Need an advice on office relationship matters

[Mychildren]

I still prefer the studies thread, not so complicated.

[verykiasumummy]

Mychildren:

I still prefer the studies thread, not so complicated.

its always complicated when it comes to relationship..

[Mychildren]

ksi:

Flower, something just occurred to me. Say for ladies, when they see a guy like a super hero at work, everything also can do well, very capable, everything the hubby is not, so the ladies become very crushing on such a guy, is this considered 精神出轨? I have seen ladies really very 偶 this kind of man until willing to throw themselves at such a man whether the ladies are married or not or the man is married or not, so is this considered 精神出轨? :scratchhead:

Those \"O\" ones u mentioned are blind & blur vision so cannot c in the rational state already. Just like some like their idol stars so much that they commit sucide when their idol settled down.

[peapot]

Yes…It’s very real. Everyday he comes to work looking like he hasn’t been sleeping well. Crazy man!!! If i can I would have taken a photo of him standing near the window. He is so pathetic. The other married woman also got some going on with a young chap next door. Aiyah. That’s what I see everyday… Sigh… That’s why to me it’s is so common…

[verykiasumummy]

peapot:

Yes...It's very real. Everyday he comes to work looking like he hasn't been sleeping well. Crazy man!!! If i can I would have taken a photo of him standing near the window. He is so pathetic. The other married woman also got some going on with a young chap next door. Aiyah. That's what I see everyday... Sigh.. That's why to me it's is so common...

do u ask them why they allow themselves to be caught in such affairs?

[Mychildren]

ksi:

aiya as colleagues la... why you must think 歪歪, 真是不正歪。 :roll:

When talking serious business, I won't joke so don't worry.

[peapot]

I m not talking to this guy colleague anymore. So can’t be bothered to ask. The other married woman, I don’t dare to ask because she is the boss. Woman also like that so how to blame the guy???

[Mychildren]

Mychildren:

ksi:

[quote=\"Mychildren\"]What's the definition of crush first? I mean how do u define it? Is it admire? How they throw, can give examples?

Yes admire. They will offer to do things for the guy or offer to accompany the guy to any place.

Do what sort of things like buying coffee or tea or packet meals for the guy? Accompany to what kind of places then?
I cannot give right advise/opinion without c..ing whole picture so do provide examples, can?[/quote]

[peapot]

I can’t believe this… You mean the rest of you guys don’t have such things going on in your company!!! I must be very unlucky. Always end up in such company!!

[Mychildren]

peapot:

I can't believe this... You mean the rest of you guys don't have such things going on in your company??!! I must be very unlucky. Always end up in such company!!

When I started to work till I became SAHM, c no such things. Maybe I'm fortunate or too blur that I can't even c.