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    Spouse or Kids? Which comes first?

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    • NebbermindN Offline
      Nebbermind
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      3Boys:


      Make strict plans to spend alone time together. Go out for a movie, plan a dinner date. Take care of your appearance, dress nicely, put on some makeup. Be nice to each other, be considerate, don't let disagreements fester. Be flirty, give him THAT look, show a bit of skin.

      Can lah, you already did it before marriage, just get back to it lor.
      More skin can also come in a diff package....like my wife....she's grown BIGGER! šŸ˜‰

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        3Boys:
        janet_lee88:

        [quote=\"SBKS\"]1 way to see it is that u are related by blood to your kids. not to your partner.


        so more effort is require to be with ur partner. so spouse comes first for me.

        True true true.
        It does take effort to keep sparks going. We love our kids but we should love spouse more. Sometimes I wonder how do couples keep romance going with kids. Any suggestions?

        Make strict plans to spend alone time together. Go out for a movie, plan a dinner date. Take care of your appearance, dress nicely, put on some makeup. Be nice to each other, be considerate, don't let disagreements fester. Be flirty, give him THAT look, show a bit of skin.

        Can lah, you already did it before marriage, just get back to it lor.[/quote]Time to ask him to get me new clothes, perfume and makeup hor ?

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          3Boys
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          janet_lee88:
          3Boys:



          Make strict plans to spend alone time together. Go out for a movie, plan a dinner date. Take care of your appearance, dress nicely, put on some makeup. Be nice to each other, be considerate, don't let disagreements fester. Be flirty, give him THAT look, show a bit of skin.

          Can lah, you already did it before marriage, just get back to it lor.

          Time to ask him to get me new clothes, perfume and makeup hor ?

          Give him a wink and a nod and he'll be eating out of your hands šŸ˜‰

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          • FunzF Offline
            Funz
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            Nebbermind:
            3Boys:



            Make strict plans to spend alone time together. Go out for a movie, plan a dinner date. Take care of your appearance, dress nicely, put on some makeup. Be nice to each other, be considerate, don't let disagreements fester. Be flirty, give him THAT look, show a bit of skin.

            Can lah, you already did it before marriage, just get back to it lor.

            More skin can also come in a diff package....like my wife....she's grown BIGGER! šŸ˜‰

            šŸ˜‚ So bad.

            In that case so is DH!

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            • janet88J Offline
              janet88
              last edited by

              Took a pic of hubby for my iphone...to show when he calls. He said, 'what :yikes: my white hair is showing and I have wrinkles. I look so old.'

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                Lilac66
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                3Boys:
                janet_lee88:


                Time to ask him to get me new clothes, perfume and makeup hor ?

                Give him a wink and a nod and he'll be eating out of your hands šŸ˜‰

                If I give my DH a wink, he may scurry to get me some eye-drops first. How's that for a very caring hubby? :rotflmao:

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                  Lilac66
                  last edited by

                  Nebbermind:
                  3Boys:



                  Make strict plans to spend alone time together. Go out for a movie, plan a dinner date. Take care of your appearance, dress nicely, put on some makeup. Be nice to each other, be considerate, don't let disagreements fester. Be flirty, give him THAT look, show a bit of skin.

                  Can lah, you already did it before marriage, just get back to it lor.

                  More skin can also come in a diff package....like my wife....she's grown BIGGER! šŸ˜‰

                  So your wifey has been showing SO much skin w/o any prompting, isn't it good? šŸ˜†

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                  • FunzF Offline
                    Funz
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                    buds:
                    indigoblue:

                    [quote=\"3Boys\"]
                    Indigo blue, you have a PM šŸ˜‰

                    ...thank you! šŸ˜„

                    What's this magic PM that I didn't get?

                    It got Indigo blue winking![/quote]Budsy, you have more moves up your sleeves to have your DH eating out of your hands than anyone here, why you wanna know what 3boys PM indigoblue? You planning for #5?

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                    • janet88J Offline
                      janet88
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                      Lilac66:

                      If I give my DH a wink, he may scurry to get me some eye-drops first. How's that for a very caring hubby? :rotflmao:
                      That's a good one. If he doesn't get me eye drops, then he may ask if there is hair in my eye.
                      The other day, I held my hubby's arm while crossing the road...daughter asked, 'what? you don't know how to cross the road?'

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                        Lilac66
                        last edited by

                        janet_lee88:
                        Lilac66:


                        If I give my DH a wink, he may scurry to get me some eye-drops first. How's that for a very caring hubby? :rotflmao:

                        That's a good one. If he doesn't get me eye drops, then he may ask if there is hair in my eye.
                        The other day, I held my hubby's arm while crossing the road...daughter asked, 'what? you don't know how to cross the road?'

                        Another potential ē…žé£Žę™Æ member \"breeding\" in your house. šŸ˜‰

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