In-law problems?

[mummy OnABudget]

janet_lee88:

I remember when I went to hubby-then-boyfriend's place...I could puke when I stepped into the flat. He stinks !!! I boiled up when I saw him wearing the clothes I bought for my hubby :mad:

That dirty fella is spoilt brat...the mother condones all the sickening things.

janet same la till i told dh off

[janet88]

mummy OnABudget:

janet_lee88:

I remember when I went to hubby-then-boyfriend's place...I could puke when I stepped into the flat. He stinks !!! I boiled up when I saw him wearing the clothes I bought for my hubby :mad:

That dirty fella is spoilt brat...the mother condones all the sickening things.

janet same la till i told dh off

his sickening brother always takes advantage of hubby...while building up his own bank account. whether that fella likes it or not, i am putting my foot down...when my hubby bought that galaxy tablet, that fella wanted it :mad: i told hubby NO WAY.

[Nebbermind]

Wah! So shameless? Does he have a job?

[janet88]

Nebbermind:

Wah! So shameless? Does he have a job?

he doesn't know what is shame lah...damn sponger all these years.
oh he has a job alright...married but childless...plenty of dough if you know what i am referring to. told hubby NOT to tell him what he bought...sickening idiot. that idiot has several mobile lines...like some ah long.

[Desserts]

Like straffan, My out laws also loved to bring my kids out without asking. They think it s their right. My mil kept saying she s very modern in her thinking, my foot! She doesn't know what s respect too. Our relationship soured so much throughout the years because they want their way in bringing up our kids!


Also, pils loves to say so and so went to haw chong ip, ri, and puts down on dd. Dd is not very good in science, scored 60s, then she told dd,\" how come your father s sci so good, yours like that! Why you do so much revision, your results so so only!\" I grit my teeth and want to answer back, but refrained.
Haiz, since she didn't have Dds, I try my best to bring her for pedicures, massages and invite her with a smile EVERY TIME she gate crashes, she seems to be wanting more and step over the boundaries!

I suspect mils behave like that because their mils treated them this way, so they think it's alright to treat dils this way. I hope I won't behave like that next time :roll:

My bil is also shameless, he brings different gfs home each time and my mil condones it :slapshead: . We had to tell our kids this is not good.

[janet88]

Desserts:

My bil is also shameless, he brings different gfs home each time and my mil condones it :slapshead: . We had to tell our kids this is not good.

hubby's youngest bro stayed at home and his mother treated him like a king...not my problem as long as he doesn't get on my nerves...the mother used to go to his place to clean up and iron his clothes.

[SaltySalt]

Desserts:

Like straffan, My out laws also loved to bring my kids out without asking. They think it s their right. My mil kept saying she s very modern in her thinking, my foot! She doesn't know what s respect too. Our relationship soured so much throughout the years because they want their way in bringing up our kids!


Also, pils loves to say so and so went to haw chong ip, ri, and puts down on dd. Dd is not very good in science, scored 60s, then she told dd,\" how come your father s sci so good, yours like that! Why you do so much revision, your results so so only!\" I grit my teeth and want to answer back, but refrained.
Haiz, since she didn't have Dds, I try my best to bring her for pedicures, massages and invite her with a smile EVERY TIME she gate crashes, she seems to be wanting more and step over the boundaries!

I suspect mils behave like that because their mils treated them this way, so they think it's alright to treat dils this way. I hope I won't behave like that next time :roll:

My bil is also shameless, he brings different gfs home each time and my mil condones it :slapshead: . We had to tell our kids this is not good.

I think by the time its our turn to be others' mil, I think we would look back and not be like them.

[janet88]

I dare not think so far…but daughter-in-law will definitely be different compared with daughter. My mum will nag or scold, or I can tell her I am unhappy she did something…no grudges. Try doing that with daughter in law.

My hubby is ok with my mum…he knows she cares about him…like when he went for eye op, my mum cooked and prepared tonic for him…visiting him at hospital when his own mother couldn’t be bothered.

[auntieM]

My MIL is the only person who laughs at my DS's front teeth everytime she sees him..without fail. Despite explaining to her numerous times that we can only correct the teeth in a couple of years, and considering he had such a bad fall, having the teeth surviving with a slight gap was really lucky.. :slapshead:

My DS hates meeting her nowadays.. What kind of grandma is that?
We last met up on New Year's Day and she had a few good laughs during the meal. I snapped at her and told her he will be not be 'ba gay' in a couple of years so please enjoy laughing at him while she can. A slight gap is 'ba gay', so how about those more 'serious' conditions? She stopped laughing.. ...

Sorry for ranting.. ...got to get it out... :stompfeet:

[janet88]

auntieM:

My DS hates meeting her nowadays.. What kind of grandma is that?

We last met up on New Year's Day and she had a few good laughs during the meal. I snapped at her and told her he will be not be 'ba gay' in a couple of years so please enjoy laughing at him while she can. A slight gap is 'ba gay', so how about those more 'serious' conditions? She stopped laughing.. ...

Sorry for ranting.. ...got to get it out... :stompfeet:

it's ok, auntieM. we do need to get it out or else risk going insane.
why is the paternal grandmother so insensitive?