Recommendation of changes to reduce Stress for PSLE
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er โฆ are we talking about reducing stress for the kids or for the parents?
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tankee:
er .... are we talking about reducing stress for the kids or for the parents?
Meant for the kids.....but from the look of it, parents need it more -
MMM:
My son loves science, so we didn't have much problems coaching him without tuition. But we got fed up bcos son couldn't score in his fav subject. We refused to bring in science tutor, still wanting to believe that school will teach students to answer OE questions the way PSLE markers are looking for. But we were deeply disappointed. I do not know how many others feel that way.I think my issue with science is that, marks are awarded based on production of \"Key words\" and required answering style..... So even a common sense answer without keywords = wrong..... My P5 dd manages that but my P4 ds struggles... He enjoys science BUT he struggles during exams as he always like to say in his own words...
I acknowleged I am the type of parent who struggle with science. But is the marking focus today correct???? It appears to promote rote learning eg. memorise the standard answers for given set of questions. That is really stifling. -
FQW:
Another way to reduce stress is for MOE to send parents of P6ers to 'Parenting 101' course and explain to them that it's not the end of the world if their kids don't make it to IP.
Not every parent wants their kids to attend IP schools.
I want my son to go through the normal route...to sit for O levels. -
tankee:
er .... are we talking about reducing stress for the kids or for the parents?
A lot of stress is transferred from parent to child. If parent can let go a bit, children will be less stressed. -
janet_lee88:
Don't bluff lah Janet. You spent $2,000 a mth on tuition just so that your son can sit for O levels? Hard to believe leh.FQW:
Another way to reduce stress is for MOE to send parents of P6ers to 'Parenting 101' course and explain to them that it's not the end of the world if their kids don't make it to IP.
Not every parent wants their kids to attend IP schools.
I want my son to go through the normal route...to sit for O levels. -
Give chance lah! :imanangel:
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:pokeeye: Probably Janet is spending $2000/mth for kid to go for a good secondary school.
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There is no need for me to bluff.
I know where my son stands. IP is not for him. -
janet_lee88:
I see, I tot you always say you hope [your ds] goes to the all boys sch down the road (which I read it as HCI). So I assume you're spending that kind of serious money to nudge him towards that. Mabbe I'm mistaken.There is no need for me to bluff.
I know where my son stands. IP is not for him. -
FQW:
You gotta be kidding. HCI is not for my son. My son is not anywhere near that standard. I am realistic.
I see, I tot you always say you hope [your ds] goes to the all boys sch down the road (which I read it as HCI). So I assume you're spending that kind of serious money to nudge him towards that. Mabbe I'm mistaken.janet_lee88:
There is no need for me to bluff.
I know where my son stands. IP is not for him. -
FQW:
Another way to reduce stress is for MOE to send parents of P6ers to 'Parenting 101' course and explain to them that it's not the end of the world if their kids don't make it to IP.
I agree with you FQW.. In addition talks can be held to advice parents how to go through the 'stress period' with their kid with Less stress .... -
FQW:
Another way to reduce stress is for MOE to send parents of P6ers to 'Parenting 101' course and explain to them that it's not the end of the world if their kids don't make it to IP.
I don't know if all parents want their kids to go to IP, but I think many parents tend to set their sights high, sometimes a little too high for their particular child? That can lead to a lot of stress on both parent and child. There is a common belief that setting sights high is a good thing as it forces a child to work harder, but if sights are set too high, that's where the child can be over-stressed. So a realistic assessment of what their child can achieve and acceptance of their child's limitations is probably needed in some (many?) families.
And it's not just parents, teachers and tutors are also guilty of setting sights too high believing that this is a good way to motivate kids. It may work for some, but I believe it doesn't for most. -
I really would like more transparency in marking rubrics for the following:
A. composition. What is considered as good enough? For 30-35 out of 40 mark range, what is really considered as good grammar or good vocabulary or ideas? I never cd get a straight answer from any teacher. For same compo u can get a difference in 5-8 marks.
