Need an advice on office relationship matters

[verykiasumummy]

Mychildren:

I still prefer the studies thread, not so complicated.

its always complicated when it comes to relationship..

[Mychildren]

ksi:

Flower, something just occurred to me. Say for ladies, when they see a guy like a super hero at work, everything also can do well, very capable, everything the hubby is not, so the ladies become very crushing on such a guy, is this considered 精神出轨? I have seen ladies really very 偶 this kind of man until willing to throw themselves at such a man whether the ladies are married or not or the man is married or not, so is this considered 精神出轨? :scratchhead:

Those \"O\" ones u mentioned are blind & blur vision so cannot c in the rational state already. Just like some like their idol stars so much that they commit sucide when their idol settled down.

[peapot]

Yes…It’s very real. Everyday he comes to work looking like he hasn’t been sleeping well. Crazy man!!! If i can I would have taken a photo of him standing near the window. He is so pathetic. The other married woman also got some going on with a young chap next door. Aiyah. That’s what I see everyday… Sigh… That’s why to me it’s is so common…

[verykiasumummy]

peapot:

Yes...It's very real. Everyday he comes to work looking like he hasn't been sleeping well. Crazy man!!! If i can I would have taken a photo of him standing near the window. He is so pathetic. The other married woman also got some going on with a young chap next door. Aiyah. That's what I see everyday... Sigh.. That's why to me it's is so common...

do u ask them why they allow themselves to be caught in such affairs?

[Mychildren]

ksi:

aiya as colleagues la... why you must think 歪歪, 真是不正歪。 :roll:

When talking serious business, I won't joke so don't worry.

[peapot]

I m not talking to this guy colleague anymore. So can’t be bothered to ask. The other married woman, I don’t dare to ask because she is the boss. Woman also like that so how to blame the guy???

[Mychildren]

Mychildren:

ksi:

[quote=\"Mychildren\"]What's the definition of crush first? I mean how do u define it? Is it admire? How they throw, can give examples?

Yes admire. They will offer to do things for the guy or offer to accompany the guy to any place.

Do what sort of things like buying coffee or tea or packet meals for the guy? Accompany to what kind of places then?
I cannot give right advise/opinion without c..ing whole picture so do provide examples, can?[/quote]

[peapot]

I can’t believe this… You mean the rest of you guys don’t have such things going on in your company!!! I must be very unlucky. Always end up in such company!!

[Mychildren]

peapot:

I can't believe this... You mean the rest of you guys don't have such things going on in your company??!! I must be very unlucky. Always end up in such company!!

When I started to work till I became SAHM, c no such things. Maybe I'm fortunate or too blur that I can't even c.

[BeContented]

verykiasumummy:

i've heard of 6 cases of office romance with PRCs n i'm really hating it...


the worst case was that the dh hooked with a PRC secretary and in the end preggie.. the dw finally triggered the last straw and left the dh w/o kids.. fyi, she has 3 sons with the dh and has abandon them totally... looking at the dw's actions, u know how much she suffer... where on earth will mum dun want own child!! the dh must be too much so the dw is now taking revenge... see how to PRC is going to take care of total 4 kids...!!

Actually I will not fight for custody of my kids if ever we divorced due to 3rd party. But I will demand access.
Simple reason. I have given up a good part of my life to be a SAHM & take care of family & his parents so that DH can concentrate on his work without worries. Since DH loves his kids a lot, so I'm sure he would take good care of them in my absence. As for me, I would need to try to re-establish my new life, get a job etc hence it would be tough if I still have to take care of kids. If he has any doubt about his new lover's ability/willingness to take good care or treat his kids well, he better think thrice about EMA. I'm not going to let him have the easy way out by & enjoy best of both world. If he is worried for kids or new lover may not want to 'inherit' the kids, it might serve as a deterrent to EMA. (won't work for those who does not love their kids tho)