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    Spouse or Kids? Which comes first?

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      Imami
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      When I was in the delivery room, hubby was made to choose - wife or baby and I was made to choose - baby or me. That was one of the very few occasions my hubby wept. Strangely, I didn’t. I told him, no matter what happen, our child must live. So well…


      First forward to today, my choice is still the same.

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        PiggyLalala
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        Imami:
        When I was in the delivery room, hubby was made to choose - wife or baby and I was made to choose - baby or me. That was one of the very few occasions my hubby wept. Strangely, I didn't. I told him, no matter what happen, our child must live. So well...


        First forward to today, my choice is still the same.
        Thank god. 母子平安 😄
        For daughters, we worry for them when they give birth.
        And for sons, we worry for them when they go NS.

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          Imami
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          PiggyLalala:
          Imami:

          When I was in the delivery room, hubby was made to choose - wife or baby and I was made to choose - baby or me. That was one of the very few occasions my hubby wept. Strangely, I didn't. I told him, no matter what happen, our child must live. So well...


          First forward to today, my choice is still the same.

          Thank god. 母子平安 😄
          For daughters, we worry for them when they give birth.
          And for sons, we worry for them when they go NS.

          Thanks piggylalala. Indeed, 母子平安。

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            peapot
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            Imami:
            When I was in the delivery room, hubby was made to choose - wife or baby and I was made to choose - baby or me. That was one of the very few occasions my hubby wept. Strangely, I didn't. I told him, no matter what happen, our child must live. So well...


            First forward to today, my choice is still the same.
            Wow! Didn't know you had to go through this. Luckily all ends well. I thought these days science is so advanced that labour seems almost prob free. Guess I was wrong.

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              SBKS
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              Imami:
              When I was in the delivery room, hubby was made to choose - wife or baby and I was made to choose - baby or me. That was one of the very few occasions my hubby wept. Strangely, I didn't. I told him, no matter what happen, our child must live. So well...


              First forward to today, my choice is still the same.
              hi, thank god that both of you are fine. the whole family is fine.

              for me, i prep myself and decided for the above scenario. my DW. with my DW ard, we can then decide to have another one or not to.

              to me and my perspective is, child can adopt, wife cant. sorry in advance if i offended anyone.

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                buds
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                buds:
                indigoblue:

                [quote=\"3Boys\"]
                Indigo blue, you have a PM 😉

                ...thank you! 😄

                What's this magic PM that I didn't get?

                It got Indigo blue winking![/quote]
                Funz:
                , you have more moves up your sleeves to have your DH eating out of your hands than anyone here, why you wanna know what 3boys PM indigoblue? You planning for #5?
                :whut: I have? :skeptical:

                :whut: No 5!!! :yikes:

                Mebbe i just want more moves...
                To my advantage... :evil:

                Or mebbe i just kpo. :oops:

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                  schweppes
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                  Just asked the dear hubby this...


                  ME: so how? if me no more va-va-voom? 😓

                  DH: it's ok. as long as still can vroom-vroom together :faint:

                  :love:

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                    schweppes
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                    3Boys:


                    Definitely agrees out the smile part. Ladies, you dun need a bombshell figure, a pleasant friendly attitude and taking a little care of appearances does wonders.
                    That plus a good hair cut (need not be expensive) and lipstick... and no grotty and holey t-shirts. Unless holey in the right places. haha 😉

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                      schweppes
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                      janet_lee88:
                      Couples would have entered another stage of marriage...past that tinkle-tinkle spicy newly-married romance. With present stage with school-going kids, I do deposit them at parents' place for a break from them.

                      Sometimes, I get hubby to apply leave to spend time together shopping...looking at our stuff. NO children dept.
                      Uh... and that includes NO going to Popular bookstore too!! 🦆 :siam:

                      😉

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                        buds
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                        schweppes:
                        janet_lee88:

                        Couples would have entered another stage of marriage...past that tinkle-tinkle spicy newly-married romance. With present stage with school-going kids, I do deposit them at parents' place for a break from them.

                        Sometimes, I get hubby to apply leave to spend time together shopping...looking at our stuff. NO children dept.

                        Uh... and that includes NO going to Popular bookstore too!! 🦆 :siam:

                        😉

                        Wah leow! :rotflmao:

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