Need an advice on office relationship matters
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Wow! This must be the most active thread now... you have the attention of the KSP Grandmasters, even! :nunchuk:
A friend of mine one strayed. With a PRC (is it a syndicate!!??)... Unfortunately, most affairs do come in light, and it was most devastating for him - career wise at the office, among his clients, his mom threatened to disown him (actually gave him a beating, too!), his wife threatened to migrate with the kid... it was pure hell. Why did he do it? He was in his mid 30s - life was getting predictable and he was getting fat. But then there was a woman who seem to have found him attractive and irrisistable (yeah, right!)... and he said, it was not about giving in to temptation (sex); it was giving into pleasing his ego. And no, it was not worth it. -
mamago:
[color=#FF00FF]No. Don't ever ever tell your wife! What she doesn't know won't hurt her.
I agree. I don't want our home to be torn to pieces! Wifey's just 5'2 but she can get like HULK when gets mad! HAHAHA
verykiasumummy:
i seriously think u should tell ur wife.... u r hurting her more if u dun tell her any sooner...
KSP:
just curious, what if your wife do this to u? how will u feel ??
I actually didn't think about this thing... I was her 'first' and the last.. been my GF for 7 years before tying the knot. :oops: and been very faithful.....
I'll try to stop... I don't want too just shoo her away just like that, it also breaks me you know. Btw, she's definitely single and 4 years younger than me...
I'll try my best not to look today at her FB and send her WhatsApp messages.. :xedfingers: -
Short and simple, you have more to lose than gain.
Do your sums. No rocket science question here. -
Joule:
maybe you can dress up as Catwoman
Hell yeah! :rubhands:
Buds_hubs gonna be whipped to remind him whose catty awrite! :evil:
I just texted him. \"Cat & mouse game today, onz?\"
I'm just waiting for the :drool: or :evil: emoji.. reply from him.
He likes this game on game nites for Catty stays on top.
You know how the mice will play when the cat's away?
Kitty's turn to play. Hard. -
u should stop urself…
dun let the PRC ruin ur family…
what if she’s just treating u as a stepping stone? -
mamago:
No... That's bad sign... This is so called 以退为進... She wants you to think that she is not interested to further with you (nor wanting to harm your family) ... so that you will let your guards down... 请鼙入瓮! She wants you to step into her trap... [/quote]valvestate:
[quote=\"snowball\"]:skeptical: so, who u lunch with today? :evil:
:sad: :oops:
this will be the last time..................... ........................................... she asked me about my wife though so it's good sign, right?
Agree with mamago.
The more you confide in her about your wife, the deeper you will sink yourself into this mire of muck.
She is probably fishing for some weaknesses that your wife has in order to capitalize and use them as leverage to further attract you to her. -
autumnbronze:
agree with autumnbronze... u r falling into her trap by confiding in her...
Agree with mamago.
The more you confide in her about your wife, the deeper you will sink yourself into this mire of muck.
She is probably fishing for some weaknesses that your wife has in order to capitalize and use them as leverage to further attract you to her.
i've never heard of any PRCs who are really into relationships here... they think sg men are gullible and easy to prey because most have AW at home (Angry Wife).. sorry if i offended any of them.. i have a close galfren who is also PRC and she told me this... -
We have a dedicated thread on this.
SG men are so easy to cheat.
Lemme dig it out.
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buds:
nice to read on.... pls provide the link when done..We have a dedicated thread on this.
SG men are so easy to cheat.
Lemme dig it out.
thks so much... -
buds:
Aiyah, men are very simple creatures lah, really! Want to hang on to your man veli veli simple.........We have a dedicated thread on this.
SG men are so easy to cheat.
Lemme dig it out.
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