing my quotes......

[Mychildren]

dolphinsiah,

U're bold & courageous enough to share your story! :please: A thumbups for u

{The moral of my story is do not marry for the sake of marrying..... }

This I'll remember by heart & is a good advice for all singles, including my children when they grow up & fall in love.

[Mychildren]

Lilac66:

So, should we choose a husband that love us more than we love him, as they always say?

I've always heard others said that it is better to choose a husband that love us more than we love him.
Its only when faced with real crisis, then u'll know. During courtship time, who really knows? :scratchhead:
Now, I'm starting to get confuse on what I'm saying. :?

[Mawar]

dolphinsiah:

Yes, what is done cannot be undone....

So the mistakes that I make in life....
I will make sure my children will not go through....
Anyway , spouse has passed away....
His a Christian , so his family members think he is enjoying life with the Lord...

Me a buddhist, I think he has reborn ..

Lets hope I do not cross path with him again..... :nailbite:

YEs, I shall continue sharing my quotes......

Dolphinsiah, you are right to let go since he has passed on. You also said that you want to make sure that your children do not walk down similar path. To that I say that while we do what we can, sometimes Life or Destiny has its own plans. But at the end of the day, it is alright.

[Imami]

Lilac66:

So, should we choose a husband that love us more than we love him, as they always say?

Yes. But I only realize this after I become his wife

Upon thinking back, I believe he loves me more.

[Mychildren]

Imami:

Lilac66:

So, should we choose a husband that love us more than we love him, as they always say?

Yes. But I only realize this after I become his wife

Upon thinking back, I believe he loves me more.

Oh, that's nice so no need to cry anymore.
Ya, u here to share your story? Don't go.....