Need an advice on office relationship matters

[verykiasumummy]

face it valvestate, stop allowing urself to sink into her trap…


PRCs tactics of "flying kite" applies when it comes to "men hunting"…

they will pull a bit, release a bit, pull again, release again… that makes u drool and lose ur control, totally fall into their trap…

[BlueBells]

Lame excuses.


You just want to lead her on, if not, what is stopping you from asking a couple of colleagues in your team along for lunch? If you have any intention of NOT leading her on, it’s easy to find 101 (maybe 1001) reasons not to lunch with her alone.

[concern2]

Mychildren:

.. I went to take some course when I had no kids & was married. There, I met A & B (both she). A sometimes can blew up temper easily, very impatient. I was wondering why she was like that. Later after the course, she called me on information regarding oversea course related to the course we took. I told her some website & asked her to check online. However, she told me her sis told her that the PC can't be used cause scrared got virus. A is ignorant in PC & I told her no such things. I then printed out the stuffs she wanted & mailed to her.
Few years later, B wedded & A & me & some of us who took the course together went. U know what I c??? A was not there but instead two people. But later, I recognised one of them is A's husband (she shown us her wedding photo before) & the other lady beside him, I don't know.
They behaved intimately. OK, I described the intimacy, the lady can picked up the food with chopstick & put into A's husband mouth.
So politely I asked that guy are u A's husband & he said Yes. Then he told me the one beside him is A's sister. I asked where is A then, u know what he did, he dialed the phone & passed it to me.
A talked to me very tirely, she was in hospital, her don't know how many times miscarriage. I was so :mad: , wondering how come the husband like that enjoying the dinner with A's sister & left A in hospital alone. A told me, she had asked her sister to go with the DH.
Then after talking, I passed the phone back to A's husband, couldn't stand it. Some who came to know (same table) walked away to talked among themselves on this matter.
So now, I understand why A has turned to be like that impatient & easily angry. By the way, 3 of them lived in the same house. After that, no more calls from A & I didn't make an attempt to call her either.
Really feel very sorry for her to think that she still trust her DH and sister at that moment.
(Sorri, no time to check grammar mistakes)

Mychildren, your story reminds me of taiwanese show \"犀利人妻\" . Very similar. In the end, the main actress who was the victim like your friend A, moved on to have a successful career (before that a SAHM) , while the husband and the main actress's cousin (who fell in love with her husband) broke up and lost everything.

[Joule]

valve;


pmed you.

[Mychildren]

valvestate,

So many examples & advices already, still need to give some more??? :scratchhead:
So u need a BOX from me on the head??? (Just kidding)

[buds]

Joule, can pm me too?

I kaypoh. :please:

[concern2]

Mychildren:

valvestate,

So many examples & advices already, still need to give some more??? :scratchhead:
So u need a BOX from me on the head??? (Just kidding)

:rotflmao: I was already tempted to give him another whack this morning! Or a black eye so he'll look really off-putting. :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

[concern2]

buds:

Joule, can pm me too?

I kaypoh. :please:

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: Buds, you're really cute!

[Lilac66]

valvestate, I guess we’re all disappointed… I had thought you were a mature sensible man here to seek advice. You were not deliberately looking for some fling, that’s why you were fed so much input.


But instead you carried on with this lady instead of fleeing the temptation.The fact that you still felt attracted to her shows the danger’s still there…

[Joule]

buds:

Joule, can pm me too?

I kaypoh. :please:

sure. always happy to talk to catwoman