B. method marks in Maths. What is considered as demonstration of thinking. Moe stresses on model drawing yet if u draw models and put in all yr working inside your model no marks given. Currently u need to show a number sentence to get method marks. Correct Answer get 2 marks for problem sum. Got this info from ex teacher who previously marked psle. More info & transparency will help to reduce stress otherwise like shooting in the dark.
Next I would like to see more transparency on statistics of psle results. For eg
A. What % of students actually attain 250 & above t score? What % attain 230 & above, 220 etc. what is the Average t score for the cohort? Is 200 the average ie right in the middle of the bell curve? Why ask for such info? I realized that many of friends actually donโt know how well their kids did as in sm parents at first think that 250 is not really good until I share that 250 may b putting u within top 5-10% of Singapore. That gives parents and children perspective. Absolute grades in themselves donโt always tell u the full story. If t score is a score to place u in comparison with yr peers, why not b more transparent? U know itโs growth chart u see in the health booklet. If u growing ok if u are within 50-80 percentile. Cause for concern if u fall within bottom half of percentile. Percentile info may b able to reduce some stress for parents as they are zooming in alot of COP rather than how yr child has fared in comparison with the rest of 40 000 kids taking exams. -
beanbear:
Percentile info may b able to reduce some stress for parents as they are zooming in alot of COP rather than how yr child has fared in comparison with the rest of 40 000 kids taking exams.
YES! Actually, I would prefer the PSLE results to be in the form of percentiles for every subject and also overall. That's so much easier to understand than a T-score. -
slmkhoo:
The percentile in growth chart is good as it may be an indication that the child is not thriving and parents could seek help early. But in academics.beanbear:
Percentile info may b able to reduce some stress for parents as they are zooming in alot of COP rather than how yr child has fared in comparison with the rest of 40 000 kids taking exams.
YES! Actually, I would prefer the PSLE results to be in the form of percentiles for every subject and also overall. That's so much easier to understand than a T-score.
I wouldn't want to know the percentile. It does not serve any purpose but to give bragging rights to those that are in the top percentile. How would a child feels if he knows that he is in the bottom 5 percentile in the whole P6 cohort.
What's done cannot be undone. The psle exam is over and why bother if one is in the top or bottom percentile. :siam: -
beanbear:
Yeah... AgreedI really would like more transparency in marking rubrics for the following:
A. composition. What is considered as good enough? For 30-35 out of 40 mark range, what is really considered as good grammar or good vocabulary or ideas? I never cd get a straight answer from any teacher. For same compo u can get a difference in 5-8 marks.
B. method marks in Maths. What is considered as demonstration of thinking. Moe stresses on model drawing yet if u draw models and put in all yr working inside your model no marks given. Currently u need to show a number sentence to get method marks. Correct Answer get 2 marks for problem sum. Got this info from ex teacher who previously marked psle. More info & transparency will help to reduce stress otherwise like shooting in the dark. -
xfx:
The percentile in growth chart is good as it may be an indication that the child is not thriving and parents could seek help early. But in academics.slmkhoo:
[quote=\"beanbear\"]Percentile info may b able to reduce some stress for parents as they are zooming in alot of COP rather than how yr child has fared in comparison with the rest of 40 000 kids taking exams.
YES! Actually, I would prefer the PSLE results to be in the form of percentiles for every subject and also overall. That's so much easier to understand than a T-score.
I wouldn't want to know the percentile. It does not serve any purpose but to give bragging rights to those that are in the top percentile. How would a child feels if he knows that he is in the bottom 5 percentile in the whole P6 cohort.
