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The Star/Asia News Network
Friday, Sep 21, 2012
BUTTERWORTH - A 29-year-old woman, who is a slow learner, is alleged to have been pushed out of a car and left by the roadside in Mak Mandin by her mother.
The woman’s friend said the mother had allegedly warned her daughter not to come back after dumping her.
She said the mother, who divorced her 62-year-old husband earlier, had tried to drop her off at the father’s low-cost flat unit in Seberang Jaya.
"Her step-mother refused to take her in, and so her mother tried to send her to a relative’s house in Mak Mandin.
"But after failing to locate the relative’s house, her mother abandoned her by the roadside in a housing scheme," she said when Barisan Nasional’s Bagan parliamentary constituency co-ordinator David Chua visited the woman at her father’s former village in Kampung Federal here yesterday.
The friend said the incident happened at 4pm on Sunday.
When asked, the woman said she still loved her mother.
North Seberang Prai welfare officer Mohd Rahim Mohd Alif said he was shocked to hear about the incident as the department had been handling the woman’s case.
"We will talk to her parents and counsel them. But if they are still adamant about not wanting to take care of her, we may consider placing her in the Taman Sinar Harapan Welfare Home in Jitra, Kedah," he said.
Chua advised parents who had difficulty caring for children with special needs to seek help from the Welfare Department.
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the old mother 62yo must hv some problems!!
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I think the mother must have been very frustrated. Imagine after taking care of her special needs child for 29 years, her hb has an affair and newly married, I’m not surprised she just wanted to leave the burden to him instead. She probably felt it is unfair that she sacrificed her whole life for their child and all she gets is his unfaithfulness.
I think the father is even more appalling! To leave the wife and rejected his own child. I don’t see why the mother is more to blame than the father. -
mashy:
yes, father is also wrong to do all those things... but as a mum, if everyone dun want ur own kid, will u still abandon her??I think the mother must have been very frustrated. Imagine after taking care of her special needs child for 29 years, her hb has an affair and newly married, I'm not surprised she just wanted to leave the burden to him instead. She probably felt it is unfair that she sacrificed her whole life for their child and all she gets is his unfaithfulness.
I think the father is even more appalling! To leave the wife and rejected his own child. I don't see why the mother is more to blame than the father. -
VKSmummy,
maybe their welfare dept is jus like our KKH CDU… by name only… but actual help still referring us to go Private …ZZzzzz -
verykiasumummy:
It's probably coz she is venting her anger and frustrations. Haven't u seen so many mothers killing their own kids? At least she didn't kill her. We don't know her situation so we shouldn't judge her. Something must have made her snap. Just because she is a mother, we shouldn't expect more from her than from the father. The father abandoned his daughter but no one criticized him. But when she abandoned her daughter, everyone pointed fingers.
yes, father is also wrong to do all those things... but as a mum, if everyone dun want ur own kid, will u still abandon her??mashy:
I think the mother must have been very frustrated. Imagine after taking care of her special needs child for 29 years, her hb has an affair and newly married, I'm not surprised she just wanted to leave the burden to him instead. She probably felt it is unfair that she sacrificed her whole life for their child and all she gets is his unfaithfulness.
I think the father is even more appalling! To leave the wife and rejected his own child. I don't see why the mother is more to blame than the father.
Same like all of us here, I don't believe only the mothers should be caring for our kids. We shouldn't be holding sole responsibility on them. -
To take care of your mentally retarded gal for 29 yrs is no easy feat. And with hb betraying u and remarrying. I think she’s really very poor thing. Such a hard life that came to nothing. Then because of this matter, everyone is blaming her. We can never understand her frustrations.
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mashy:
It's probably coz she is venting her anger and frustrations. Haven't u seen so many mothers killing their own kids? At least she didn't kill her. We don't know her situation so we shouldn't judge her. Something must have made her snap. Just because she is a mother, we shouldn't expect more from her than from the father. The father abandoned his daughter but no one criticized him. But when she abandoned her daughter, everyone pointed fingers.
yes, father is also wrong to do all those things... but as a mum, if everyone dun want ur own kid, will u still abandon her??verykiasumummy:
[quote=\"mashy\"]I think the mother must have been very frustrated. Imagine after taking care of her special needs child for 29 years, her hb has an affair and newly married, I'm not surprised she just wanted to leave the burden to him instead. She probably felt it is unfair that she sacrificed her whole life for their child and all she gets is his unfaithfulness.
I think the father is even more appalling! To leave the wife and rejected his own child. I don't see why the mother is more to blame than the father.
Same like all of us here, I don't believe only the mothers should be caring for our kids. We shouldn't be holding sole responsibility on them.[/quote]parents killing own children = either out of desperation, out of depression or out of revenge..
for this case, the mum could be due to some of the above reasons or others...
but throwing dd at the roadside is still heartless, if she's not careful enough, could be hurt by other oncoming cars.. -
mashy:
To take care of your mentally retarded gal for 29 yrs is no easy feat. And with hb betraying u and remarrying. I think she's really very poor thing. Such a hard life that came to nothing. Then because of this matter, everyone is blaming her. We can never understand her frustrations.
there are many ways to end the problem, or at least ease the problem.. i'm sure there are ways that are less dangerous.. -
i pray that i could survive as long as i live…
human being are weak…
recently i went to food court, saw a girl who is around 20++ , with a maid & her mother around 60yo… she sit on wheel chair, she always open her mouth, i sit next table to hers, whenever i talk to my son , she will repeat what i jus say, she will look at ceiling lights and stemming…by shaking her heads…
she has a damn PRETTY Face!!! and very pearly shining complexion & skin color… to me she really very pretty… WHYYYYY, her mother will have this thinking too. why my beautiful daughter is suffering this…
her mother still having hard time to make her eat, cuz end up she has to feed her & on her iPhone with Doreamon cartoons, and the daughter will sing loudly in food court… all eyes look at their table…
the mother jus focus on her solely and dun care about the surrounding… imagine, her daughter is already 20plus yo… and siting on wheel chair too…
i think she is non-verbal with physical disability too…
again, she born with pretty face & skin… her eyes pretty , eye lashes so long… her nose high , really can be a Actress kind of image… and she is tall & nice figure too… skin perfectly stunning…
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