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[LOLMum]

fightingmom:

Wah.. Now then you reply me. Must be berri busy to have miss my \"visit\" huh ?


Your MIL better oredi ?

Meal time is a big headache cos lots of stuff she can't eat. Too hard cannot, too soft cannot..I understand cos old already...teeth no good, problem swallowing...just like my dad.

Busy with exam preparation with oth kids n maid just went home last nite to attend her dad's funeral....back on sept 21. :faint:

As you know I am really hopeless in the kitchen...so past few days already very gancheong....

N I don't know why I totally forgot about our anniversary

[fightingmom]

LOLMum:

fightingmom:

Wah.. Now then you reply me. Must be berri busy to have miss my \"visit\" huh ?


Your MIL better oredi ?

Meal time is a big headache cos lots of stuff she can't eat. Too hard cannot, too soft cannot..I understand cos old already...teeth no good, problem swallowing...just like my dad.

Busy with exam preparation with oth kids n maid just went home last nite to attend her dad's funeral....back on sept 21. :faint:

As you know I am really hopeless in the kitchen...so past few days already very gancheong....

N I don't know why I totally forgot about our anniversary

Too many stuff on your mind.

:idea: go buy some sexy lingerie to surprise him tomorrow night after a romantic candlelight dinner (but you gotta quickly book one wor) ? :evil: :evil:

[LOLMum]

fightingmom:

:yikes: :faint:


Do you need suggestions ?

Tomorrow pm already busy with kids' stuff....nite definitely can't go out.... :gloomy:

So left am....but I need to spend in kitchen....dinner tonite disaster... :sick:

Any suggestions for short breakfast ? Any where nice early in the morning?
:?:

[LOLMum]

I remember to log in here, browse the threads, wrote a few posts.....but forgot about our anniversary.....what does it mean......I didn't even think of it last month...maybe thought of it in June :scratchhead:


Too 老夫老妻 :scared:

[fightingmom]

If you are too preoccupied , will tend to forget …happens to me sometimes.

[fightingmom]

Happy Anniversary, LOLMum! :rahrah: :rahrah:


Wishing you and your DH many more good years to come. :boogie:

:hugs:



:love:

[fightingmom]

Hi LOLMum,


Read about what you wrote in the in-law thread. Are you ok ? :grphug:

Long time didn't chat with you and the gang liao. :snuggles:

[LOLMum]

Hi fightingmom,


Thanks for dropping in...

No I wasn't feeling great last month...so many quarrels with dh....we are trying to get used to living as a family again. With two kids thrown in, the problems became threefold.



On top of that, my maid's dad passed away n she went home for two weeks...me here, bad cook, got to take over kitchen...plus exam n tests for kids....

Anyway, things got better last week, mil went home this am with dh, maid came back, and I am going to Bangkok this weekend with my sis.

Guess it is gonna take a while before we get used to living together again. I am so used to doing my things my way in my house, he has his own way... gotta adjust adjust adjust...

[fightingmom]

LOLMum:

Hi fightingmom,


Thanks for dropping in...

No I wasn't feeling great last month...so many quarrels with dh....we are trying to get used to living as a family again. With two kids thrown in, the problems became threefold.



On top of that, my maid's dad passed away n she went home for two weeks...me here, bad cook, got to take over kitchen...plus exam n tests for kids....

Anyway, things got better last week, mil went home this am with dh, maid came back, and I am going to Bangkok this weekend with my sis.

Guess it is gonna take a while before we get used to living together again. I am so used to doing my things my way in my house, he has his own way... gotta adjust adjust adjust...

Oh... Does that mean your DH will be staying put here long term liao ? No more running two places ?

Why your MIL left? Thought you said she staying with you for good in your last post... Soli if I sound too Kay Poh ...

2 persons with different background come together already will need lots of adjustment , plus PIL, even more adjustment to be made.

It is good that you are taking a breather by going for a trip. I like Bangkok! Love to go chuk tu chuk (errr is that how it is spelt ? ). Always visit the place to see see look look ...I miss the grass noodle with fishball - really taste yummy :drool:

[LOLMum]

He is on break till next year....


No no no you are not being kaypo.

Mil kept changing her mind....to her, it is easier for 4 of us to fly back then 11 of them flying here. Hard also for her cos she is too used to her neighborhood, language and her tv n radio programmes. Also back home, she has her other children to go out with while here it is only us. Here we don't 拜神拜佛，though she goes to church with us, she prefers to do her 拜佛拜神。

She is okay, as a mil, I will give her a 9.5 out of 10.