What's done cannot be undone. The psle exam is over and why bother if one is in the top or bottom percentile. :siam:[/quote]For me PSLE is only one milestone in the journey of a child's education here. I feel that for all the effort to get a T-score just for school placement is really wasteful. Maybe for some parents it serves as bragging rights. Maybe for some parents, it's awareness of what needs to be taken care of, if the parent is still unaware. I'm more concerned about giving parents an added perspective about what their child's performance means in the context of his whole cohort. At the workplace, I used to have to deal with my staff who complain about getting a C grading. At my previous workplace, C grade is average. Maybe 20% get B grade and only 5 or less than 5% get A grade. Those who are unaware about how the system works are very angry about the C. But when supervisors are transparent, they understand that C is not really bad. It's average. You share the same grade with majority of your cohort.
For eg, in DS school, they give you highest score, average score and lowest score for exams. For us parents, it's hard to know how difficult the paper is. If you look at Maths, even when the kids say it's a darn difficult paper, there's still some kids who can score 100 or 98 while the rest are languishing in the 60s and still many others failing the paper. But if school does not tell us this info about average, percentile etc, we may end up scolding our kid for getting a C grade. My focus is on the average score because I KNOW my son is not in the top percentile. There's so much meaning attributed to an A*, A, B, C or D. To me if information is given to me that C means AVERAGE, I'm quite happy. If C means FAILURE, then it's a different story. If only 2% of kids can get A* for Maths or Science, it's a relief for me. No need to strive so hard leh. B or C also ok what. But we don't have such data right? So much stress is created because parents are creating meanings about what A means, what B means, etc. These meanings may not be accurate. I've read a posting where a parent's child skipped 3 questions (5 mark questions) in Maths, and still got a A*. You do the math yourself. There's a lot of mystery behind what's going on the scoring business. Too much mystery I feel.
If i merely look at the absolute scores one of his Prelim papers for one his subjects, I might get really anxious. He got 66. But there was an average score given. It was 64. Highest score 85. So I'm still quite relieved. He's within average. I'd like to think I'm not an overly ambitious kind of parent. If my child is within average & slightly above average I'm fine especially because I know he has the ability reach at least average or above average. He's got company with many of his peers and it gives me some kind of gauge as to the level of difficulty for that paper. But if average score was 75 and my kid got 66, there's cause for concern, yes? Especially if I know by his track record, he's usually within the average or above average range.
Now my DD2 who is now in P5 is a different kind of child altogether. She has consistently been at the bottom 20 percentile since P3. She's in the last class. We take it as it is because we know it's not because of lack of hard work but her learning difficulties. She's demoralized at times but we still ensure she puts her best foot forward. We set goals for sections of the paper rather than the absolute scores for the overall paper. We'd be very happy if she could make it into the Normal Acad. -
janet_lee88:
Personally, I thought they are more focus on exam techniques than anything else. Why don't they change the name from science to exam techniques? How to foster that love in science when kids start to self doubt when they don't do well during exams??? They will start to think oh, I am just not good in science, it's difficult for me and give up on the love for science. That is just so unfortunate. MOE needs to look into the focus. We are producing a nation of rote learners who cannot think creatively as the environment don't encourage them to do so. To do well, ability to rote learn seems critical.
My son loves science, so we didn't have much problems coaching him without tuition. But we got fed up bcos son couldn't score in his fav subject. We refused to bring in science tutor, still wanting to believe that school will teach students to answer OE questions the way PSLE markers are looking for. But we were deeply disappointed. I do not know how many others feel that way.MMM:
I think my issue with science is that, marks are awarded based on production of \"Key words\" and required answering style..... So even a common sense answer without keywords = wrong..... My P5 dd manages that but my P4 ds struggles... He enjoys science BUT he struggles during exams as he always like to say in his own words...
I acknowleged I am the type of parent who struggle with science. But is the marking focus today correct???? It appears to promote rote learning eg. memorise the standard answers for given set of questions. That is really stifling. -
I wouldn't want to know where my son stands in the percentile for academics...unless the percentile is for his weight/height :rotflmao:
IP schools have their own curriculum. 1) I know my son doesn't belong to IP.
2) If my son badly needs help for Eng, I can still get tutor if he takes the O level route.