Feedback from wife

[Linlin]

lasery2k:

joule,


he was holding on to a manager post before he burn his fingers at the stocks..

train like a dog??...i m training the bull more like it..

ya..the previous big quarrel was on that loh..i think just 1 or 2 mths back only..told him his weakness and told him how much we needed him n stuffs...ended up tt selfish bugger tell mi, he's sick n tired of the company and for this just once he wanna do things his way..he wanna be happy working and not dread going to work.

if i had gone thru all his craps mention above, the first instance to me was how long is he going to stay jobless again and my pathetic pay is going to feed the whole family again..and i have to go thru the shit again when i finally see light.

i just literally burst everything out at him loh...tt time was so so so angry..

Maybe u can try to sit down and talk to him about future. He can't hop and hop like this everytime. No one love to work but if don't work then how to pay bills etc..

[Linlin]

2013jjang:

Came across this thread and thought I would just ride on...


Super pissed w e man at home.
My house has lots n lots of new & old stuff that never use.
Recently I found some lobangs to sell off some of the things to recover back at least some $$, if not the things are oso collecting dust at home.

I just told him I sold off sth for a certain amount, ok frankly I oso dunno if that is the \"market\" price, but I saw different sellers have asked for a variation of prices so I just asked for something comfortable.

That thing was in the house for a number of years already and no one ever do anything about it. When I told him I sold that thing off for that amount, instead of being glad that we had recovered some $$ for things we dun use, instead he asked me, \"is that price worth? How much did we pay for it?\"

Very pissed upon hearing that. Come on, I mean, if I hadn't sell it off, it will sit in our house for dunno how long more, before it eventually ends up with, at best Salvation army, garang guni or at worst as trash!

He would nvr bother to think of how to declutter the house or turn around things with $$. Anyway that particular item, one can nvr expect to make profits from selling it off, it's SECOND HAND.

He is one that doesn't know how and doesn't bother about selling things off to recover $$. Then can't he at least be appreciative of what I have done? His reaction disappoints me!

Cheer up

[Just relax]

2013jjang:

Came across this thread and thought I would just ride on...


Super pissed w e man at home.
My house has lots n lots of new & old stuff that never use.
Recently I found some lobangs to sell off some of the things to recover back at least some $$, if not the things are oso collecting dust at home.

I just told him I sold off sth for a certain amount, ok frankly I oso dunno if that is the \"market\" price, but I saw different sellers have asked for a variation of prices so I just asked for something comfortable.

That thing was in the house for a number of years already and no one ever do anything about it. When I told him I sold that thing off for that amount, instead of being glad that we had recovered some $$ for things we dun use, instead he asked me, \"is that price worth? How much did we pay for it?\"

Very pissed upon hearing that. Come on, I mean, if I hadn't sell it off, it will sit in our house for dunno how long more, before it eventually ends up with, at best Salvation army, garang guni or at worst as trash!

He would nvr bother to think of how to declutter the house or turn around things with $$. Anyway that particular item, one can nvr expect to make profits from selling it off, it's SECOND HAND.

He is one that doesn't know how and doesn't bother about selling things off to recover $$. Then can't he at least be appreciative of what I have done? His reaction disappoints me!

Don't be surprised by reaction. He was probably paiseh :oops: that he never came up with such a good idea himself!

[3Boys]

Joule:

my female friends say men are like dogs, can be trained one

Woof woof....

[buds]

3Boys:

Joule:

my female friends say men are like dogs, can be trained one

Woof woof....

http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys.php

[3Boys]

buds:

3Boys:

[quote=\"Joule\"]
my female friends say men are like dogs, can be trained one

Woof woof....

http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys.php[/quote]

[Mawar]

I am not being cheeky, but how and why do you want train your men?

[Joule]

Woof woof....[/quote]


http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys.php[/quote]

[/quote]

Pavlov dog theory

[rains]

2013jjang:

Came across this thread and thought I would just ride on...


Super pissed w e man at home.
My house has lots n lots of new & old stuff that never use.
Recently I found some lobangs to sell off some of the things to recover back at least some $$, if not the things are oso collecting dust at home.

I just told him I sold off sth for a certain amount, ok frankly I oso dunno if that is the \"market\" price, but I saw different sellers have asked for a variation of prices so I just asked for something comfortable.

That thing was in the house for a number of years already and no one ever do anything about it. When I told him I sold that thing off for that amount, instead of being glad that we had recovered some $$ for things we dun use, instead he asked me, \"is that price worth? How much did we pay for it?\"

Very pissed upon hearing that. Come on, I mean, if I hadn't sell it off, it will sit in our house for dunno how long more, before it eventually ends up with, at best Salvation army, garang guni or at worst as trash!

He would nvr bother to think of how to declutter the house or turn around things with $$. Anyway that particular item, one can nvr expect to make profits from selling it off, it's SECOND HAND.

He is one that doesn't know how and doesn't bother about selling things off to recover $$. Then can't he at least be appreciative of what I have done? His reaction disappoints me!

Hey, at least he lets you sell off the stuff. Mine would tell me he still has use for those things when he hasn't used them for the last six years!

[rains]

Joule:

my female friends say men are like dogs, can be trained one

I say, they have to be trained. And early at that.

When I first got married, he expected me to pay the household bills and meals on my own. It took some training to make him get used to picking up the tabs. Sometimes I ask him,\"would you have asked me to pay /done this to me if I haven't married you?\" and he gets the idea. Till he finds a counter-argument for this, it's working fine.