Suicide - Do not involve the children
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ksi:
Good point phankao, but you see if the suicide-tendency parent think for the children in the way cfan is suggesting, then your thought process of \"Who will take care of the toddler?\" will kick in and in the end, the suicide-tendency person may not commit suicide. But if the thought process is only \"Who will take care of the toddler?\", then of course the answer is ME and off the toddler goes with the ME..... So cfan's suggestion is worth a thought if it can prevent a suicide from happening. JMHO.[/quote]I am afraid the thought of getting rid of the exasperating toddler situation has been so strong for me many many times over the last 18yrs since I've started being a parent with my 1st child that I can totally understand.
Then who will take care of the toddler otherwise?phankao:
[quote=\"cfan\"]
To all who feels that life has been intolerable or unjust, never ever take away the life of the little one.
I know, I have ever \"entertained\" thoughts of suicide but never ever get the kids involved. You brought them into this world, they deserve to find a better life than you next time in the future, DO NOT take this CHANCE away from them.
Whatever sadness or unhappiness has happened, had happened
It is not their fault....
I feel that it is not our place to judge.
As such, I can never say it's \"wrong\", nor it's \"right\".
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phankao:
I am afraid the thought of getting rid of the exasperating toddler situation has been so strong for me many many times over the last 18yrs since I've started being a parent with my 1st child that I can totally understand.
As such, I can never say it's \"wrong\", nor it's \"right\".
Most just do not understand.
退一步, 海闊天空 ..... -
忍一時, 風平浪靜…
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phankao:
I am afraid the thought of getting rid of the exasperating toddler situation has been so strong for me many many times over the last 18yrs since I've started being a parent with my 1st child that I can totally understand.
Good point phankao, but you see if the suicide-tendency parent think for the children in the way cfan is suggesting, then your thought process of \"Who will take care of the toddler?\" will kick in and in the end, the suicide-tendency person may not commit suicide. But if the thought process is only \"Who will take care of the toddler?\", then of course the answer is ME and off the toddler goes with the ME..... So cfan's suggestion is worth a thought if it can prevent a suicide from happening. JMHO.ksi:
[quote=\"phankao\"]
Then who will take care of the toddler otherwise?
I feel that it is not our place to judge.
As such, I can never say it's \"wrong\", nor it's \"right\".
Most just do not understand.[/quote]If the toddler is the cause of the suicide tendency, then \"who will take care of the toddler\" may not kick in, in that case the toddler is being murdered and the adult dies along due to guilt. Every mom would have gone through some amount pain of adjusting to a new member in the house. I had a difficult one myself and I agree it was very trying, hence I have no more....
I agree to no judging and there was none here but encourage moms in danger to think of positive thoughts is always a good piece of advice.
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mamago:
忍一時, 風平浪靜....
I really love your cheem cheem Chinese sayings....maybe I should appoint you as my Chinese cher also. Then my Chinese can see improvement in leaps and bounds... Lilac cher...nebbermind right?
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ksi:
mamago:
忍一時, 風平浪靜....
I really love your cheem cheem Chinese sayings....maybe I should appoint you as my Chinese cher also. Then my Chinese can see improvement in leaps and bounds... Lilac cher...nebbermind right?
您過奬了,我只是比較愛拋書包而已.... :grphug: -
mamago:
ksi:
[quote=\"mamago\"]忍一時, 風平浪靜....
I really love your cheem cheem Chinese sayings....maybe I should appoint you as my Chinese cher also. Then my Chinese can see improvement in leaps and bounds... Lilac cher...nebbermind right?
您過奬了,我只是比較愛拋書包而已.... :grphug:[/quote]liddat ah.. k lah.. Me cher, she tor (as in tutor).
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Lilac66:
liddat ah.. k lah.. Me cher, she tor (as in tutor).mamago:
[quote=\"ksi\"]
I really love your cheem cheem Chinese sayings....maybe I should appoint you as my Chinese cher also. Then my Chinese can see improvement in leaps and bounds... Lilac cher...nebbermind right?
您過奬了,我只是比較愛拋書包而已.... :grphug:[/quote]I no time to have tuition leh.... My time all used up in main learning activities, i.e. I don't wanna go for extra tuition for the same subject.... :dowan: ...
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K lah, I’ll be your cher for Tamil then, I took that as 3rd language. Let me know if you need…
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Lilac66:
K lah, I'll be your cher for Tamil then, I took that as 3rd language. Let me know if you need..
Wah...my cher is multi-talented... *clap clap clap* anything also can swim... :rahrah: :rahrah: :rahrah:
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