All About Autism

[Double E]

$650 is after subsidy. Yes, MMI

[helplessmum3]

Thanks double E.


See this mother so cruel ,
http://www.asiaone.com/News/AsiaOne+News/Malaysia/Story/A1Story20120921-372841.html

[verykiasumummy]

helplessmum3:

Thanks double E.


See this mother so cruel ,
http://www.asiaone.com/News/AsiaOne+News/Malaysia/Story/A1Story20120921-372841.html

shocking article!!

[verykiasumummy]

sharing with all KSP here…


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The Star/Asia News Network
Friday, Sep 21, 2012

BUTTERWORTH - A 29-year-old woman, who is a slow learner, is alleged to have been pushed out of a car and left by the roadside in Mak Mandin by her mother.

The woman’s friend said the mother had allegedly warned her daughter not to come back after dumping her.

She said the mother, who divorced her 62-year-old husband earlier, had tried to drop her off at the father’s low-cost flat unit in Seberang Jaya.

"Her step-mother refused to take her in, and so her mother tried to send her to a relative’s house in Mak Mandin.

"But after failing to locate the relative’s house, her mother abandoned her by the roadside in a housing scheme," she said when Barisan Nasional’s Bagan parliamentary constituency co-ordinator David Chua visited the woman at her father’s former village in Kampung Federal here yesterday.

The friend said the incident happened at 4pm on Sunday.

When asked, the woman said she still loved her mother.

North Seberang Prai welfare officer Mohd Rahim Mohd Alif said he was shocked to hear about the incident as the department had been handling the woman’s case.

"We will talk to her parents and counsel them. But if they are still adamant about not wanting to take care of her, we may consider placing her in the Taman Sinar Harapan Welfare Home in Jitra, Kedah," he said.

Chua advised parents who had difficulty caring for children with special needs to seek help from the Welfare Department.
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[verykiasumummy]

the old mother 62yo must hv some problems!!

[mashy]

I think the mother must have been very frustrated. Imagine after taking care of her special needs child for 29 years, her hb has an affair and newly married, I’m not surprised she just wanted to leave the burden to him instead. She probably felt it is unfair that she sacrificed her whole life for their child and all she gets is his unfaithfulness.


I think the father is even more appalling! To leave the wife and rejected his own child. I don’t see why the mother is more to blame than the father.

[verykiasumummy]

mashy:

I think the mother must have been very frustrated. Imagine after taking care of her special needs child for 29 years, her hb has an affair and newly married, I'm not surprised she just wanted to leave the burden to him instead. She probably felt it is unfair that she sacrificed her whole life for their child and all she gets is his unfaithfulness.


I think the father is even more appalling! To leave the wife and rejected his own child. I don't see why the mother is more to blame than the father.

yes, father is also wrong to do all those things... but as a mum, if everyone dun want ur own kid, will u still abandon her??

[helplessmum3]

VKSmummy,


maybe their welfare dept is jus like our KKH CDU… by name only… but actual help still referring us to go Private …ZZzzzz

[mashy]

verykiasumummy:

mashy:

I think the mother must have been very frustrated. Imagine after taking care of her special needs child for 29 years, her hb has an affair and newly married, I'm not surprised she just wanted to leave the burden to him instead. She probably felt it is unfair that she sacrificed her whole life for their child and all she gets is his unfaithfulness.


I think the father is even more appalling! To leave the wife and rejected his own child. I don't see why the mother is more to blame than the father.

yes, father is also wrong to do all those things... but as a mum, if everyone dun want ur own kid, will u still abandon her??

It's probably coz she is venting her anger and frustrations. Haven't u seen so many mothers killing their own kids? At least she didn't kill her. We don't know her situation so we shouldn't judge her. Something must have made her snap. Just because she is a mother, we shouldn't expect more from her than from the father. The father abandoned his daughter but no one criticized him. But when she abandoned her daughter, everyone pointed fingers.

Same like all of us here, I don't believe only the mothers should be caring for our kids. We shouldn't be holding sole responsibility on them.

[mashy]

To take care of your mentally retarded gal for 29 yrs is no easy feat. And with hb betraying u and remarrying. I think she’s really very poor thing. Such a hard life that came to nothing. Then because of this matter, everyone is blaming her. We can never understand her frustrations.