In-law problems?

[KSmom8]

erista:

I can scold my parents & highlight my displeasure to them & my parents though may sometimes get angry about it, but they are reasonable & do admit that they are in the wrong & vice versa. My hubby has no problems speaking to my parents, though he don't argue with them like I do but he is comfortable around them. My dad & him are rather much peas in a pod sometimes... Lol maybe that's why I married him?


For my in-laws, my hubby totally scared of his parents & dunno how to talk to them at all. If I were to voice out anything, no matter how tactfully said or even if they blantly wrong... They will say that I'm wrong & I'm being disrespectful, evil & trying to poison their son etc...

IMO \"in-law problems\" are created due to differences in character, point of view & up-bringing. I've been brought up to be able to speak freely to my parents, whereas hubby was brought up in fear of his parents.

Different upbringing, values and \"culture\". If Hubby's side have disagreements, they will end up having cold wars. Don't speak to each other for weeks and even months, SIL vs MIL, between SILs, SIL vs DH, even though SILs and MIL live in same house. If my side have disagreements, there's unhappiness, but cold wars are rare and if there's one, last only a few days. We forgive and forget, and agree to disagree. When I started noticing this (after marriage), I was so very thankful that I didn't live with ILs. Don't want my kids to grow up with such values.

[janet88]

Hygiene or should I say, the lack of it pisses me off.

Hubby told me his brother can wear underwear on both sides...can CHIEF please create one simile with a face showing 'puke' look? I was shocked when he told me that. The mother said it's ok. :faint:
What matters more to her is WHO can give her MORE money.

I am definitely happier not having to care...have reason not to care. Since I am insignificant, all the more better for me. Get to keep my sanity.

[Ran1977]

janet_lee88:

Hygiene or should I say, the lack of it pisses me off.

Hubby told me his brother can wear underwear on both sides...can CHIEF please create one simile with a face showing 'puke' look? I was shocked when he told me that. The mother said it's ok. :faint:
What matters more to her is WHO can give her MORE money.

yucks!

[SaltySalt]

Ran1977:

janet_lee88:

Hygiene or should I say, the lack of it pisses me off.

Hubby told me his brother can wear underwear on both sides...can CHIEF please create one simile with a face showing 'puke' look? I was shocked when he told me that. The mother said it's ok. :faint:
What matters more to her is WHO can give her MORE money.

yucks!

omg :stupid:

[mummy OnABudget]

SaltySalt:

Ran1977:

[quote=\"janet_lee88\"]Hygiene or should I say, the lack of it pisses me off.

Hubby told me his brother can wear underwear on both sides...can CHIEF please create one simile with a face showing 'puke' look? I was shocked when he told me that. The mother said it's ok. :faint:
What matters more to her is WHO can give her MORE money.

yucks!

omg :stupid:[/quote]Just like my bil who including his shirt can be worn 3days to a week without changing thank god i am not staying with him .

[janet88]

I remember when I went to hubby-then-boyfriend's place...I could puke when I stepped into the flat. He stinks !!! I boiled up when I saw him wearing the clothes I bought for my hubby :mad:

That dirty fella is spoilt brat...the mother condones all the sickening things.

[mummy OnABudget]

janet_lee88:

I remember when I went to hubby-then-boyfriend's place...I could puke when I stepped into the flat. He stinks !!! I boiled up when I saw him wearing the clothes I bought for my hubby :mad:

That dirty fella is spoilt brat...the mother condones all the sickening things.

janet same la till i told dh off

[janet88]

mummy OnABudget:

janet_lee88:

I remember when I went to hubby-then-boyfriend's place...I could puke when I stepped into the flat. He stinks !!! I boiled up when I saw him wearing the clothes I bought for my hubby :mad:

That dirty fella is spoilt brat...the mother condones all the sickening things.

janet same la till i told dh off

his sickening brother always takes advantage of hubby...while building up his own bank account. whether that fella likes it or not, i am putting my foot down...when my hubby bought that galaxy tablet, that fella wanted it :mad: i told hubby NO WAY.

[Nebbermind]

Wah! So shameless? Does he have a job?

[janet88]

Nebbermind:

Wah! So shameless? Does he have a job?

he doesn't know what is shame lah...damn sponger all these years.
oh he has a job alright...married but childless...plenty of dough if you know what i am referring to. told hubby NOT to tell him what he bought...sickening idiot. that idiot has several mobile lines...like some ah long.