Are you an ugly Singaporean parent?

[BeContented]

I should have some 'fangs/claws' around.....tho they are really blunt cos I have yet to sharpen any of them for use. Think partly cos I belong to the 'old school' who believe that kids should respect their teachers AND a bit of scolding won't die.....so stop whining (refering to my kids )

[Imami]

verykiasu2010:

Imami:

[quote=\"verykiasu2010\"]in extreme situation when even the principal does not acknowledge a problem and did not deem fit to even respond to a parent whose child is being bullied - did the extreme : transfer out the child

Just curious vk, why didn't you advise the child how to \"protect\" himself?

That was what my siblings did when I was a target of a bully. Recently a colleauge's kid was also a bully's target. She try to teach her kid how to fend off the bully.

What makes the parent decides that pulling the kid out is the more appropriate way?

we done all that. that was that bad. no regrets.[/quote] :hugs: understand. I was just curious and thought that could be another dimension of things which I didn't know of.

[Imami]

fightingmom:

we done all that. that was that bad. no regrets.

Must be some very bad experience you and your child had.

Cannot hug you but a pat on the shoulder , ok ?[/quote]
huh? Oh ya hor, he is prickly! :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

[Imami]

Mychildren:

U're right. I'm more naughty.

All the goody two shoes ones are actually the noti one's :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

[Oppsgal]

Depends on situations. Could be ugly parent, if the teacher behaved like that teacher in childcare who ill-treat kids.

[verykiasu2010]

Imami:

:hugs: understand. I was just curious and thought that could be another dimension of things which I didn't know of.

that P underestimated my ability and willingness to get things done

[Imami]

verykiasu2010:

Imami:

:hugs: understand. I was just curious and thought that could be another dimension of things which I didn't know of.

that P underestimated my ability and willingness to get things done

有个有脑，有能力，有势，有钱的老爸真好！

[verykiasu2010]

Imami:

verykiasu2010:

[quote=\"Imami\"]

:hugs: understand. I was just curious and thought that could be another dimension of things which I didn't know of.

that P underestimated my ability and willingness to get things done

有个有脑，有能力，有势，有钱的老爸真好！[/quote]喂, 东西可以乱吃,话不可以乱讲

[Funz]

I know I have an ugly side.


It had reared its head before but for most of the time it lies dormant. Its slumber is rather deep though at times it stirs. But its keepers, reason and compassion will soothe it back into slumber again. However should it be roused, all reason and compassion will be crushed and scattered like dust in the wind.

[Mychildren]

Imami:

Mychildren:

U're right. I'm more naughty.

All the goody two shoes ones are actually the noti one's :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

I had wanted to go off now but c this post, need to ask.
Very cheem, Imami, what's the meaning??? :?