PSLE 2012 - Results Discussion
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Sun_2010:
Ya lor. Very worrying. It has repercussion to the society not to mention their own kiddos.SAHM_TAN:
I will be very worried if scores of pple are depressed if they are not able to be in the top 10%.
I-am-in-an-rambling-mood-today. So allow me ramble :please:
The point is would you be very worried if scores of parents are depressed that their DCs are not in the top 10%?
If so , time to start worrying
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I’m not suggesting not to aim high or not to be ambitious or whatever that will make our ctry great. But to be depressed over not being in the top 10% is not healthy. Of course depression in itself is not healthy but to be depressed over the 10% thing is doubly unhealthy.
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SAHM_TAN:
I'm not suggesting not to aim high or not to be ambitious or whatever that will make our ctry great. But to be depressed over not being in the top 10% is not healthy. Of course depression in itself is not healthy but to be depressed over the 10% thing is doubly unhealthy.
When I took my psle in 08 and got 254 and was top 10% my mom cried in disappointment because I couldn't go into the top schools... End up I was actually ok with my score then become depressed over it. -
Skyed:
I hope you are no longer depressed over it.SAHM_TAN:
I'm not suggesting not to aim high or not to be ambitious or whatever that will make our ctry great. But to be depressed over not being in the top 10% is not healthy. Of course depression in itself is not healthy but to be depressed over the 10% thing is doubly unhealthy.
When I took my psle in 08 and got 254 and was top 10% my mom cried in disappointment because I couldn't go into the top schools... End up I was actually ok with my score then become depressed over it. -
Skyed:
:grphug:SAHM_TAN:
I'm not suggesting not to aim high or not to be ambitious or whatever that will make our ctry great. But to be depressed over not being in the top 10% is not healthy. Of course depression in itself is not healthy but to be depressed over the 10% thing is doubly unhealthy.
When I took my psle in 08 and got 254 and was top 10% my mom cried in disappointment because I couldn't go into the top schools... End up I was actually ok with my score then become depressed over it. -
SAHM_TAN:
I hope you are no longer depressed over it.[/quote]Nah, PSLE doesn't really count for much in secondary school. The year I was in Sec 1 was placed in the third class in SCGS. Then there were like 5 people who entered the school with scores of 260+ dropping to the 3rd last class because they heck care and play. And there were those who from 3rd last or 2nd last class (scores of 210-220 for PSLE) improved to the 3rd best class in sec 2.Skyed:
[quote=\"SAHM_TAN\"]I'm not suggesting not to aim high or not to be ambitious or whatever that will make our ctry great. But to be depressed over not being in the top 10% is not healthy. Of course depression in itself is not healthy but to be depressed over the 10% thing is doubly unhealthy.
When I took my psle in 08 and got 254 and was top 10% my mom cried in disappointment because I couldn't go into the top schools... End up I was actually ok with my score then become depressed over it. -
SAHM_TAN:
Ya lor. Very worrying. It has repercussion to the society not to mention their own kiddos.[/quote]I have a friend who cried for 3 mths over the child's poor PSLE result. To me, it wasn't even bad at all :oops: , it was about 250. I guess it's all about managing expectations. I wonder how the child felt. :sad:Sun_2010:
[quote=\"SAHM_TAN\"] I will be very worried if scores of pple are depressed if they are not able to be in the top 10%.
I-am-in-an-rambling-mood-today. So allow me ramble :please:
The point is would you be very worried if scores of parents are depressed that their DCs are not in the top 10%?
If so , time to start worrying
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Skyed:
Nah, PSLE doesn't really count for much in secondary school. The year I was in Sec 1 was placed in the third class in SCGS. Then there were like 5 people who entered the school with scores of 260+ dropping to the 3rd last class because they heck care and play. And there were those who from 3rd last or 2nd last class (scores of 210-220 for PSLE) improved to the 3rd best class in sec 2.[/quote]Good to hear that you are fighting strong
I hope you are no longer depressed over it.SAHM_TAN:
[quote=\"Skyed\"]
When I took my psle in 08 and got 254 and was top 10% my mom cried in disappointment because I couldn't go into the top schools... End up I was actually ok with my score then become depressed over it. -
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Good to hear that you are fighting strong[/quote]Now I'm just awaiting my O level results... So anxious lol. -
Skyed:
Now I'm just awaiting my O level results... So anxious lol.[/quote]All the best to you.[quote]
Good to hear that you are fighting strong
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