All About ADHD : Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder
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Child is perfectionist in penmanship (though did not train her for that) to the extend of slowing down her work when she concentrates. This program seems to focus on patterns rather than writing, wonder if it would help with the concentration problem that child has…
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After finding out more on homeopathy, it seems to be not scientifically proven.
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Hi all
Any parents with children with ADHD pls shares your experiences with mainstream education and their learning ability.
Thank u,
Terex -
I think you can consider deferring Pri One enrollment if your child is very immature for his/her age. I’m referring to social interaction & interests. Eg he acts a bit like preschooler (3-4 yr old) & has difficulties in impulse control or disruptive behaviors.
Most kids with borderline IQ and ADHD should be able to ‘cope’ cos there are no formal exams. With good home & school support, they should be able to pass Pri 3 or 4. It will help if you moderate expectations.
Kids with behavioral or attention difficulties will be more manageable & will perform better if they have more time to master basics in preschool. Other predictors are self-help skills, literacy & numeracy skills at end K2, spoken language skills -
Mummies, how are ADHD diagnosed here?
My child has been referred to see a specialist but i was told early intervention helps in his learning. We were initially skeptical and reluctant to send him for review though he did display ADHD-like symptons but we thought its common for active kids to behave like that.
Recently, his kindy told us he has learning disabilities and has assigned a social worker to work with us. Arrgh…
How would early intervention help ?
Would that labelling of ADHD hurt more then help ? -
Littlefly:
how old is your child and what kind of learning disabilities?Mummies, how are ADHD diagnosed here?
My child has been referred to see a specialist but i was told early intervention helps in his learning. We were initially skeptical and reluctant to send him for review though he did display ADHD-like symptons but we thought its common for active kids to behave like that.
Recently, his kindy told us he has learning disabilities and has assigned a social worker to work with us. Arrgh...
How would early intervention help ?
Would that labelling of ADHD hurt more then help ?
specialist cannot make diagnosis for ADHD for kids below 7yrs old (they can rule out, but they cannot confirm diagnosis for kids below this age). from our last appointment with our specialist, the therapist concluded that my boy is high energy and not possibly ADHD and asked if we want to discharge from NUH. we asked for a last appointment next year for final assessment when kid starts Primary 1 (we dont want p1 teacher to jump back at us to go back to seek 2nd opinion on his behaviour, and then start queuing again).
my ds2's teacher and principal appeal for us to seek 2nd opinion when he was just in Nursery 1. i admit that he behaved a bit quirky and lack in eye contact. he made marked improvement when he hit the 3.5yo mark and made tremendous progress (including seatwork, reasoning skills...even remembering friend's names, he could only at end of K1) that his teachers and the Principal are very impressed. i reflected on my parenting skills, instilled some/major changes in our life to thinking back, feel very emotional (with pride) when i see how far my little boy has come to since he first got 'labelled'. however, his speaking ability never take off (he had speech delay).
ours could be a case of misdiagnosed (that son is never ADHD to start with), or he is at the end of the spectrum, or just high energy, or bad parenting skills, or he responded well to my regime...i don't know. but i can share with you what i did.
u can pm me if u just want to talk. -
Jedamum, thanks for ur kind offer.
My boy is 5 this year. Haven’t met w social worker yet but he has alot of challenges w writing.
Not sure if he has dysgraphia coz he writes with a lot of effort n v slowly.
My boy has been v active or can be hyper. Lacks focus n concentration. Interrupts conversation. Hates boring, repetitive tasks n cant sit quietly to do work or play by himself. V high maintenance.
I tried playing games to challenge him like who moves/talks first lose and he has never won. He can’t sit still or stop talking. If he’s quiet, either he has dozed off or having high fever. He can self entertain himself n talk to himself while his classmate are napping. He can focus if he’s building his Lego. Otherwise he can’t stop fidgeting.
I don’t know if that’s poor parenting by us. He tries to obey instructions but only for a while then reverts back to ‘misbehaving’. I used to brush it off until his GP recommended us to have him assessed coz he was still behaving in a hyper manner when unwell.
I read that if it doesnt impact a child’s learning then it’s not ADHD. -
Littlefly:
Jedamum, thanks for ur kind offer.
My boy is 5 this year. Haven't met w social worker yet but he has alot of challenges w writing.
Not sure if he has dysgraphia coz he writes with a lot of effort n v slowly.
My boy has been v active or can be hyper. Lacks focus n concentration. Interrupts conversation. Hates boring, repetitive tasks n cant sit quietly to do work or play by himself. V high maintenance.
I tried playing games to challenge him like who moves/talks first lose and he has never won. He can't sit still or stop talking. If he's quiet, either he has dozed off or having high fever. He can self entertain himself n talk to himself while his classmate are napping. He can focus if he's building his Lego. Otherwise he can't stop fidgeting.
I don't know if that's poor parenting by us. He tries to obey instructions but only for a while then reverts back to 'misbehaving'. I used to brush it off until his GP recommended us to have him assessed coz he was still behaving in a hyper manner when unwell.
I read that if it doesnt impact a child's learning then it's not ADHD.
ADHD will have its impact on a child's learning depending on how serious and the IQ level of a child. Some kids can mask it for a much longer period of time as their grades don't show initially. But eventually it will due to their lack of focus and the heavy workload from school.
All ADHD kids have average and above IQ scores. If they don't clear their IQ test, they are not ADHD from my understanding.
Although there is no cure, it will get better will age. Something to look forward to. -
Littlefly,
You are right to state that if it does not impact learning, they cannot rule adhd. My boy scored high in academic areas as being my second kid, I have experience and resources to give him a headstart. Being a sahm helps too.
His chinese teacher note that he is busy minding his friends and not paying attention in class. But he knows his stuff, so it makes a difference.huge difference compared to the days when he was blur and could not speak - I got feedback everyday wrt this and really felt demoralize. We are very fortunate to subsequentlymeet great teachers who know how to handle him. And gave him plenty of encouragement and praises. He did get into major troublewith one of the classmates but thank goodness the parents were very forgiving when we apologised.
My boy is never lethargic when sick. He behave normally. Just behave like my elder boy in his normal mode.
I give my boy fish oil supplements that claims to enhance concentration level. He does not eat sweets or snacks. Strict tv regime too.
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