All About Autism

[Double E]

Helplessmum

What kind of job is your husband looking for? Finding a job is hard but if he is willing to do anything, I am sure there will be jobs for him. It is better than staying at home, get his frustrations bottled up and take out on the son.

[Double E]

Lavendery,

Thanks for opening up about your hubby with us.

About subsidy, you should be entitled although may not be as much. Perhaps you can share with the social worker about your situation and see what they can do.

And are u able to ask for some allowance from your hubby although u are no longer staying together?

[jme]

Helplessmum, how about considering renting out your place, stay with your parents for the time being. Money can be quite substantial if u rent out the whole unit n this might help u alot

[jme]

Lavendery, have u thought of putting your girl in the integrated child care? I was considering rainbow but I needed to pay close to $1k without much sibsidy too. In the end I chose integ cc cos there is $300 working mum subsidy from govt. The cc provides ot, st too

[lavendery]

helplessmum3:

How to get adult to get diagnosed ?


What is husband working as now? How old is he?

Try to go thru the subsidized route. Can refer to Polyclinic and get diagnosed at IMH.

I'm sure your husband is actively looking for jobs but its near year end now. Lots of people won't be quiting as they are waiting for 13th mth bonus. He will have better luck next year

[mashy]

Lavendry


U are very kind. If I were u, I would have divorced him already. Didn’t his family tell u or even hinted to u anything?

Can u ask for some sort of maintenance from him for your gal at least? Does he still see his gal?

[helplessmum3]

My hub can’t any take up any job end up I will to suffer cuz he sure will hav unhappy about the job.


I can’t rent my house its will be a long process … Inorder to rent I need to rearrange n pack up a lot of things I don’t have the time to do it now. My mother stay in 2 room flat w my brother who is just a delivery man … My mother is very sick she has diabete n knee problem always fainting a lot of health problem …

Eipic ceiling is very bad… I still have to pay 300 a month n bus fee 80… A lot of money for me already cuz my son still need full day care cuz he go rainbow Monday to wed from 315 to 515…I work at 6pm from 9am…

See double e, only pay 400++ but dual income de… They shd review the calculation

[helplessmum3]

double e, u really hit the key word"bottled up"

[helplessmum3]

jme, what is integrated child care? where is it what the name, so special has OT & SLT… i duno about it all

[helplessmum3]

Lavendary,


i guess is not your husband who behind all these. Guess is his parents. they are very mean